gf keeps thinking abt ex.
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Hi, my gf keeps on thinking abt her ex bf. his ex bf frens told her that he is very sad after the break up. initially i told her, that she still can be frens wif him, still can go out together in a group etc..
yesterday she cried, she was reluctant to tell me why, so i mention abt him and after some persistantance from me, she said she cant forget him. she added, she is afraid of regret. i told her to break up wif me.. i was very disapponted and sad.
though we r still togeter AT THE MOMENT. i dunno how long it will last. i dun feel any sense of security honestly becoz we broke and patch before, becoz of that ex. i know she loves him more too.
wat shoudl i do? i make her happy everytime we're together, she knows that. i tried making her stop thinking of him by showering her wif love and attention. is it JUST TOO BAD? -
give up...
her heart is obviously nt with u...
better flowers out dere who cares and love u more.. -
Let her go if I were you.....you dont want to be a rebound or a subsitute....or at least until she sort herself outOriginally posted by bigdeal:Hi, my gf keeps on thinking abt her ex bf. his ex bf frens told her that he is very sad after the break up. initially i told her, that she still can be frens wif him, still can go out together in a group etc..
yesterday she cried, she was reluctant to tell me why, so i mention abt him and after some persistantance from me, she said she cant forget him. she added, she is afraid of regret. i told her to break up wif me.. i was very disapponted and sad.
though we r still togeter AT THE MOMENT. i dunno how long it will last. i dun feel any sense of security honestly becoz we broke and patch before, becoz of that ex. i know she loves him more too.
wat shoudl i do? i make her happy everytime we're together, she knows that. i tried making her stop thinking of him by showering her wif love and attention. is it JUST TOO BAD? -
Giving her attention and showering her with love is not really dealing directly with the root of her problem...Originally posted by bigdeal:Hi, my gf keeps on thinking abt her ex bf. his ex bf frens told her that he is very sad after the break up. initially i told her, that she still can be frens wif him, still can go out together in a group etc..
yesterday she cried, she was reluctant to tell me why, so i mention abt him and after some persistantance from me, she said she cant forget him. she added, she is afraid of regret. i told her to break up wif me.. i was very disapponted and sad.
though we r still togeter AT THE MOMENT. i dunno how long it will last. i dun feel any sense of security honestly becoz we broke and patch before, becoz of that ex. i know she loves him more too.
wat shoudl i do? i make her happy everytime we're together, she knows that. i tried making her stop thinking of him by showering her wif love and attention. is it JUST TOO BAD? -
i think is time to let her go... maybe after she go, she may realise the one who she love might be u..
is useless to keep her body.. w/o her heart with u. -
i'm experiencing the same problem, the feeling is so f.ucked up, threadstarter will find it hard to leave her...the love is there you know, not to say that if feel like leaving then just leave...its so much harder than that...
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i have already told her we should break up. she only kept quiet. she said she already made up her mind to be with me. she said she tried forgetting him but she cant. i really dunno wat to do to make her feel better. leaving her now and letting her be with the guy will somehow end up the same i assume. sigh, yea, i am so f.ucked right now
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my guess is give the both of u time n space... think thru everything without the presence of each other, maybe u will realize something more about it...
gd luck -
If she say her mind is already make up. You should support her and stop keeping telling her that you guys should break up. Time will heal everything, just be more patience and thing will be in your favour...
Even now if you ask her go back to her bf, do you think their relationship would still be the same as last time? There a saying " once a glass is broken, no matter how u mend it, it will not be the same again." She loving 2 person now and for the short momment just could not make up her mind. Give her time... -
why did they break?
