Am i an idiot?
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Next time when you want to confesse, tell to your toilet bowl and flush away. You'll feel betterOriginally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:At least your comment is better, u got say sorry.
Other people just say, " She leave you? Obe quek! Who ask you to have cybersex in the first place you lowdown scum?" Very cruel leh..
and IM NOT HAO LIANNING!!!!!! IM NOT SHOWING OFF! Why does everyone say im trying to show off? Both in this topic and the bus topic?
I told my GF is because i felt very bad about having cyber sex with another girl, i just feel so betrayed her. That's why i told her. Not be because "Eh LAOPO! I just have cybersex leh! How cool is that? Everyone does it mah!" No! I didnt say that! Pls dont misunderstand me leh... 
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forgive urself and forget
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"Honesty is the best policy."
I still believe in this.... but what's essential to this policy is TIMING...
u chose a time close to Vday to spill the beans....
are you hoping that she'll forgive you faster due to this vday mood? wrong she'll only be angrier that you ruined vday for her....
She's angry that you had cybersex with another gal.... who won't be? do you expect her to "ok. don't do it again" and the end???
Give her some space right now... let her think and decide if she really wanna be with you.
personally I would think twice too if my boyfriend of 17 years old told me this... (if u can't even control your urges NOW, what makes her think you CAN ever control them?)
P.S. Dont even think of blaming the situation, the fact that it's the "gal" who requested it, or Least of all YOUR HOROSCOPE!!! it only shows her that you don't even wanna take responsiblity and own up that YOU WERE IN THE WRONG. it will infuriate her further... -
Originally posted by Ito_^:next time u wanna confess anything. pls post here first.
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How will you feel with your gf confess to you that she had cybersex with another guy on the net?
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This is strange for me leh. I will feel angry at first, but the next day i forget liao. I will forgive her the next day.Originally posted by coldzero:How will you feel with your gf confess to you that she had cybersex with another guy on the net? -
Its not strange, it just means you didn't commit 100% to this relationship of yours.Originally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:This is strange for me leh. I will feel angry at first, but the next day i forget liao. I will forgive her the next day.
I bet you if your gf were to sleep with me, you'll forgive and forget this incident, 2 days max. -
X2. Can't agree much further. Your gf is 100% commited to this relationship, yet you did this, the hurt is deeper than you think.Originally posted by ditzy:Its not strange, it just means you didn't commit 100% to this relationship of yours.
I bet you if your gf were to sleep with me, you'll forgive and forget this incident, 2 days max. -
Hahaha dont buy purple roses...Originally posted by gigabyte14:haha, ps la...
buy her flowers lo, that's the classic way.
purple rose? unique
or leave her an email
http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=233665
that'll get him into even more trouble..
purple roses doesnt just stand for just mystery and intrigue.
it also stands for deceite -
Erm guys, latest news... she broke with me liao...NOT BECAUSE OF THIS INCIDENT! But because she tinks that we have different thinking ... She had already hinted to me since the day after we got together...now she brought it up again...
I wish her happiness in finding a better BF than me... 
And thx alot for the happy times we had together...I also would like to say sorry, for the unhappy times that i gave you....
AND GUYS!!! No words such as "Ofcuz she should find a better BF than you, you lowlife scum!" Its extremely insulting.
Use words such as, "im sorry, but i think you deserve that ending" instead. -
Sorry for say you, but let me vent off my anger a bit ok?Originally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:Erm guys, latest news... she broke with me liao...NOT BECAUSE OF THIS INCIDENT! But because she tinks that we have different thinking ... She had already hinted to me since the day after we got together...now she brought it up again... I wish her happiness in finding a better BF than me... And thx alot for the happy times we had together...I also would like to say sorry, for the unhappy times that i gave you....
AND GUYS!!! No words such as "Ofcuz she should find a better BF than you, you lowlife scum!" Its extremely insulting. Use words such as, "im sorry, but i think you deserve that ending" instead.
You are a DUMBESTEST A$$ I have ever seen before. Got Girlfriend yet never treat her properly. Some people soo old liao not have a relationship before. I dunno how should I say. This is post, I never see you feeling sad. ARGHXXX.. You know, I secretly like someone for 3 years liao leh, MIND YOU it's THREE YEARS!!!!!! Every time she qurrel with her boyfriend and cry, I also feel heartbroken leh.. Within the 3 year period, she'd been through more than 3 relationship and yet I could only secretly watch her from afar. Haiz~~~~~ You can call me damNA$$ or what.. YES I AM NOOB. BUT YOU ARE MORE NOOB. ARGHXXXX 
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you disloyal piece of shit.
