i've lost..
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.. a good friend. a damn bloody good friend/sister, to be exact.
i wish her all the best. with her bf.
i hope she remembers the good times we had together.
she wasn't here for me when i most needed her. but i know she's done her best.
thanks.
i wonder how will the future be.
i hope u realised how i was always there for you at your lowest.
but in the future..
im not sure...
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what did you do to make you lost her?
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maybe you should ask her instead.Originally posted by rainee:what did you do to make you lost her?
i lost her.. to her guy.
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haiz.. poor thing...
have u tried 2 get her back...?
at least dun give up w/0 a figh? -
u mean u r also going after her is it?Originally posted by sunpastilles:maybe you should ask her instead.
i lost her.. to her guy.
then she chose the other guy instead of you?
but how come she cannot remain frens wif u leh? -
arent u the one who wasnt too sure about ur bf in the past?
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haha. we were damn good friends. we're both females. how can i go after her?Originally posted by rainee:u mean u r also going after her is it?
then she chose the other guy instead of you?
but how come she cannot remain frens wif u leh?
she now spends so much time with her bf. she doesnt realise my existence.. nope, not anymore..... -
she doesnt even realise im gone.. shes too engrossed with her new life together with the bf.Originally posted by yihao93:haiz.. poor thing...
have u tried 2 get her back...?
at least dun give up w/0 a figh? -
orh...tot u were a male...pai sehOriginally posted by sunpastilles:haha. we were damn good friends. we're both females. how can i go after her?
she now spends so much time with her bf. she doesnt realise my existence.. nope, not anymore.....
how old are both of you?
I think currently she is in her honeymoon period la, so definitely will want to spend more time with her bf...after that period you might find her calling you to go out with her again
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hello.Originally posted by Pitot:arent u the one who wasnt too sure about ur bf in the past?
haha. yup yup. still remember me ah.. haha. -
of course.
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thats what my friends said too. i dunno if im strong enough to be there for her in the future..Originally posted by rainee:orh...tot u were a male...pai seh
how old are both of you?
I think currently she is in her honeymoon period la, so definitely will want to spend more time with her bf...after that period you might find her calling you to go out with her again
thing is.. what am i? someone there for her always? but when shes got a new life of her own, im being put aside.
so many things we said to do together. now she's done all that, with him.
which i think, leaves no more space for me. -
ahaha. actually, i forgot which thread was that, which bf was that.Originally posted by Pitot:of course.
so how did it end up in the end? still with him?
anyway, im now happily single.. and unavailable. haha. -
Originally posted by sunpastilles:ahaha. actually, i forgot which thread was that, which bf was that.
anyway, im now happily single.. and unavailable. haha.
u mean u post every of them up here?
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haha. no lor. jus.. hmmm, about a couple of them that i was more serious with. LOL.Originally posted by Pitot: u mean u post every of them up here?
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oooOh.. haha.Originally posted by sunpastilles:haha. no lor. jus.. hmmm, about a couple of them that i was more serious with. LOL.
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why so free. saturday leh.Originally posted by Pitot:oooOh.. haha. -
went out for the whole nite yest. so today stay at home meditate?Originally posted by sunpastilles:why so free. saturday leh.
U too wad.
okie better not go off topic before we get ticked off.
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i know how u feel la, this is how I felt also last time...Originally posted by sunpastilles:thats what my friends said too. i dunno if im strong enough to be there for her in the future..
thing is.. what am i? someone there for her always? but when shes got a new life of her own, im being put aside.
so many things we said to do together. now she's done all that, with him.
which i think, leaves no more space for me.
well during the first few months at least your fren wud want to spend more time with the guy, so maybe you can find someone else to occupy your time? -
Its almost the same for guys. Just that we treat it differently. Usually its a grp of guys so once someone spends more time with his girl, when he comes back to the group he usually gets ticked off real badly for being Zhong Se Qing You
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TS herself already go off topic liao. oops, thats me.Originally posted by Pitot:went out for the whole nite yest. so today stay at home meditate?
U too wad.
okie better not go off topic before we get ticked off.
oh okay.
haha. ay. theres nth for me to do now la.
she's happy with her life like that can liao lor.....
now when she needs me... i also dunno if i will be there.. or not. -
yea lorOriginally posted by Pitot:Its almost the same for guys. Just that we treat it differently. Usually its a grp of guys so once someone spends more time with his girl, when he comes back to the group he usually gets ticked off real badly for being Zhong Se Qing You so need to find a balance between frens and r/s, tho i admit it is hard to do...
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muahahahaOriginally posted by rainee:yea lor so need to find a balance between frens and r/s, tho i admit it is hard to do...
will be worse if the gf is those that dun wan to allow her bf to meet his frens de
afterall, there are some things that your friends can do, but ur bf/gf can't -
if she is back and you are free, just go out and have fun with her...Originally posted by sunpastilles:TS herself already go off topic liao. oops, thats me.
oh okay.
haha. ay. theres nth for me to do now la.
she's happy with her life like that can liao lor.....
now when she needs me... i also dunno if i will be there.. or not.
if you are not, then can always say no...
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i dont need to find her only to occupy my time. i have lots of friends. its just that.. i miss her (im not a lesbian okayy) and different friends gimme different feelings ma..Originally posted by rainee:i know how u feel la, this is how I felt also last time...
well during the first few months at least your fren wud want to spend more time with the guy, so maybe you can find someone else to occupy your time?
hais actually theres a longgggg longgggg story behind this.
we were both tgt with this twin pair.
i got the elder bro, she got the younger one.
2 happy young couples. went bangkok together. many sleepovers. many dinners done.
but me and him broke up first. communicate breakdown i would say.
during the times when we were together, i already felt left out. i mentioned to her, she said i think too much. well thats becos she got treated like a queen cos the younger one really really loves her alot, he pays all his attention to her.
whereas mine.. he pays all his attention to the younger brother. (yes it sounds gay but he's not) he told me once before, he wont loves me as much as he loves his bro. well maybe between twins, they really have some special bond. i dont blame him. i just dont feel like a girlfriend.. not at all.
that was when.. i stopped loving him 100%. it was a really bad experience.. anyway, nowadays, the 3 of them are pretty happy together.. without me.
and i lost my best friend to them.. she spends so much time with him.. and my ex too.
maybe im just feeling all greens inside. i dunno. i just felt that... she's gone.... with/to them...
and becos of that... i wonder how am i going to hang out with her le.. our topics used to be about the boys. and now... what do we have in common? nothing.
its gonna be so hard to see her again.. i'll be reminded of my ex. though im pretty much over him.. but when i see her again, i dunno.. i just think that it'll bring back all those memories and.. sigh. i dunno.
this stinks.