Are the moderators here certified?
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in his case , yes in his rocker tshirt and all!Originally posted by aHGer^83:come on lah.. u think the mods/advisors here so stupid to shyt whr dey eat?
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I pity your gf because I think you are the clown. And maybe that was why she posted at AA in the first place.Originally posted by alexrain:i been wanting to post but thinking about it either posting or confronting him personally , but viciouskitty post help me to sort off make up my mind,
he try all the moves on my girlfriend,advising her to break up with me..and he is better suited for her...what kind of moderator is that?and trying to date her all the time! he is a clown
damm it
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dear mr tan ah teckOriginally posted by Tan Ah Teck:I pity your gf because I think you are the clown. And maybe that was why she posted at AA in the first place.
My name is Tan Ah Teck and I am an honest man.
you could be right , maybe i am a clown , but that is not what we are arguing here right now..you could start a thread about that if you want.
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Since its out. U can write and explain in more detail the sitation , time, date etc etc. Useful information to prove your case and get the 'accused' to acknowledge or defend his actions.
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my gf is a lady and also in this forum, i have to ask her permission first.dont worry , i wont let this die down so easilyOriginally posted by BadzMaro:Since its out. U can write and explain in more detail the sitation , time, date etc etc. Useful information to prove your case and get the 'accused' to acknowledge or defend his actions. -
YA!!!!!Originally posted by BadzMaro:Since its out. U can write and explain in more detail the sitation , time, date etc etc. Useful information to prove your case and get the 'accused' to acknowledge or defend his actions.
accused n prosecuted right?? smtng lydat... -
Too bad I am only interested in TOTO and 4D but what you can do now areOriginally posted by alexrain:dear mr tan ah teck
you could be right , maybe i am a clown , but that is not what we are arguing here right now..you could start a thread about that if you want.
its about moderator abusing their power...
A) Confront him directly face-to-face
B) Be a clown and continue to bad mouthed him here and in other forums behind your PC.
C) Find out whatÂ’s wrong in your relationship with your gf
D) Find out whatÂ’s wrong with you
E) Quick go buy TOTO today, 10 millions lei, no joke!
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Oh i know u wont let this die down easily if in fact its true.Originally posted by alexrain:my gf is a lady and also in this forum, i have to ask her permission first.dont worry , i wont let this die down so easily -
dear mr tanOriginally posted by Tan Ah Teck:Too bad I am only interested in TOTO and 4D but what you can do now are
A) Confront him directly face-to-face
B) Be a clown and continue to bad mouthed him here and in other forums behind your PC.
C) Find out whatÂ’s wrong in your relationship with your gf
D) Find out whatÂ’s wrong with you
E) Quick go buy TOTO today, 10 millions lei, no joke!
My name is Tan Ah Teck and I am an honest man.
i thank you for your kind suggestion and i will review them , but as i said the whole reason for the post is to warn or stop future victims before he strikes again
again i appreciate your kind response.
your sincerely
alex rain
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frankly speaking, i feel devil is a fair mod who know his role as a AA mod well, he seldom bring personal difference into topic, or being sexist which the other two mods could not have done.
he treated all cases in AA to be important. as a mod i feel it is important to be a good advisor else u will disgrace ur audience thinking this forum is a playground for ur mushy gangs which totally sux and defeat its main purpose.
therefore i conclude devil is doing his good job well in AA online. -
its not the online activities im talking aboutOriginally posted by 798:frankly speaking, i feel devil is a fair mod who know his role as a AA mod well, he seldom bring personal difference into topic, or being sexist which the other two mods could not have done.
he treated all cases in AA to be important. as a mod i feel it is important to be a good advisor else u will disgrace ur audience thinking this forum is a playground for ur mushy gangs which totally sux and defeat its main purpose.
therefore i conclude devil is doing his good job well in AA online.
its the OFF LINE ones
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dat is the difference wif many pple here! alot of them trying to act noble but turn out to be despicable wolves or jerks in real life. i have seen several cases already happening to some female friends. sometime i dun mind to befriend pple like CTX, i am twat, or kevin-1982. they may type pervertly but at least they dun act.Originally posted by alexrain:its not the online activities im talking about
its the OFF LINE ones
and that is what is scary...having two personalities
i heard stories too regarding his real life too, but i feel it will be unfair to judge him like dat unless i see for myself. but wat matters is he done well in counselling many pple here. -
fair enoughOriginally posted by 798:dat is the difference wif many pple here! alot of them trying to act noble but turn out to be despicable wolves or jerks in real life. i have seen several cases already happening to some female friends. sometime i dun mind to befriend pple like CTX, i am twat, or kevin-1982. they may type pervertly but at least they dun act.
i heard stories too regarding his real life too, but i feel it will be unfair to judge him like dat unless i see for myself. but wat matters is he done well in counselling many pple here.
im not judging, im telling you what happened!
maybe he is thinking and racking his brain which girl is he talking about....
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guess this will be swept away and all forgotten
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Originally posted by alexrain:its not the online activities im talking about
its the OFF LINE ones
and that is what is scary...having two personalities
Nothing can be kept secret in the forum for long because eventually what comes around, goes around. Somebody will know something and words will get around.
If your girlfriend has been 'brainwashed' as claimed by you, it's not the fault of this forum, other than individual's integrity being questioned. This has nothing do with being a moderator or not because that's simply a position given to him to take care of the forum.
