My girlfriend (1)
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I have a good looking girlfriend... There are always alot of guys going crazy about her... even a guy younger then her fells for her...
Last week, she got to know one guy. And this guy always interupt us. like while we were talking on the phone this guy always call. And i have to wait for him to hand up for so long... sometimes i even waited for 1/2 hours till my girld friend switched line to me.
i get very frustrated every time the guys calls... and sometimes even ask my girlfriend to give him morning call which made her wake up earlier in the morning...
My girldfriend also thinks that the guy is irritating, but she always don't want to listen to me... she can't bare to hang up the guys call... I told my grilfriend to tell that guy to stop being so irritating and tells him that she has a boyfriend, but she don't want. Just don't know why... every time he would sms her some mushy messages
What should i do to stop that guy ? -
uh oh.... cham liao.... looks like the guy is me wor... make fone calls,mushy sms, morning calls... oh oh...
ur gal fren malay issit?
must answer me truthfully.. -
There's nothing much you can do to stop that guy from doing so. You can't possibly send someone to beat him up, can you? What you can do now is to have a good talk with your girlfriend, and tell her how you feel about this situation, and that "uninvited" intrusion makes you feel nervous and irritated, not to mention insecurity. If she loves you and respects you, I'm sure both of you can work out a solution to deter that guy.
What I perceive is that that guy must be a sweet talker, and he somehow managed to get your girlfriend's attention even though she claimed to be "irritated". Beware of this person. A good heart to heart talk is definately a must, and this can be a test for the love between you and her.
If she understands how you feel, by all means she will ignore that man's pursuit, even to the extent of changing mobile number. On your side, you must have the confidence in this relationship even though you are feeling uneasy. Never be shaken. Jealousy sometimes in a relationship is healthy, but don't extend to the point of being childish and immatured.
Good luck. -
u come to #love_solver in galaxynet lor.. they will sove the problems for u.... come ard 10pm...
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a sad case though..Originally posted by ETboy:I have a good looking girlfriend... There are always alot of guys going crazy about her... even a guy younger then her fells for her...
Last week, she got to know one guy. And this guy always interupt us. like while we were talking on the phone this guy always call. And i have to wait for him to hand up for so long... sometimes i even waited for 1/2 hours till my girld friend switched line to me. i get very frustrated every time the guys calls... and sometimes even ask my girlfriend to give him morning call which made her wake up earlier in the morning...
My girldfriend also thinks that the guy is irritating, but she always don't want to listen to me... she can't bare to hang up the guys call... I told my grilfriend to tell that guy to stop being so irritating and tells him that she has a boyfriend, but she don't want. Just don't know why... every time he would sms her some mushy messages
What should i do to stop that guy ?
but if i in ur case i would really bui tahan...either ur gf no trust in u or interested on that guy or the guy is tat damn irritating?
if i were u , someday somehow i will giv a punch to the face of the monkey ass...=x Givache 
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no lah i'm a chineseOriginally posted by bigdeal:uh oh.... cham liao.... looks like the guy is me wor... make fone calls,mushy sms, morning calls... oh oh...
ur gal fren malay issit?
must answer me truthfully.. -
thanks for all !!! 
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oh.. heng...Originally posted by ETboy:no lah i'm a chinese
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my girlfriend is the type of care so much about anything 1...
and my girlfriend seems to care so much for him... like that guy has so quarrels with his friends , and she give some advice... maybe it wad a friends should do ...that's wad i've been telling myself....
there's 1 time she rejected that guy and then she feel guilty... -
If you can't beat them, JOIN them...? Join your gf in discussing about the problem the guy might have? I think your gf is just generally being helpful... Instead of bothering about how the guys might try to sianZ your gf (which most probably won't help things much), why don't join your gf in helping the guys with their 'problems'..? At least in such a way you can know what is going on between them without being intrusive and also participate in whatever your gf hopes to remedy?Originally posted by ETboy:my girlfriend is the type of care so much about anything 1...
and my girlfriend seems to care so much for him... like that guy has so quarrels with his friends , and she give some advice... maybe it wad a friends should do ...that's wad i've been telling myself....
there's 1 time she rejected that guy and then she feel guilty...
