Originally posted by gr2012:
I wasnt flaring up lar...chill...just putting my point across in a slightly exaggerated manner.
My advice for you is to not be so "extra" next time. Your mom has been with your dad far longer than you have; if she cannot handle it, how'd you think she'd stuck through with him for over 21 years?
Also, it doesnt really matter if you shouted, screamed, flew into a rage, or grabbed a knife. What matters is that you became hostile towards your own father. That was enough to make him blow.
Just stay out of it next time lar...you are only 21, don't act as if you are the same age as your father. You didn't, still don't, and never will have the right to challenge him...
it is not staying out or wad, wad happens if his mum got hurt?
see situation first, when situation gets out of hand, den it is time for children to step in.
same case for me, even though i am 19, but i always let my parents handle their problems themselves, till the stage when i think it is getting out of hand or dey cannot settle it within demselves, den i will step in and intervene...
