My love and My Money
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u were so blind by it to the extreme.
hmm, dun be too sad coz at least u learnt something from this cheat rite??
u gain experiences but paid a higher price.
money can be earned, but we live one time.
all u need is time, n u shall be healed.
take care ok.
how i wish i noe someone like u.
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o.oOriginally posted by altzspec:If you love someone, you will do the same as I do.
Would you sacrifice what you have for someone?
I know now my love is given to the wrong body.
I am now panting and tired with love.
I am so sad that I dare not move.
My tears are now flowing.
Valentine day will be my sick day..
Should I turn into a ghost and hunt Valentine Day with my sorrow and blood forever?
Ex bf gave me so much at least he got fantastic sex to speak of. You lagi best. Bo gan, nvm, GIVE ALL YOUR MONEY TO HER?! Fwah, peifu. -
you come here talk rubbish one or what sia.. trying to make him feel more depressed nia.Originally posted by Quinsy:o.o
Ex bf gave me so much at least he got fantastic sex to speak of. You lagi best. Bo gan, nvm, GIVE ALL YOUR MONEY TO HER?! Fwah, peifu.
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i feel that is pointless to think and talk about the money thingy anymore as what has done cant be undone. what u can do now, is to live your life to the fullest... Live for urself... stop thinking of someone who dun deserve.
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PS, I'm not being too helpful. >.<Originally posted by stellazio:you come here talk rubbish one or what sia.. trying to make him feel more depressed nia.
Know what, just take it as a very painful lesson learnt and move on. -
wow, love is blind?
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Dear altzspec,
Please dont do anything rash and consider the next few words i have for you carefully.
Despite what we may feel that love is a competition with others, may the best man win, it need not be so.
You may have lost your money and pride but those things are not neccessary the only reasons to motivative us to live. There are always pitfalls in life and i wont promise you that you will never encounter any more hardships in life after this, but only that you understand that you are now a wiser man and better prepared to face life's challenges with a keen eye perhaps even helping someone else in the future with a similar problem.
As for your sense of lost towards Love, i have only this to share:
Physical expression of love isnt always measured with wealth and lust, remember after all you are expecting to grow old together to the end of your days together.
Does Truth Love exist? Will i ever find it?
Yes it does. And no you will not find it.
It will find you.
Learn to appreciate others. First with yourself then with those close around you and most importantly your current family and that which you will create and belong to in the future.
I hope you will be able to overcome your aching heart and gain new perspectives in life.
best regards,
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Not all women are like the ones you've known... Not all of them are for materialistic catch and money...Originally posted by altzspec:I don think I can face a really nice girl now.
I am an honest person, and I would like her know my current situation.
Don think anyone would love me.
I have tried before. People have gone married, and I am still struggling.
Life is filled with hardship. Better end it fast, anyway everyone only has to die.
Isn it?
Why the hurry for marriage or even to get into another relationship...?
I think you should better give yourself time to heal and start life afresh... Think of the other stuffs only after you've re-collected yourself...?
Yes indeed. Life can be of hardship but yet also happiness. Everyone would have to die, but it's really how you die and what you've gained from life itself which makes the difference...
If you find all these too unbearable, perhaps you should really be calling up a professional from the helplines listed here...?
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Originally posted by altzspec:Hi Aunt Agony,
I know of a lady on the internet.
This lady I liked her very much, and have slaved for her.
I gave her all my savings.
Finally one day, I realised I shouldn't have done so.
And return to my senses.
I feel very down right now.
I have wasted 2 years of my hard earned money on a lady who
there is no love.
Just want to say this to everyone.
A lady will never repay back every single cent, and this world is free to them.
Guy need to always watch out for ladies who drain bf of money to buy gifts for them. Don't be like me. I am a loser.
rgds
rayboi
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go and join e AA single outing laOriginally posted by altzspec:If you love someone, you will do the same as I do.
Would you sacrifice what you have for someone?
I know now my love is given to the wrong body.
I am now panting and tired with love.
I am so sad that I dare not move.
My tears are now flowing.
