Originally posted by Scape_Goat_Token:
i knew this gal for almost 2 months. got quite close like talking on the phone everyday and stuff. she's 4 yrs younger than me, and im waiting for JC postings soon.
on v-day i met her n gave her a present and she just just said thanks n said it was cute. then after that it was normal life again like talking everyday and sms-ing and stuff. according to her frens, she was very scared or nervous to meet me. (i dun get it..)
and recently her frens keep asking me if i like her (and this is the most bugging part). and when 3 of us conference, her friend would just directly ask if i like her. i dunno how to response. and guess what. i was being retarded and i just kept quiet on the phone. like as if i wasn't there....
keep denying very tough leh...
actually it's quite obvious that i like her n stuff because i alrdy gave a v-day present. PLUS i msg her good night msg every night n sometimes i will take the initiative to call her. whenever her friends tease her or tells her that it's quite obv that i like her, she wouldn't admit it and always complain to me that her frens are talking crap...
the reason y i keep denying is because i dun think she's ready for a r/s mainly. and....im scared of losing this frenship. u know nowadays...r/s come n go very quickly. like 2 months n boom, nomore. or at most a year or smth.
i dun mind waiting or just stalling or remainding in this "state of courtship" for very very long. is there a problem with going very slowly? because i feel that her friends are already like rushing an ans out of me n claiming tt "she is helping us to get together"...
im confused..
and denying has become very very xin ku for me.
Scared yet do things to lead people on.
You may think you're matured enough and can 'reason'.
When you're confused, it simply tells that you're not able to handle it.
You don't have to be too concerned about her, you should be worried about yourself.
People let you eat, you don't eat.
Give all kinds of reason, denying and drag on.
Hai. M© says : This state will lead you to many regrets(in life).
You either learn to cut your losses OR be decisive over your actions.