What happens when moderators arent what they seem?
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I apologise for being so late in posting in this thread, causing everyone so much anxiety and arguments.
if you would remember months ago, i started a thread that garnered over 500 posts. Yes, alexrain is my bf. we had lots of problems then.
http://buses.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=224868&page=0
Back then, i seek the opinions of many forumites and of course, many kind-hearted souls contributed their opinions. Among them, was the moderator, you-know-who-by-now. he kind-heartedly suggeted to meet up, so that he can understand my situation better and offer me better and more appropriate advice. Yes, we met up. During the meet ups, he advised me about my situation. In addition to helping me better understand the situation, he told me that my bf and myself are very uncompatible. he also said that him and i are more compatible.
My bf's anger stemmed from, him being a moderator, at the time of my confusion in my relationship, advising me on such things are very inappropriate and is very likely to mislead and confuse the confused. It is very unethical.
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i suppose there's some typo in your post... nevertheless, this thing has come to an end... case closed until new evidenceOriginally posted by alexrain:anyway, my gf wanted to post here and settle the issue but in doing so , it s going to drag her into this nasty spat here
so i decided to give up , yes , you can say groundless accusation , etc.
i concede because i can present no evidence without involving her
so thank viciouskitty and all thos e who believe in me, i appreciate your support..
just hope nobody will fall for this blardy guy tricks
good night
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once again i want to say thank you to ppl who believe in what i said, i can assure you all that is the absolute truth.
i hope i didnt let you down by giving up so easily but as some other ppl said
without evidence , its just hearsay..
and i dotn want to get unwilling party involved
so thank you
you wont see me here again
word of advise to the moderators dont let one black sheep pull you down, better moderate the moderators yourself too -
Originally posted by alexrain:anyway, my gf wanted to post here and settle the issue but in doing so , it s going to drag her into this nasty spat here
so i decided to give up , yes , you can say groundless accusation , etc.
i concede because i can present no evidence without involving her
so thank viciouskitty and all thos e who believe in me, i appreciate your support..
just hope nobody will fall for this blardy guy tricks
good night
It's not fair to call it groundless because there may really be an incident behind this but we just don't know. So I say, take it all with a pinch of salt.Originally posted by c0mplex:precisely... most of the replies are either flamessssssss or just some 'groundless' accusation... -
I don't know which nutcase tells you she's obsessed about meeting people.Originally posted by Eric Cartman:Well she seems obsessed about meeting up people and is daring people all the time to meet her up. Brute strength does not need a reason to do its stuff.
She only wants to clear up this issue in private, not in public. -
It takes 2 hands to clap. -
No, my bf is no a loser who fails at everythin in life or get sacked by boss and got dumbed by 100 women and nobody wants to hire him.Originally posted by allentyb:I am patiently waiting for your reply, since you haven't reply, so i decided to post more, i really don't know what is your problem but i love to flame at dimwit, and furthermore, you have no regards to what the mod has been doing, you probably another sore loser, who fails at everything in life, got sacked by boss, got dumped by 100 woman, all your life saving got cheated away, nobody wants to hire you, because your face look like S H I T.
On the contrary, he is a promising and successful man who is a boss to many. And he is good looking, tall and muscular. -
Your gf posted here.Originally posted by alexrain:anyway, my gf wanted to post here and settle the issue but in doing so , it s going to drag her into this nasty spat here
so i decided to give up , yes , you can say groundless accusation , etc.
i concede because i can present no evidence without involving her
so thank viciouskitty and all thos e who believe in me, i appreciate your support..
just hope nobody will fall for this blardy guy tricks
good night -
that why i put it as 'groundless'...Originally posted by SumOne:It's not fair to call it groundless because there may really be an incident behind this but we just don't know. So I say, take it all with a pinch of salt. -
thank you for replying, i have been waiting for so longOriginally posted by bee_gal:No, my bf is no a loser fails at everythin in life or get sacked by boss and got dumbed by 100 women and nobody wants to hire him.
On the contrary, he is a promising and successful man who is a boss to many. And he is good looking, tall and muscular. -
Now we're going somewhere!
Thank you for standing up to clarify matters.
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its a flame, and its suppose to verbal abuse, since he doesn't want to reply, oh wellOriginally posted by bee_gal:No, my bf is no a loser fails at everythin in life or get sacked by boss and got dumbed by 100 women and nobody wants to hire him.
On the contrary, he is a promising and successful man who is a boss to many. And he is good looking, tall and muscular. -
that leaves devil to clarify his own side of things...Originally posted by M©+square:Now we're going somewhere!
Thank you for standing up to clarify matters.
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x2 Precisely.Originally posted by c0mplex:that leaves devil to clarify his own side of things...
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until then, may i suggest that there is NO more flaming of any sort... let's just wait... but IF devil doesn't no reply... hmm... i don't knowOriginally posted by M©+square:x2 Precisely. 
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He doesn't have eidence doesn't mean he doesn't have a reason. But it's ok, I know where you're coming from.Originally posted by c0mplex:that why i put it as 'groundless'... -
no more flame /cry
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use common sense. it takes 2.
2 hands to clap. -
Devil is a human as well. He has a real life out there.Originally posted by c0mplex:until then, may i suggest that there is NO more flaming of any sort... let's just wait... but IF devil doesn't no reply... hmm... i don't know
Let's give him some time to sort it out with TS, alexrain and bee_gal.
Don't think there's a need for everything to be published out to the Net. -
now can we flame devil ?
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point noted... i think i should use clarify(be it here or among them), instead of reply...Originally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:Devil is a human as well. He has a real life out there.
Let's give him some time to sort it out with TS, alexrain and bee_gal.
Don't think there's a need for everything to be published out to the Net. -
I thought your siggy was just a joke, I didn't realise your online life really revolved around flame.Originally posted by allentyb:no more flame /cry -
no lah, just now that flame i type in previous post was totally my fault and yes, that siggy is a joke......Originally posted by SumOne:I thought your siggy was just a joke, I didn't realise your online life really revolved around flame. -
oh , ppl was calling for evidence saying it groundless etc, now there is evidence , ..sighOriginally posted by ndmmxiaomayi:Devil is a human as well. He has a real life out there.
Let's give him some time to sort it out with TS, alexrain and bee_gal.
Don't think there's a need for everything to be published out to the Net.
can never win....are you trying to humanise his misdeeds
sayign that im only human... -
the thing is devil has not come out to explain himself mah, now if we all jump into conclusion, it will be messy......Originally posted by alexrain:oh , ppl was calling for evidence saying it groundless etc, now there is evidence , ..sigh
can never win....are you trying to humanise his misdeeds
sayign that im only human...