Whether he's a good person or not - to each his own. Replied to Kitty before; nobody can make anybody like anybody. Everybody is entitled to his/her own opinion and I respect that.
I can tell you blatantly that this phenomenon has been going behind the scene for gawd knows when. I can safety say that there are also some non-moderator going around AA, looking for troubled ladies and ending up in relationship with them. They too offer to dispense advice and stuff - you know those kind of things? Although, they are quiet and lurking around - I know it. And it's not like something people must tell me, but obvious when people drop PM to me about their BGR issues and I can piece a tale together with different people's PM/story.
There are times when I just wanted to post a topic to bash them - but at the end of the day, who is yunhaier? What can yunhaier do to alter karma? (Uranus-influenced). Nothing.
Therefore, is it just because a moderator is a moderate and therefore subjected to the axe while the non-moderators can hide quietly in one corner?
I won't defend anybody here because at the end of the day, everyone is accountable for their own action.
For people seeking private PMs from specific people - you are finding them (moderators/non-moderators alike) at your own risk. You find them because you trust them and of course, when you put trust at the wrong hands, you end up suffering more. That's the decision you make my dear - you cannot always have someone policing here and making sure that everything is good and holy - this is a gawd damn forum and everyone is using a pseudonym to receive and dispense advice. At best we try to keep things in order, but nothing is perfect.
You can have TankKH80, being a counsellor, and ending up having a relationship with his client - my goodness, what else cannot happen? But is it the fault of the 'position' given to him or is it the fault of the organization he is serving?
It's personal integrity, my dear friend.
P.S: As regards to your relationship: when your house is made of bricks and the wind blows - one often agrees that the house is strong and not that the wind is weak. When the same wind blows at the straw house, one often agrees that the wind is strong and not the house is weak.
Cheers -
Already done.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Maybe...but lets do this before I turn senile.
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Oh bother... Seriously... Kitty.. Don't you have better things to do...?Originally posted by alexrain:i can personally tell you that it is still happening now, i can personally vouch for it, asking the girl out , saying that her boyfriend is not right for her , he is the right one instead!
maybe that is his style of operation, using his moderator status to do all this things, taking advantage of young girls and maybe bedding them in the process.
its so unprofessional and i think he should quit being the moderator...its such a DEVILLISH thing to do!
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if really mod has been trying to brainwash ur gf, then provide proofs? any proof of their conversations? Any PMs to show that he has been asking ur gf out?
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Hi Kitty... You REALLY AMAZES ME on HOW LOW a person can GO so as to TRASH HER NAME...Originally posted by alexrain:i been wanting to post but thinking about it either posting or confronting him personally , but viciouskitty post help me to sort off make up my mind,
he try all the moves on my girlfriend,advising her to break up with me..and he is better suited for her...what kind of moderator is that?and trying to date her all the time! he is a clown
damm it
PLEASE SUE ME SOON so that I can SUE YOU BACK for SLANDER!!
Uttering NONSENSES and RUMOURS ain't gonna get to you ANYWHERE on the INTERNET!!
Just for the RECORD...
1. I am IMMUNISED to RUMOURS ALREADY... So you can RANT all I CARE!
2. I DON'T have a GOOD name to start with.. So you need not advertise for me already!! I'm NOT paying you for that okay!! <>
3. I KNOW what I do when I ask people out to advise them, and people KNOW what I do for them... So just to cut your loss... DON'T even bother!! People who know what I do for them would know!! Only people who DON'T can SPECULATE!!
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Pls lah... You should just follow BadzMaro's advice as below.. Or at least give us a time and date...?Originally posted by alexrain:my gf is a lady and also in this forum, i have to ask her permission first.dont worry , i wont let this die down so easily
You DON'T just go around in a CLONE, bashing up people's names...
You DON'T BASH someone up... CLAIM that he ABUSES your gf.. Then when people QUESTION you then you simply reply "it's ok"... BECAUSE it's NOT okay...
If you have FACTS, BACK THEM UP and I shall ENTERTAIN you... If yuo DON'T, then SHUT UP.
I've offered to CLOSE THIS THREAD NOT in any way because I'm INTIMIDATED by YOU KITTY....
I offered to close this thread just to SAVE you from FURTHER EMBRASSMENTS.... And also I think I would have better use of my time in this forum than to ENTERTAIN to someone like YOU...
I KNEW you are STUBBORN... But you've just made YOURSELF VERY CHEAP....Originally posted by BadzMaro:Since its out. U can write and explain in more detail the sitation , time, date etc etc. Useful information to prove your case and get the 'accused' to acknowledge or defend his actions. -
SAVE YOUR TROUBLES Kitty...
You know what you're trying to pull up your own sleeves... And if you know what kinda cards I'm holding up my hands, you won't even THINK about trying...
I'm a LAZY Devil... And my job in here is not to entertain your nonsense...
But IF you INSIST on SLAPPING your own face.. I have nothing to say...
Good day? -
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Originally posted by alexrain:hmmm interesting,
i have to ask the parties involved whether they want to be named or not,
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HELLO.... LMAO!!!Originally posted by missqi:
~WAHAHAHAHAhaha.....~ <> <> <> -
Originally posted by alexrain:my gf is a lady and also in this forum, i have to ask her permission first.dont worry , i wont let this die down so easily