Po Tong Ja Lan Right or Wrong?
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my malay not very gd pls 4give me if i spell it wrongly lol~
Personally i think is ok ,if not married is anybody's game. Anyway i think if you treat your bf/gf good ah you wun be afraid of PTJL. Like my friend's gf will tell him about it if there is some other guy who wanted to woo her.
Want to see everyone's opinion
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What is Po tong ja lan? Chop and run?
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haha literally ya, it means to woo someone who is attached lol
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bang bang bang, then chuck one side.
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"steal" somebody's bf or gf.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:What is Po tong ja lan? Chop and run? -
thxOriginally posted by AndrewPKYap:"steal" somebody's bf or gf.
Oh I see.
I dunno leh.. But for me I think PTJL is not right lor. I think after that guy break with the girl liao then go jio her is the best timing bah.. -
its not right to break up someone's relationship...
not a matter becso married or not...
its about consideration and values.. -
actually i think thats crap...
even if the relationship is stable, when someone chips in, there is always the chance of being swayed. Its just human nature.
Why go break up some couple?
Would you like it when you are in a good, long relationship and someone comes over and starting wooing your gf/bf like mad?
Wont you be swayed if you are the one being wooed, and the other party is rich/handsome/pretty what so ever?
Bottom line is why go break someone up
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agree.Originally posted by angrynor:actually i think thats crap...
even if the relationship is stable, when someone chips in, there is always the chance of being swayed. Its just human nature.
Why go break up some couple?
Would you like it when you are in a good, long relationship and someone comes over and starting wooing your gf/bf like mad?
Wont you be swayed if you are the one being wooed, and the other party is rich/handsome/pretty what so ever?
Bottom line is why go break someone up
thinking that as long as not married can PTJL is just another way to justify his/her own selfish wants.
married also can divorce one...so there is no actual "benchmark"...just an excuse that's all. -
personally, I agree...
if the gal/guy is not married, then he/she is fair game..... so to speak....
If you really like the gal SO much that you can't get her out of your mind no matter what....
then just confess your feelings to the gal (even if she is attached).... the thing is.... once after you confess... if she needs time to think.... back off for a while.... if she declines.... then BACK OFF.
whether or not to leave her partner is a decision only the gal (or the attached party) can make.... she has to decide whether she is happy in her relationship or she wants out....
but personally.... if the guy is willing to leave his gf for me.... I won't feel secure as his new gf either.... -
nothing is right or wrong in love.....
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if you the one potonging...then you will think its alright...
if you are the receiving end of the potonging...then you think it is wrong...
so what is wrong and right? -
No right or wrong - all depends on whose perspective you want to take lor....
the potonger or the potongee.........
While you got the spelling right, it should be 2 words:potong jalan (literally potong: cut and jalan:walk) This phrase means to break up a relationship between a couple........ -
if you seriously think that the girl/guy would be happier with you, why not?
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its morally wrong.
believe in karma & retribution. -
What Goes Around Comes Around....But what Came around went back Around Again !
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i like that. potonger or potongee.
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You cope other people things of course people cope back la ! How can you cope peoples belonging when it isnt yours ? And you claim as if you had it all along...
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actually i think thats crap...
Yar hor...you could say that to one of my classmates... Pot calling the Kettle Black
even if the relationship is stable, when someone chips in, there is always the chance of being swayed. Its just human nature.
Why go break up some couple?
Would you like it when you are in a good, long relationship and someone comes over and starting wooing your gf/bf like mad?
Wont you be swayed if you are the one being wooed, and the other party is rich/handsome/pretty what so ever?
Bottom line is why go break someone up -
scold me for what...? =(Originally posted by Seth35:Yar hor...you could say that to one of my classmates... Pot calling the Kettle Black
just what i think mah....
and whats with pot calling the kettle black? do i know you? I dun recall breaking any couple up huh... -
scold me for what...? =(
You blind ah ? Dont know english issit ?
just what i think mah....
and whats with pot calling the kettle black? do i know you? I dun recall breaking any couple up huh... -
Depend on indiviual point of view!!1
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My take no right no wrong. There's nothing immoral about it.
Let's say someone save your life today. Would you die for your saivour/give your life to him?
If you really think that you love someone who is attached, or even married, would you not at least try, at least let that someone know of your feelings? Ultimately it's up to that someone to decide.
Humans are selfish. As long as you WIN, you are correct, even time will help you.
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Let's say someone save your life today. Would you die for your saivour/give your life to him?
Depending on how the Person treats me.... If he did no harm me in any way...I might be able to let go...But the person added fuel to the Fire....
Ever Heard of Good Will will be know among your Enemies... -
your front and back can dun link one le. will lead to misunderstanding de mah. lol.Originally posted by Seth35:Yar hor...you could say that to one of my classmates... Pot calling the Kettle Black