YEAOriginally posted by FireIce:get an outdoor sales job..
train u to be able to talk to anyone and be damn thick-skinned
but it's good training.......Originally posted by xShevchenkox:l am having a part time job le..dun tink l will want to get another job..summore those sales de...l dun tink l wan...based on commisson to do work de...even gt basic pay..oso damn low..l dun mind go try if the pay is good![]()
if the pay is good like u said..Originally posted by xShevchenkox:l am having a part time job le..dun tink l will want to get another job..summore those sales de...l dun tink l wan...based on commisson to do work de...even gt basic pay..oso damn low..l dun mind go try if the pay is good![]()
ya...l still dare to tok and tell them the things l wan to say...juz that will be damn nervous lo...haha..l am more used to tok to ppl..that l hav interact quite sumtime..before moving to fone toks...Originally posted by Ito_^:normal ma.
as long wun get too much in the way, i suppose it'd be fine.
hmm good idea for short converstions but nt long conversationsOriginally posted by udontknowme:write down what you wanna say before you call lah...
link...n more links..Originally posted by xShevchenkox:hmm good idea for short converstions but nt long conversations
How long is considered long?Originally posted by xShevchenkox:hmm good idea for short converstions but nt long conversations
same as me lor. i think many many ppl oso lidat.Originally posted by xShevchenkox:ya...l still dare to tok and tell them the things l wan to say...juz that will be damn nervous lo...haha..l am more used to tok to ppl..that l hav interact quite sumtime..before moving to fone toks...
really ah...then l am relieved....cuz actually this problem do troubles me..u see...l was tinking in my mind..."Hey y like that ah?" Why l so nervous lor..Originally posted by Ito_^:same as me lor. i think many many ppl oso lidat.
so did anyone say they can't take it cuz u keep laughing and joking around?Originally posted by xShevchenkox:How to say ah...it is not like l am not confident or wad..it juz sounds weird la..imagine la...that person u nver tok be4 de or see be4 de....
Then if l act as normal...like the way l tok to my good frenz...l tink will frighten them out lo...
l am afraid they cnt tk it..u see....Cuz l will laugh and keep joking ard de...
so far dun hav...y ne?Originally posted by Ito_^:so did anyone say they can't take it cuz u keep laughing and joking around?
different ppl use different attitude to face unknown ppl.Originally posted by xShevchenkox:really ah...then l am relieved....cuz actually this problem do troubles me..u see...l was tinking in my mind..."Hey y like that ah?" Why l so nervous lor..
Then l began to tink y sum guys so good at this ah? They nt scare...1st time oso dare to call up and chat until so happily..without feelin anything
Then why are you so afraid to be yourself?Originally posted by xShevchenkox:so far dun hav...y ne?
den it wun happen de la.Originally posted by xShevchenkox:so far dun hav...y ne?
well l oso envious of the former one...who dun? Actually l did try to told myself it is gonna be fine...be well...but well tinking and doing it practially is two diff things...Originally posted by Ito_^:different ppl use different attitude to face unknown ppl.
some ppl can talk until the sky turn dark, to cover their nervousness. some ppl juz shuts up.
i abit envious of the former, cuz i usually wld keep quiet. den again, normally, im juz quiet so it doesn't really matter..
and some ppl are simply natural.
mc square...l really hav been telling to myself...dun be nervous..be relax when toking on fone with ppl that l hav nver see or tok with be4..but l dun noe y..my body keeps reacting in such a manner...Originally posted by M©+square:Then why are you so afraid to be yourself?
Instead, you're hiding away. Which is the first sign of insecurity, a desire for acceptance.
Then how can people accept in neutral proxy when you're unable to be comfortable and accept yourself?