What did u do to forget a past relationship

• lonestar86

  11 Mar 07, 15:59

  i must say it's not easy to forget abt past r/s..
  
  below is my case..
  
  it has been 3 months+ since we broke up..
  and i thought i've already get over with it..
  i was wrong..
  
  yest, i visited her friendster..
  and i saw her photos..
  i saw her with another guy in the photo..
  they are so closed..
  
  my 1st reaction was.. ..
  my 2nd reaction was.. (i feel like killing that guy!!)
  
  i still have feelings for her..
• timble

  11 Mar 07, 16:07

  Hi Bontakun... well said... "forgive the person and forgive yourself". Sometimes its easier to forgive the person than yourself.
  How long did u take to decide?
  
  

  Originally posted by Bontakun:

  Its in the character and the 'love' you gave. The more you give, the more you will naturally expect back, thus the more pain you will feel and the longer it will lingers.
  
  Everybody have different ways to let it go. I just simply tell myself, "Move on, sucker. She is out of your life." Once I DECIDED that I make an effort to let it go and forgive all that had happened. I also thanked that it happened, good or bad, so that I learnt a valuable lesson.
  
  Learn to forgive. Its not easy to forget. Forgive the person and forgive yourself.