Perverted to add as well
You deserved it. -
WHO SAY I NOT SAD??Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Sorry for say you, but let me vent off my anger a bit ok?
You are a DUMBESTEST A$$ I have ever seen before. Got Girlfriend yet never treat her properly. Some people soo old liao not have a relationship before. I dunno how should I say. This is post, I never see you feeling sad. ARGHXXX.. You know, I secretly like someone for 3 years liao leh, MIND YOU it's THREE YEARS!!!!!! Every time she qurrel with her boyfriend and cry, I also feel heartbroken leh.. Within the 3 year period, she'd been through more than 3 relationship and yet I could only secretly watch her from afar. Haiz~~~~~ You can call me damNA$$ or what.. YES I AM NOOB. BUT YOU ARE MORE NOOB. ARGHXXXX
The last time when i viewed her blog, she said she had no appetite and because of that, her parents and she forced herself to gulp down her dinner. The next day, she had tummyache and couldn't come to sch as a result. I myself seeing her being unable to have her dinner properly and had to 'suffer' makes my heart ache. It really pains me to see her getting hurt and 'suffers'. As a result, being her BF and caring for her, i make sure she had her lunch and dinner on time. Sometimes after her cca, i would wait for her and fetch her home. Got one time i waited for her for an hour . When she was finally released from her cca, she thought i would be angry ( Huh? angry for what? Lols, its not her fault mahs.). But i was on all smiles and fetched her home.
FYI, u said i did not treat her properly right? My GF initially said that i treated her TOO GOOD. She said i was too lenient with her and that i did everything so that she would be happy. She said in her blog" You are too good to me, i just dont know how i shld repay you." She was right, i respected her every decision.
Got one time she asked me to meet her at JP cause she was very bored, being alone as her mother went off for manicure. I was very happy that she wanted to meet me so i replied her sms saying that "Ok i would be coming, but could you wait? Cause i think it might need 35mins for me to get down to JP. " I asked her whether she could wait is because if i went there at the wrong time, her mother might find out about our r/s and her parents forbid to have any r/s actually. After awhile, she smsed me saying" Erm its okay bah, i think you no need to come down lerh. No need to ma fan(trouble) you" I replied saying its no trouble at all and that i really want to meet her. I also mentioned that i dont want you to be bored and i dont mind being "mafan-ed". She replied "Its okay, you dont need to come lerh." I respected her decision, so i didn't meet her." 2 hrs later, i sms-ed her asking her if she is still bored and she say she isn't. When she updated her blog , her blog mentioned " I actually wanted to meet HIM** der, but i changed my mind last minute [[sorries**??]]. She wanted to apologise to me because she knew that im being dissapointed being unable to meet her. I replied her CBox saying "Aiya! I where got so xiao qi der? Me not angry larhs....Its okays."
Infact i decided to break up with her because my parents encouraged me to, and to move on. Im not blaming my parents, but their encouragement even make me wanting to break up. Im actually hesitant to break up initially, but after what she sms-ed me and my parents encouragement, i finally broke up with her. I do feel sad ... Just that i dont show it ...
I broke up with her is because if i continue to be her BF, i might even hurt her deeper and i will be selfish for that. If i broke up with her sooner, she might be able to find someone who's even better than me ... -
lol i am same with u .. a honest guy sometime can be good can be bad tell this in valentive man.... i don't think gift will cure... if u really want to be with her again try to meet her in by her help of her fri or what and tell her nicely that u r curious abt cybersex and was bored so don't why do it...
accepct yr apology then is fate liao... every1 makes mistake......... -
hmmm.... Scania,Originally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:WHO SAY I NOT SAD??
The last time when i viewed her blog, she said she had no appetite and because of that, her parents and she forced herself to gulp down her dinner. The next day, she had tummyache and couldn't come to sch as a result. I myself seeing her being unable to have her dinner properly and had to 'suffer' makes my heart ache. It really pains me to see her getting hurt and 'suffers'. As a result, being her BF and caring for her, i make sure she had her lunch and dinner on time. Sometimes after her cca, i would wait for her and fetch her home. Got one time i waited for her for an hour . When she was finally released from her cca, she thought i would be angry ( Huh? angry for what? Lols, its not her fault mahs.). But i was on all smiles and fetched her home.
