confuse feeling
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Hi, new here.
i know this girl for a long time time.
we do not talk to each other often but when i do talk to her, my heartbeat pump faster than normal. she seems rather cold to me thus i did not have the courage to woo her. Then a few days ago, i found out from her friends that she is quite concern abt me. (i not too sure she has feeling for me anot or just curious abt my backgroud). Even myself, i do not know i really like her or just some mixed feeling. i do not want to ask her directly. (i afraid of frghtening her and lost a friend like that). Any advise from the ppl here? -
she concern about?Originally posted by firehell2:Hi, new here.
i know this girl for a long time time.
we do not talk to each other often but when i do talk to her, my heartbeat pump faster than normal. she seems rather cold to me thus i did not have the courage to woo her. Then a few days ago, i found out from her friends that she is quite concern abt me. (i not too sure she has feeling for me anot or just curious abt my backgroud). Even myself, i do not know i really like her or just some mixed feeling. i do not want to ask her directly. (i afraid of frghtening her and lost a friend like that). Any advise from the ppl here? -
abt my background, family status, financial status etc........Originally posted by ifish:she concern about? -
she's checking you out? wow that's quite nice.
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i'm not too sure whether she had a bf anot but i happen to saw her profile in friendster and it indicated " it complicated".........what does this mean?Originally posted by beavan:she's checking you out? wow that's quite nice.
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well, why don't u just chat her up? and find out more about her.
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Originally posted by beavan:
How? like i say, she seems rather cold to me.........she dun seems to like talking to me.....sometime sms her oso no reply......
well, why don't u just chat her up? and find out more about her.
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No attraction = no hope. That is provided you're sure she's not attracted to you.Originally posted by firehell2:How? like i say, she seems rather cold to me.........she dun seems to like talking to me.....sometime sms her oso no reply...... -
u could me rite..i'm thinking i shd just stay as it is...i can't confirm whether she like me or just "curoius" abt me..before i do anything rush else it be quite embrassed for both of us.Originally posted by M©+square:No attraction = no hope. That is provided you're sure she's not attracted to you. -
maybe u can progress out of the hi-bye friend first
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just be normal friends with her first. dont think too much about the "does she like me?" or "do i like her?" part.
and lastly if you do like her, dont be a coward just bcos she is cold to you. gals like more initiative and aggressive guys than cowardly guys. -
I think "she seems rather cold to" you because her "heartbeat pump faster than normal" also.Originally posted by firehell2:Hi, new here.
i know this girl for a long time time.
we do not talk to each other often but when i do talk to her, my heartbeat pump faster than normal. she seems rather cold to me thus i did not have the courage to woo her. Then a few days ago, i found out from her friends that she is quite concern abt me. (i not too sure she has feeling for me anot or just curious abt my backgroud). Even myself, i do not know i really like her or just some mixed feeling. i do not want to ask her directly. (i afraid of frghtening her and lost a friend like that). Any advise from the ppl here?
Anyway just smile a lot at her and if you have a chance, ask her out with a group of people first.
Ask her what she like to do and ask her if you can join her activities. Good Luck! -
i did try to ask her out on some occasion but it happen that she had appointment with her friend.....after that seems that she is quite busy....Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:I think "she seems rather cold to" you because her "heartbeat pump faster than normal" also.
Anyway just smile a lot at her and if you have a chance, ask her out with a group of people first.
Ask her what she like to do and ask her if you can join her activities. Good Luck!
like no fate with her after all -
In what sense? Her friends... Are they your friends also? Do they know you're interested in her..? Are their words reliable?Originally posted by firehell2:Hi, new here.
i know this girl for a long time time.
we do not talk to each other often but when i do talk to her, my heartbeat pump faster than normal. she seems rather cold to me thus i did not have the courage to woo her. Then a few days ago, i found out from her friends that she is quite concern abt me. (i not too sure she has feeling for me anot or just curious abt my backgroud). Even myself, i do not know i really like her or just some mixed feeling. i do not want to ask her directly. (i afraid of frghtening her and lost a friend like that). Any advise from the ppl here? -
You have your own life. She has hers. You cannot expect her to be ready when you are, right? Similarly you cannot be ready when she expected you to be too. These few tries may have 'failed', you just keep trying and trying.Originally posted by firehell2:i did try to ask her out on some occasion but it happen that she had appointment with her friend.....after that seems that she is quite busy....
like no fate with her after all -
not sure if this helps.. when i hold a liking for some guys, i will tend to be cold towards them... duno y.. maybe shy..
so when i m very friendly with someone, meaning.. that person confirm no chance.. -
women.......Originally posted by mystee:not sure if this helps.. when i hold a liking for some guys, i will tend to be cold towards them... duno y.. maybe shy.. so when i m very friendly with someone, meaning.. that person confirm no chance.. -
this show that women are VERY unpredictableOriginally posted by mystee:not sure if this helps.. when i hold a liking for some guys, i will tend to be cold towards them... duno y.. maybe shy.. so when i m very friendly with someone, meaning.. that person confirm no chance.. -
Don't give up! Women take a long time to warm up. Once they are hot, it takes a lot for them to cool down.Originally posted by firehell2:i did try to ask her out on some occasion but it happen that she had appointment with her friend.....after that seems that she is quite busy....
like no fate with her after all
Men heat up and cool down like hot water in the winter.
Continue to smile a lot and continue to ask! -
oh.....does that mean i still have hope???Originally posted by mystee:not sure if this helps.. when i hold a liking for some guys, i will tend to be cold towards them... duno y.. maybe shy.. so when i m very friendly with someone, meaning.. that person confirm no chance..
hear that she will be away for awhile.............. -
nope... i do not know her friends well, know all these friends th'u her just some hi-bye friend...Originally posted by Devil1976:In what sense? Her friends... Are they your friends also? Do they know you're interested in her..? Are their words reliable? -
In a sense, yes there is hope. Yes there is an odd chance of things working out the way you wanted.Originally posted by firehell2:oh.....does that mean i still have hope???
hear that she will be away for awhile..............
So what is your next step? -
I really dun noe!!!Originally posted by Bontakun:In a sense, yes there is hope. Yes there is an odd chance of things working out the way you wanted.
So what is your next step?
guess i leave it to fate -
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