Worrying of my gf past...
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hai all these is personal choices...Originally posted by xShevchenkox:ya james...this is normal..dun worry...look at sum forumities here...they too cnt accept a gal that has sex before...is alrite...no1 is gonna force u or wad...
but from wad u write...l could see the decision of urs clearly le.. ^^, rather than u saying u dun noe which is more worst bah..
ya..tinking back all those sex scenes with her ex bf is indeed a stressing issue...l agree
everyone have their own "deal-breakers" for some its, cheating, for some it's lying....
maybe this is you personal deal breaker...
but TS just remember, it's not the past that matters... it's the present....
unles she is sleeping around now, or is pressuring you to slp with her.... then i don't really see the problem....
but then again, I'm not you....
decide for yourself... do you love her enough to accept her past? -
Ya all up to personal choices, own opinions de...actually this kind of thing oso no right or wrong de...Originally posted by smudgey:hai all these is personal choices...
everyone have their own "deal-breakers" for some its, cheating, for some it's lying....
maybe this is you personal deal breaker...
but TS just remember, it's not the past that matters... it's the present....
unles she is sleeping around now, or is pressuring you to slp with her.... then i don't really see the problem....
but then again, I'm not you....
decide for yourself... do you love her enough to accept her past?
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You mighty be too immature to be having a relationship if you have this kind of attitude.Originally posted by James1:I'm sorry for the late reply, as I was in camp from mon - fri and thus I got only this time to reply you all. Firstly thanks for the scolding, it did wake up to my senses a little and some of you eventually ask am I first hand or not? Yes, I am. She is my 2nd girl, the 1st wan was from online so we don't meet up often, and I had never experience sex before, to worsen the circumstances, people often say sex is enjoyable and distress effectively from stress. Upon viewing censor scene from particular drama/movies, my mind often flash back the memory of her being touch, penetrate, blow job, moaning, finger...
You told me love her and accept for who she is, I tried my utmost but still no effect. -
l am not starting a quarrel or wad...Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:You mighty be too immature to be having a relationship if you have this kind of attitude.
l hope that andrew and sum of the others nt to flame him anymore..
l am not trying to promote my own beliefs or wad..
u cant say him as being inmature juz becos he mind..
plz tink what if this happened to ur ownself...dun say until like if u love her..u wont care abt all these and etc....
this is up to own personal choices de lor
l too oso wont accept a gal who has sex with another guy before...but that doesnt mean l am inmature
And oso TS has stated he himself has nver hav sex before..he is 1st hand oso..if he has sex before and he mind abt the gal...this 1 ...l wont support de...
l would oso say him...ownself oso nt 1st hand still wan to hiam his gf.. -
Originally posted by xShevchenkox:devil....let me tell u...is a sex beast
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James...
Have to understand that maybe you do have the 'money' to buy the 'big diamonds'... But such diamonds often comes in limited numbers.. You have money also might not be able to buy... Big diamonds might not be just sold to anyone with 'big money' too...? Sometimes it just happens that some big diamonds couldn't be bought by money....?
Try to appreciate the beauty of smaller diamonds..?