Valentine day will be my sick day..
Should I turn into a ghost and hunt Valentine Day with my sorrow and blood forever? -
Empathy people....empathy.
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you pour your savings willing.Originally posted by altzspec:Hi Aunt Agony,
I know of a lady on the internet.
This lady I liked her very much, and have slaved for her.
I gave her all my savings.
Finally one day, I realised I shouldn't have done so.
And return to my senses.
I feel very down right now.
I have wasted 2 years of my hard earned money on a lady who
there is no love.
Just want to say this to everyone.
A lady will never repay back every single cent, and this world is free to them.
Guy need to always watch out for ladies who drain bf of money to buy gifts for them. Don't be like me. I am a loser.
rgds
rayboi
no one force you.
now she left you,you complain.
so whose fault?
you know that she is the type of girls who likes to play with guys.
YOu Even say that if you love the girl you will do the things you have done.
So why COMplain here? Since you admit that even you go back in time,
you will still do the same things again. Then why kick and shout for what?
COme on lar act like a man. -
Why did you give money to a girl on the internet?
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Poor thing. Learn from the experience and move on.
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You win laOriginally posted by altzspec:No I lose in the race to win her heart.
And we dont have sex.
I have given her the following:
1) $10,000 for a car deposit
2) $8000 for a earring
3) $1100 per month
4) $300 for christmas present
5) $3000 for her fitness trainer
6) unaccountable amt of money
7) My ATM Cards for her to burn.
7) Hard work to build her online website so that she can stay at home and don do work
You really got suckered big time
Your alarm bells should be ringing if the girl wants you to prove yr love by buying her so many expensive gifts
And she is not even yr gf
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if the gal really like you
once in a while not so expensive gift she will still like you
gift is to show that u still care about her
if she request too many gifts means she love your money -
Well....is good that u can wake up and realise all these things...Originally posted by altzspec:Hi Aunt Agony,
I know of a lady on the internet.
This lady I liked her very much, and have slaved for her.
I gave her all my savings.
Finally one day, I realised I shouldn't have done so.
And return to my senses.
I feel very down right now.
I have wasted 2 years of my hard earned money on a lady who
there is no love.
Just want to say this to everyone.
A lady will never repay back every single cent, and this world is free to them.
Guy need to always watch out for ladies who drain bf of money to buy gifts for them. Don't be like me. I am a loser.
rgds
rayboi
To Ts...not all woman are angels..sum are juz out to make use of guys, play with their feelings and cheat the $....so u juz hav to be very CAREFUL...
That is y when u will like to woo the gal...observe her character 1st...dun rush into a r/s so fast..wait and see 1st...
A woman that always need u to shower her with gifts and etc...is not worth ur time and efforts...u can juz walk away...she dun loves u...juz be with u becos of ur gifts and $...THIS KIND OF WOMAN....that nid gifts and $ to please them de are juz "sh!t"...l use this word to say abt them..
l tink Ts...u must be oso a weak guy...l was once a weak guy..and l am building up on this slowly...Gals dun like guys that are weak..dun be as if u in need of the gal...live for urself...Be more confident.. and even if u are in love with a gal..nver ever let love control ur head, be conscious and tink...
l want a gal is becos
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l wanted her to share my happiness and success with me....spending quality and fun times...NOT TO BE CONTROL and hav to listen to her tempers and see her FACE, neither is she needed to spend my $ to fulfil her own materialistic needs -
Mmm...Originally posted by M©+square:Empathy people....empathy. -
Hey bro... Cheerup... It not the end of life... There is two ways now... First turn your into a monster that target gal heart and money as revenge... Second ,get over back restart life and be normal... So which way will u choose??
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Originally posted by altzspec:Hi Aunt Agony,
I know of a lady on the internet.
This lady I liked her very much, and have slaved for her.
I gave her all my savings.
Finally one day, I realised I shouldn't have done so.
And return to my senses.
I feel very down right now.
I have wasted 2 years of my hard earned money on a lady who
there is no love.
Just want to say this to everyone.