FYI, u said i did not treat her properly right? My GF initially said that i treated her TOO GOOD. She said i was too lenient with her and that i did everything so that she would be happy. She said in her blog" You are too good to me, i just dont know how i shld repay you." She was right, i respected her every decision.
Got one time she asked me to meet her at JP cause she was very bored, being alone as her mother went off for manicure. I was very happy that she wanted to meet me so i replied her sms saying that "Ok i would be coming, but could you wait? Cause i think it might need 35mins for me to get down to JP. " I asked her whether she could wait is because if i went there at the wrong time, her mother might find out about our r/s and her parents forbid to have any r/s actually. After awhile, she smsed me saying" Erm its okay bah, i think you no need to come down lerh. No need to ma fan(trouble) you" I replied saying its no trouble at all and that i really want to meet her. I also mentioned that i dont want you to be bored and i dont mind being "mafan-ed". She replied "Its okay, you dont need to come lerh." I respected her decision, so i didn't meet her." 2 hrs later, i sms-ed her asking her if she is still bored and she say she isn't. When she updated her blog , her blog mentioned " I actually wanted to meet HIM** der, but i changed my mind last minute [[sorries**??]]. She wanted to apologise to me because she knew that im being dissapointed being unable to meet her. I replied her CBox saying "Aiya! I where got so xiao qi der? Me not angry larhs....Its okays."
Infact i decided to break up with her because my parents encouraged me to, and to move on. Im not blaming my parents, but their encouragement even make me wanting to break up. Im actually hesitant to break up initially, but after what she sms-ed me and my parents encouragement, i finally broke up with her. I do feel sad ... Just that i dont show it ...
I broke up with her is because if i continue to be her BF, i might even hurt her deeper and i will be selfish for that. If i broke up with her sooner, she might be able to find someone who's even better than me ...
you don't need to prove anything to us...
it's your gf that you have let down.... she decided to move on,
and you decided to let her move on....
so be it...
these guys here can say anything they like.... but if your concious is clear then just ignore them. -
Wow! You are the first who said such nice comments(including others)Originally posted by relax_crown:lol i am same with u .. a honest guy sometime can be good can be bad tell this in valentive man.... i don't think gift will cure... if u really want to be with her again try to meet her in by her help of her fri or what and tell her nicely that u r curious abt cybersex and was bored so don't why do it...
accepct yr apology then is fate liao... every1 makes mistake.........
Thx alot!
But anyway, my ex GF doesn't want us to be together anymore, not because that i had cybersex with someone, but because she thinks that we are not compatible and that we had different thinking. I cant possibly force her to be my GF, i somehow have to respect her decision, so that she can be happy.
I somehow have a feeling that she wont be happy if i continue to be with her. Already from day one of our relationship, she already hinted to me that she wasn't too keen on this r/s and that my move was too fast. She said she will "try" to love me..Its quite obvious she dont wish to be in this r/s, but at least she tried to commit herself to this r/s. I did commit myself to this r/s, but curiosity made me do a DUMBA$$ move and i had cybersex with someone.
If im not serious about this r/s i wont have confessed to her because i felt very bad and felt that i had betrayed her, but instead thinking" Why should i tell her? No one will noe if i keep mum right?"
I had made a stupid move. Ask yourself, have you ever made a dumba55 mistake to the ones you loved? -
ya damn smartOriginally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:Im smart? 
somethings should stay unspoken -
Cyber sex's not real-life sex right?
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Nope. Its "safer" than real-life sex. It usually involes erotic comments i think.Originally posted by SBS3625D:Cyber sex's not real-life sex right? -
WTF cybersex? thats so fkin 1991 HAHAHA
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sorry to hear that from you..
btw the pressies. how are you intending to give them to her?
or
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Originally posted by SBS3625D:Cyber sex's not real-life sex right?
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Originally posted by smudgey:
definitely not... even the gal tells u.. "tell me the truth and i will forgive u" never believe in this
"Honesty is the best policy." -
Life is an illusion after all right? Chose your own illusions to live by!Originally posted by agnes80_tan:definitely not... even the gal tells u.. "tell me the truth and i will forgive u" never believe in this -
well it's all abt the timing...Originally posted by agnes80_tan:definitely not... even the gal tells u.. "tell me the truth and i will forgive u" never believe in this
whether the gal will forgive you, that's another story...
somethings are not forgivable... some are but not forgettable...
pt is.... i don't believe in a relationships that hides secrets...