My love and My Money

• BadzMaro

  17 Feb 07, 09:28

  another case of USED n ABUSED..
  
  i am giving this college girl like 1K a month man. Now i know whats it like to keep a mistress..
  
  
• Sakuraflower

  17 Feb 07, 23:40

  the gal is really a cheater bug....
  
  haiz....
  
  then did u do anything??
  
  in the first place, why spend so much?
  
  
• soulwinner

  17 Feb 07, 23:45

  so have u screw her before?How much u loss all in total??
• altzspec

  25 Feb 07, 23:35

  total 20k++
  
  I am also helping to pay my exgf debt. paid for her 3k. And she treats me now like a fly..
  
  Being good really don worth it nowadays.
  
  Just hope woman are now more caring, and concern for their bf. and don take any cent.
• Xephone_xenon

  26 Feb 07, 00:33

  Originally posted by altzspec:

  Hi Aunt Agony,
  I know of a lady on the internet.
  This lady I liked her very much, and have slaved for her.
  I gave her all my savings.
  Finally one day, I realised I shouldn't have done so.
  And return to my senses.
  I feel very down right now.
  I have wasted 2 years of my hard earned money on a lady who
  there is no love.
  Just want to say this to everyone.
  A lady will never repay back every single cent, and this world is free to them.
  Guy need to always watch out for ladies who drain bf of money to buy gifts for them. Don't be like me. I am a loser.
  
  rgds
  rayboi

  Hey at least you are truthful to yourself on the loser part.
  
  Buck up.
• Sheepophile

  27 Feb 07, 23:22

  Originally posted by altzspec:

  No I lose in the race to win her heart.
  And we dont have sex.
  
  I have given her the following:
  1) $10,000 for a car deposit
  2) $8000 for a earring
  3) $1100 per month
  4) $300 for christmas present
  5) $3000 for her fitness trainer
  6) unaccountable amt of money
  7) My ATM Cards for her to burn.
  7) Hard work to build her online website so that she can stay at home and don do work

  really u cant blame her for your own, erm...lack of common sense. the amount u spent on her is equivalent to that of people keeping a mistress, and you dont even benefit from this relationship?
• sweetevil

  28 Feb 07, 17:55

  there is no win-win situation, and i think you should've learnt that by now. come away with me.
• the_fallen

  1 Mar 07, 18:15

  Originally posted by altzspec:

  No I lose in the race to win her heart.
  And we dont have sex.
  
  I have given her the following:
  1) $10,000 for a car deposit
  2) $8000 for a earring
  3) $1100 per month
  4) $300 for christmas present
  5) $3000 for her fitness trainer
  6) unaccountable amt of money
  7) My ATM Cards for her to burn.
  7) Hard work to build her online website so that she can stay at home and don do work

  you're considered a fool to give her so much money.
  
  unless you're super rich and born with a golden spoon than you're able to give
  
  but why give in the first place when you don't have at least a silver spoon?
  
  moreover, those ladies who accepts gifts and in-directly hints you that she likes this and that (do note if the gifts are getting more expensive as time passes)..
  
  if her hints' price (of gifts/items she has an eye on) gets pricer, than you'll know that she isn't for love, she's just a materialistic gal.
  
  so how do you intend to earn back this amount of cash?
  
  since it seems to me like you have spent at least 2-4yrs worth of salary to her through the different gifts that you've gave her (if it's based on a 2k+ income per month)
  
  did you learn anything from this lesson?
  
  i hope you do..
• Teh6

  3 Mar 07, 00:17

  Originally posted by altzspec:

  No I lose in the race to win her heart.
  And we dont have sex.
  
  I have given her the following:
  1) $10,000 for a car deposit
  2) $8000 for a earring
  3) $1100 per month
  4) $300 for christmas present
  5) $3000 for her fitness trainer
  6) unaccountable amt of money
  7) My ATM Cards for her to burn.
  7) Hard work to build her online website so that she can stay at home and don do work

  Hey bro (pat*pat*), i feel sad to hear ur bad experience..
  
  U just had a bad fall and was quite seriously injuried..
  
  Well.., now the only one who can help u out is no one else but u urself.
  
  Ur injury need time to heal, that is for sure but once u had recovered please dun stay at that spot too long, U need to pick urself up and move on from there..
  
  Bro, in this world and in Life it is not just all about zhar bor and BGR nia, okie..
  There is a lot more other things than that, just talk about relationships alone, U still got ur family, friends, colleagues,etc..
  
  Like wat one of the guys here had mentioned before wat had done is done,
  actually there is no point keep thinking of it..
  
  The amount of $ u had lost seems a lot to me, but..
  
  $ lost can earn back,
  Zhar bor zao lor(run away) can get new one..
  
  dun worry bro..
  
