What happens when moderators arent what they seem?
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my questiion is , he knows what he did , why he went tearing into viciouskitty ?is it misdirection??Originally posted by allentyb:the thing is devil has not come out to explain himself mah, now if we all jump into conclusion, it will be messy...... -
its good that your girlfriend has come out to clarify some of the matter and we are trying to be neutral here, and now, what remain is devil, himself to post here, and be a man, explain himself, and there are so many flame thread is going on, i doubt he will appear soon
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that why i requested that there is NO more flame...Originally posted by allentyb:its good that your girlfriend has come out to clarify some of the matter and we are trying to be neutral here, and now, what remain is devil, himself to post here, and be a man, explain himself, and there are so many flame thread is going on, i doubt he will appear soon -
we have to wait for him to explain his actions...Originally posted by alexrain:my questiion is , he knows what he did , why he went tearing into viciouskitty ?is it misdirection?? -
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its misdirection, but human tend to be defensive about themselves, they don't have a mirror to look at what they have done, they doesn't know a harmless comment , can create such a incident and since the mess is out in the forum, and i feel bad for you as a man, to hear such comment, its totally one sided, he doesn't know what you have commit to this relationship, and jump into conclusion. So he is laying low, it is the right thing to do, i wouldn't want to be hit in the middle of a crossfire,if i am devilOriginally posted by alexrain:my questiion is , he knows what he did , why he went tearing into viciouskitty ?is it misdirection?? -
well as long as he dont wait for the thread to die...to blow over before he comes backOriginally posted by c0mplex:we have to wait for him to explain his actions... -
One, I was never calling for evidence. I'm not so patient to read through pages and pages of words. Never did I say it was groundless, although I have to admit that I was harsh on the first post.Originally posted by alexrain:oh , ppl was calling for evidence saying it groundless etc, now there is evidence , ..sigh
can never win....are you trying to humanise his misdeeds
sayign that im only human...
Two, with or without evidence, I can't judge. I'm only an on-looker, I have presented my views as an on-looker.
Three, I don't see any need for humanizing his misdeeds. It's a private matter between the 4 of you. It has attracted enough attention and I see no need to publicize even further.
As long as the four of you sees fit, one representative can post that the issue has been resolved.
Four, yes, I'm saying you are only a human, so is everybody posting here. -
i wasn't flaming...............Originally posted by c0mplex:that why i requested that there is NO more flame... -
harmless comment? he is not harmless, he is very good, until now still chasing my gf...asking for valentine date..but of course never get!Originally posted by allentyb:its misdirection, but human tend to be defensive about themselves, they don't have a mirror to look at what they have done, they doesn't know a harmless comment , can create such a incident and since the mess is out in the forum, and i feel bad for you as a man, to hear such comment, its totally one sided, he doesn't know what you have commit to this relationship, and jump into conclusion. So he is laying low, it is the right thing to do, i wouldn't want to be hit in the middle of a crossfire,if i am devil -
Please, what time is it now?Originally posted by allentyb:the thing is devil has not come out to explain himself mah, now if we all jump into conclusion, it will be messy......
At least give him a day to post right? -
but he is one of the mod, here so indirectly..........Originally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:One, I was never calling for evidence. I'm not so patient to read through pages and pages of words. Never did I say it was groundless, although I have to admit that I was harsh on the first post.
Two, with or without evidence, I can't judge. I'm only an on-looker, I have presented my views as an on-looker.
Three, I don't see any need for humanizing his misdeeds. It's a private matter between the 4 of you. It has attracted enough attention and I see no need to publicize even further.
As long as the four of you sees fit, one representative can post that the issue has been resolved.
Four, yes, I'm saying you are only a human, so is everybody posting here. -
I thought so, I still alive anyway. Just kidding, I honestly don't remember you flaming me anyway.Originally posted by allentyb:no lah, just now that flame i type in previous post was totally my fault and yes, that siggy is a joke......
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errrrrrrr........ this is something..... i don't know what to believe,Originally posted by alexrain:harmless comment? he is not harmless, he is very good, until now still chasing my gf...asking for valentine date.. -
he usually post at late night~~~Originally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:Please, what time is it now?
At least give him a day to post right? -
As I've said, we don't need to know the details of what's going on behind. If it can be solved peacefully without forumers here adding fuel and other ingredients, I don't see the reason why it can't be settled privately.Originally posted by allentyb:its good that your girlfriend has come out to clarify some of the matter and we are trying to be neutral here, and now, what remain is devil, himself to post here, and be a man, explain himself, and there are so many flame thread is going on, i doubt he will appear soon
And please note the time. It's 3.47am here, not 3.47pm. -
You guys are making creme brulee? Baked Alaska?Originally posted by SumOne:I thought so, I still alive anyway. Just kidding, I honestly don't remember you flaming me anyway. -
nevermind i was flaming with no good reason, its totally my own faultOriginally posted by SumOne:I thought so, I still alive anyway. Just kidding, I honestly don't remember you flaming me anyway. -
I know where your bf is coming from, but you need to realise, being a moderator is not a profession. Note what many of us have already said about being a moderator.Originally posted by bee_gal:My bf's anger stemmed from, him being a moderator, at the time of my confusion in my relationship, advising me on such things are very inappropriate and is very likely to mislead and confuse the confused. It is very unprofessional.[/url]
Such a thing though is inappropriate. -
Check with him, he's the one with the flames. Maybe he's making grilled cheeseburgers or something.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:You guys are making creme brulee? Baked Alaska? -
Shoo shoo! All of you. Go to Sleep!Originally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:And please note the time. It's 3.47am here, not 3.47pm.
i know its friday nite and your tomorrow is Saturday, but go get some sleep so you can enjoy your weekends fully!
I am 16 hours behind you guys so i got another full day ahead! Go and rest! -
I AM SO sorry, i don't sleep so i don't keep track of the timeOriginally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:As I've said, we don't need to know the details of what's going on behind. If it can be solved peacefully without forumers here adding fuel and other ingredients, I don't see the reason why it can't be settled privately.
And please note the time. It's 3.47am here, not 3.47pm. -
Then?Originally posted by allentyb:but he is one of the mod, here so indirectly.......... -
That one is square.Originally posted by allentyb:he usually post at late night~~~
I hardly see devil around late at night. -
If you know mayi.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Shoo shoo! All of you. Go to Sleep!
i know its friday nite and your tomorrow is Saturday, but go get some sleep so you can enjoy your weekends fully!
I am 16 hours behind you guys so i got another full day ahead! Go and rest!