A lady will never repay back every single cent, and this world is free to them.
Guy need to always watch out for ladies who drain bf of money to buy gifts for them. Don't be like me. I am a loser.
rgds
rayboi I sensed a soul longing for love and being exploited as a result.
The result of exploitation doesn't come from love; it comes from your desire.
I could sense that you are driven by loneliness to make a love attempt,
When you first communicated with her on the internet, it probably appeared like an opportunity to greater opportunities.
It seemed like a dream come true... to be able to catch those glimpse of hope, spelling out huge potential of a dream relationship.
Sadly, the cosmic nature of love and our personal karmic debts are almighty - it spares no one, even if you are verdant in love.
The lessons are costly, but should you not grow from your mistake and patch your emotional glitches, mark my words: you will continue to suffer in future relationship with woman, with similar reiterated lessons.
P.S: You need higher learning in love. I hope you understand what went wrong and not label yourself as loser and continue to live in that brand.
Cheers -
Wow... Give me you soul and I will get you rest.. Rest to the fullness....
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Poor Thing,how can a lady do that to u?
A lady with true love will never ask of more money from u!
I think u are too desperate for love that u forget some fundamental requirement in love.. Never just go for the physical appearance of a lady. A balance of heart and look will do best.
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why the f did u do thatOriginally posted by altzspec:Hi Aunt Agony,
I know of a lady on the internet.
This lady I liked her very much, and have slaved for her.
I gave her all my savings.
Finally one day, I realised I shouldn't have done so.
And return to my senses.
I feel very down right now.
I have wasted 2 years of my hard earned money on a lady who
there is no love.
Just want to say this to everyone.
A lady will never repay back every single cent, and this world is free to them.
Guy need to always watch out for ladies who drain bf of money to buy gifts for them. Don't be like me. I am a loser.
rgds
rayboi -
Thanks for the advice! It is good advice, I hope you use it!Originally posted by altzspec:Hi Aunt Agony,
I know of a lady on the internet.
This lady I liked her very much, and have slaved for her.
I gave her all my savings.
Finally one day, I realised I shouldn't have done so.
And return to my senses.
I feel very down right now.
I have wasted 2 years of my hard earned money on a lady who
there is no love.
Just want to say this to everyone.
A lady will never repay back every single cent, and this world is free to them.
Guy need to always watch out for ladies who drain bf of money to buy gifts for them. Don't be like me. I am a loser.
rgds
rayboi
It is not "never love a girl" it is "never try to buy a girl's heart with money"
It she likes you when you are penniless, I doubt that she will leave you because you have made it and become rich. If she likes you because you have money, chances are she will leave you if you become poor.
So the choice is yours.
Before you had the experience you were so brave as to go for a girl and now after being armed with all the experiences you turn coward? Duh!
If you think that no girl will want you because you have lost all your savings and all girls will not like a guy who has no savings; I submit that the problem lies with you that is why you get cheated so easily!
You have in your own head the idea that guys must have money (for girls to cheat) than they will love you.
Hello, most people that are married and most people having relationships with girls are happy in the situation. They are happy because girls are not like your ex(s). It is your own attitude problem, you expect girls to be like that that is why you go for these type of girls. You are too blinded to go for decent girls that are everywhere. So please don't blame the girls, just blame yourself and go look for decent girls for a long term relationship.
The type of girls you like are only for play play. They play with you because you have money to give them? Then play with them and give them the money. If you know that you and them are only playing, you will not be spending so much for play play would you? They are not for long term relationships! Only decent girls are for long term relationships. -
you would have been much richer if you had not done all the aboveOriginally posted by altzspec:No I lose in the race to win her heart.
And we dont have sex.
I have given her the following:
1) $10,000 for a car deposit
2) $8000 for a earring
3) $1100 per month
4) $300 for christmas present
5) $3000 for her fitness trainer
6) unaccountable amt of money
7) My ATM Cards for her to burn.
7) Hard work to build her online website so that she can stay at home and don do work
but all is not lost ! from onwards u can spend and save your own money