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yawn.Originally posted by bigdeal:Hi, my gf keeps on thinking abt her ex bf. his ex bf frens told her that he is very sad after the break up. initially i told her, that she still can be frens wif him, still can go out together in a group etc..
yesterday she cried, she was reluctant to tell me why, so i mention abt him and after some persistantance from me, she said she cant forget him. she added, she is afraid of regret. i told her to break up wif me.. i was very disapponted and sad.
though we r still togeter AT THE MOMENT. i dunno how long it will last. i dun feel any sense of security honestly becoz we broke and patch before, becoz of that ex. i know she loves him more too.
wat shoudl i do? i make her happy everytime we're together, she knows that. i tried making her stop thinking of him by showering her wif love and attention. is it JUST TOO BAD? -
this is the best advice....give ur gf more time n space ba....she needs it...Originally posted by cheekycheng:my guess is give the both of u time n space... think thru everything without the presence of each other, maybe u will realize something more about it...
gd luck -
keep thinking abt the ex and the memories is a normal things... it is whether she had decided to make up her mind who is want to be with now?
u say that she had make up the mind to be with u.. then it is good.... give her some time and in the meantime, create nice memories and be together with her....
Although u may feel a bit unsecurity... But u as a guy , must be strong, surely can win her heart one... Be patience!
Jia You!
But if she decide to stay with the ex, it is her choice too, u have to respect it...
in a r/s , u really dun know whether it can work out anot.
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All is lost now just focus on getting sex from her at least once before she leaves you for good
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agree... get sex den byebye..
if cannot... den other ways.. must make her regret..
she's selfish by doing so to you.. so anything u do later.. ur not the one who's wrong..
keep her by ur side.. body w/o heart also can..
mentally torture her.. make sure if u cant have her others also cant.. -
break, i know its hard, i have the same situation with u during my sec sch life. u will have alot of problems becos of her ex even after a year or 2. even till now i regret my decision to stead with her. i know im happy with her.. but.
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u got the same nick as my brother sia.Originally posted by lengkia:agree... get sex den byebye..
if cannot... den other ways.. must make her regret..
she's selfish by doing so to you.. so anything u do later.. ur not the one who's wrong..
keep her by ur side.. body w/o heart also can..
mentally torture her.. make sure if u cant have her others also cant..
if u were my brother, i sure give u a lecture. -
Your gf is obviously not with you for the right reasons. How to when her heart is not with you when she's with you? Time to cool off. She's not ready to be with you and you should just move on than waste your time with her and deprive yourself the opportunity of meeting other girls.....!
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Originally posted by browniebaobao:u got the same nick as my brother sia.
if u were my brother, i sure give u a lecture.
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Originally posted by lengkia:agree... get sex den byebye..
if cannot... den other ways.. must make her regret..
she's selfish by doing so to you.. so anything u do later.. ur not the one who's wrong..
keep her by ur side.. body w/o heart also can..
mentally torture her.. make sure if u cant have her others also cant.. 
u watch too much drama liao.... -
make it a end...troublesome
singlehood better
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pls..die..Originally posted by lengkia:agree... get sex den byebye..
if cannot... den other ways.. must make her regret..
she's selfish by doing so to you.. so anything u do later.. ur not the one who's wrong..
keep her by ur side.. body w/o heart also can..
mentally torture her.. make sure if u cant have her others also cant.. 
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its norm la... u jz need to help her forget him lo... bring her to counsellor lo or u tok to her and ask her wats so great abt it lo..Originally posted by bigdeal:Hi, my gf keeps on thinking abt her ex bf. his ex bf frens told her that he is very sad after the break up. initially i told her, that she still can be frens wif him, still can go out together in a group etc..
yesterday she cried, she was reluctant to tell me why, so i mention abt him and after some persistantance from me, she said she cant forget him. she added, she is afraid of regret. i told her to break up wif me.. i was very disapponted and sad.
though we r still togeter AT THE MOMENT. i dunno how long it will last. i dun feel any sense of security honestly becoz we broke and patch before, becoz of that ex. i know she loves him more too.
wat shoudl i do? i make her happy everytime we're together, she knows that. i tried making her stop thinking of him by showering her wif love and attention. is it JUST TOO BAD? -
chill... maybe u havent make enuff impact yet lo...Originally posted by bigdeal:i have already told her we should break up. she only kept quiet. she said she already made up her mind to be with me. she said she tried forgetting him but she cant. i really dunno wat to do to make her feel better. leaving her now and letting her be with the guy will somehow end up the same i assume. sigh, yea, i am so f.ucked right now -
leave her...and maybe she will regret about it too...