  Just keep urself busy with ur work, if after work very free got nothing to do, u can go and find another part time job provided that u are not tired, in one way u will make u self busy once u busy ur mind will have no time to think of other things liao, at the same time u are actually recouping the loss u which u had suffered. (u can save $ lor cos no time to spend mah)
  
  Or start to ask ur friends, buddies, kaki,etc out for dinner,kopi,movies,ktv,travelling,etc..
  Believe u had neglected them as u are busy with ur stuffs previously,
  have some catch up with them and keep the friendship ongoing.
  
  Or u can also get urself invovled in some exercises like, jogging,gym,swimming,cycling,etc..
  After a few months u will be surprise U have become a fitter man.
  By doing all this exercises, U are actually preparing urself for ur next IPPT liao, so can clear it in one shot and can earn some $ from there oso,haha
  
  Pick up a hobby, eg like fishing,doing model kits, reading,etc,etc.
  
  If u got no friends liao then u can join SDS(non degree holders) or SDU(degree holders), u will be able to make a lot of friends from there.
  But join with a positive mind and be pro-active.
  Before joining make sure u are ready dun put too much pressure on urself, just tell urself that u just want to widen ur social circle and know more friends.
  
  Here is my last piece of advice:
  U want to Love someone, U must be able to Love urself first,
  U want to take care and treat someone well, U must be able to take care and treat urself well first..
  
  cheers up bro.
  
  ya, ya, ya, sorry, one more thing to add on, next time buy car, PLEASE buy it under your name, okie.
• the_fallen

  4 Mar 07, 03:09

  Originally posted by Teh6:

  Hey bro (pat*pat*), i feel sad to hear ur bad experience..
  
  U just had a bad fall and was quite seriously injuried..
  
  Well.., now the only one who can help u out is no one else but u urself.
  
  Ur injury need time to heal, that is for sure but once u had recovered please dun stay at that spot too long, U need to pick urself up and move on from there..
  
  Bro, in this world and in Life it is not just all about zhar bor and BGR nia, okie..
  There is a lot more other things than that, just talk about relationships alone, U still got ur family, friends, colleagues,etc..
  
  Like wat one of the guys here had mentioned before wat had done is done,
  actually there is no point keep thinking of it..
  
  The amount of $ u had lost seems a lot to me, but..
  
  $ lost can earn back,
  Zhar bor zao lor(run away) can get new one..
  
  dun worry bro..
  
  Just keep urself busy with ur work, if after work very free got nothing to do, u can go and find another part time job provided that u are not tired, in one way u will make u self busy once u busy ur mind will have no time to think of other things liao, at the same time u are actually recouping the loss u which u had suffered. (u can save $ lor cos no time to spend mah)
  
  Or start to ask ur friends, buddies, kaki,etc out for dinner,kopi,movies,ktv,travelling,etc..
  Believe u had neglected them as u are busy with ur stuffs previously,
  have some catch up with them and keep the friendship ongoing.
  
  Or u can also get urself invovled in some exercises like, jogging,gym,swimming,cycling,etc..
  After a few months u will be surprise U have become a fitter man.
  By doing all this exercises, U are actually preparing urself for ur next IPPT liao, so can clear it in one shot and can earn some $ from there oso,haha
  
  Pick up a hobby, eg like fishing,doing model kits, reading,etc,etc.
  
  If u got no friends liao then u can join SDS(non degree holders) or SDU(degree holders), u will be able to make a lot of friends from there.
  But join with a positive mind and be pro-active.
  Before joining make sure u are ready dun put too much pressure on urself, just tell urself that u just want to widen ur social circle and know more friends.
  
  Here is my last piece of advice:
  U want to Love someone, U must be able to Love urself first,
  U want to take care and treat someone well, U must be able to take care and treat urself well first..
  
  cheers up bro.
  
  ya, ya, ya, sorry, one more thing to add on, next time buy car, PLEASE buy it under your name, okie.

  + 1
  
  try to get over the gal asap, but do constantly remind yourself of this incident so that you'll never ever repeat the same mistake again.
  
  as my friends always says - "A wise man will learn from mistakes, only fools (no offence, it's just the exact phase which i've copied from my fren) will repeat the same mistakes."
• Aocial

  4 Mar 07, 04:26

  The girl is obviously not worthy of your love.
  Love isn't supposed to be that materialistic.
  Please do reply soon about how things are going ok? Everyone's worried about you.
  Your self-worth is not determined by this girl or by just your foolish actions alone.
  You have so much to do still, and for that, you are valuable. Next time, do not give your money away so freely. Control it wisely. That doesn't means that you have to be a miser, but at least you must have enough savings in hand, right?
  Love will come your way when it is due. Please do not give up hope and yourself. Live with the mistake and love yourself.