HOWEVER, if your gf finds your action intrusive or a hindrance to her freedom, perhaps you would like to let her handle the situation herself? In this case, it could be that your gf's a flirt BUT also can be that she is someone who wants FREEDOM or you to have TRUST in her behavior.... THIS is up to YOU to judge.... -
welcome ET..heheOriginally posted by ETboy: thanks for all !!!
anymore question jus post again..keke Givache -
got a bad news for u
dun blame the guy coz sometimes its not the guys fault
mayb the guy is juz a test to ur relationship
if ever one day ur gf goes to him juz bear in mind u got nuthin wrong
its the ger
but of coz u also gotta b nice to her and treat her nice la like dat even if she goes away u can b sure its not ur fault alreadi -
woohooo...zechs logic....quite true..Originally posted by ZecHs:got a bad news for u
dun blame the guy coz sometimes its not the guys fault
mayb the guy is juz a test to ur relationship
if ever one day ur gf goes to him juz bear in mind u got nuthin wrong
its the ger
but of coz u also gotta b nice to her and treat her nice la like dat even if she goes away u can b sure its not ur fault alreadi
as long as u treat the girl good can liao...if she really leaves...u oso bo bian...mayb got better one ahead..keke Givache -
did you ask why your girlfriend feel guilty about rejecting the guy when she already has you as boyfriend?Originally posted by ETboy:my girlfriend is the type of care so much about anything 1...
and my girlfriend seems to care so much for him... like that guy has so quarrels with his friends , and she give some advice... maybe it wad a friends should do ...that's wad i've been telling myself....
there's 1 time she rejected that guy and then she feel guilty...
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Hrmm,
Just go and become frens wif the guy, tell him she belongs to but u wouldn't mind she having him as a fren, maybe u all can go out for drinks and whatever. Normally a person would not chase the other party if he knows the bf as well. Now go solve ur damn problem.. -
if i were u i'll just tell her how i feel, becos communication is damn impt in relationships... guessing, counter guessing,etc r all "unproductive",procastinating while brooding, etc not really helpful...
if she knows what she wants and is responsible, she will act accordingly... but dun press her for answers if u think she isnt ready to give one, she is, after all (i hope) searching for the one too... continue to prove ur sincerity. whatever it is, i personally think its a simple test of ur relationship, and u should be grateful for this test
for the most valuable relationships r really the most tested ones
Enjoy the ride and good luck! -
brudder...
Your gf like that guy lah. She enjoys talking to him. You stupid or what???
If I were you... give her one tight slap and tell her to fuck off.
She give you no face at all. -
My girldfriend also thinks that the guy is irritating, but she always don't want to listen to me... she can't bare to hang up the guys call... I told my grilfriend to tell that guy to stop being so irritating and tells him that she has a boyfriend, but she don't want.
You have been snookered. If a girl talking to another guy, who is apparently interested, but yet doesn't want to say that she has a BF.. she's interested..in him.
Sorry bro.. a matter of time b4 she dumps you and says that you're not compatible blah blah blah..and you ask who..and she says, "Thats not important.."..betcha is the guy shes on the phone with now..
I am sorry. Been there before. Take care. -
i double confirm + agree with moonbabe this time.
shes right.
dont get angry, get even. go and call up gals and be extra nice to them. ignore yr gf for the time being.
she will be more gan chiong than u cos if u dump her she'd be damn malu, so she will go back to u quickly. meanwhile shes enjoying all the attention she gets.
take my word for it. -
WAHHAHAHA!!!Originally posted by bigdeal:oh.. heng...
u think mani pple after yr malay gf ar?
hurhurhur -
eh..... nv see u for so long... i tot u lost in the forums... hahaha... finally u found aunt agony forums liao!! hahahOriginally posted by RuthBaby:WAHHAHAHA!!!
u think mani pple after yr malay gf ar?
hurhurhur -
and hor... NOT my gf wor.... i not thick-skinnedOriginally posted by RuthBaby:WAHHAHAHA!!!
u think mani pple after yr malay gf ar?
hurhurhur
in fact, she my wife! -
Chinese guy + Malay gal = ???
*Note: The product won't be good... -
kp la...Originally posted by WinBoi84:Chinese guy + Malay gal = ???
*Note: The product won't be good... -
yah loh..be bold say "no" and nothing wrong with it ..Originally posted by stonned:did you ask why your girlfriend feel guilty about rejecting the guy when she already has you as boyfriend?
In life, there are times we have to learn to say 'No'. Givache