Desperate for help!
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18Originally posted by M©+square:What's your age
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2 dollars for Mee hoon and a drink. Care to share where you're studying right now?Originally posted by Jookie:18
It's pretty rare to hear such little allowance for a 18 yr old.
And what does your father and mother do as their occupation? -
I'll try to consult my lecturers. See what should I do. I think my whole family is f**ked up. Dad insance, mom ignorance, bro laughing......Haiz...Originally posted by Bontakun:I dun wanna suggest dis... I think I will hate it for even tinking abt dis... but since yr mum dun really care, yr brother can't do much, and yr dad saying you r all FAMILY, then you can also take their things for usage. Like your mum's Beyonce songs, or yr bro's books, or yr dad's money to buy undergarments for him. Family...
Dis is really a jialat issue, I still tink you go consult your lecturers or anyone whom you trust alot. -
How many times in the world I need to tell u all that Im not who-the-hell stookie!??Originally posted by hiphop2009:u stupid stookie stop all ur nonsense.
call helpline if u need help -
ignore them.Originally posted by Jookie:How many times in the world I need to tell u all that Im not who-the-hell stookie!?? -
Yeah pretty rare huh....sometimes my friends also pity me, they actually try to give me some money to spend but I reject it.Originally posted by M©+square:2 dollars for Mee hoon and a drink. Care to share where you're studying right now?
It's pretty rare to hear such little allowance for a 18 yr old.
And what does your father and mother do as their occupation?
My father work as assistant lawyer and my mother work as clerk. -
Then how can su help u??? Mind sharing which school are u studying???
I try to figure out a way to assist u... -
Then something is seriously wrong here... If your dad works as assistant lawyer, he should know that what he is doing is an infringement of privacy and vague evidence of perversion. He can claim he don't have much undergarments to wear but really... the person in trauma is you and you have the right to protect your rights and morality.Originally posted by Jookie:Yeah pretty rare huh....sometimes my friends also pity me, they actually try to give me some money to spend but I reject it.
My father work as assistant lawyer and my mother work as clerk.
Do you know where your dad works? Do you know anyone in his workplace? I am thinking: maybe you can find that person you know and consult him/her on this matter and ask for their professional advice. -
lol
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Sorry I cant tell u where I study....Originally posted by soulwinner:Then how can su help u??? Mind sharing which school are u studying??? I try to figure out a way to assist u... -
dont worry not ur panty..Originally posted by Jookie:Just now, you all blamed me as a Stookie, now Hello Kitty....why u guys want from me ar? -
Hmm...letting others(his colleague) know about her father personal habits?Originally posted by Bontakun:Then something is seriously wrong here... If your dad works as assistant lawyer, he should know that what he is doing is an infringement of privacy and vague evidence of perversion. He can claim he don't have much undergarments to wear but really... the person in trauma is you and you have the right to protect your rights and morality.
Do you know where your dad works? Do you know anyone in his workplace? I am thinking: maybe you can find that person you know and consult him/her on this matter and ask for their professional advice.
School counsel is all right....
Father's workplace?
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Yes, this is very disgrace for an assitant lawyer. Im feeling down and down, confused and living in fear. I think I need to consult my school teachers about this matter.Originally posted by Bontakun:Then something is seriously wrong here... If your dad works as assistant lawyer, he should know that what he is doing is an infringement of privacy and vague evidence of perversion. He can claim he don't have much undergarments to wear but really... the person in trauma is you and you have the right to protect your rights and morality.
Do you know where your dad works? Do you know anyone in his workplace? I am thinking: maybe you can find that person you know and consult him/her on this matter and ask for their professional advice.
I need to sleep now, didnt sleep since yesterday after the incident.
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I think school council is the first solution I should take first, thanks for helping you, thanks guys. Update 2molo...Originally posted by M©+square:Hmm...letting others(his colleague) know about her father personal habits?
School counsel is all right....
Father's workplace?
Hmm....... -
Originally posted by M©+square:Hmm...letting others(his colleague) know about her father personal habits?
School counsel is all right....
Father's workplace?
Hmm.......
I agree in red too, forgive my earlier suggestion on contacting his colleagues because I think that can be used as a trump against your dad should he is not repentant. Reporting to the police is last of course.Originally posted by Jookie:Yes, this is very disgrace for an assitant lawyer. Im feeling down and down, confused and living in fear. I think I need to consult my school teachers about this matter.
I need to sleep now, didnt sleep since yesterday after the incident.
But somehow I see its more than just what is described here. I seem to think we are looking at your dad's 'perversion' here. I mean: if he really short on undergarments, why not all get from your brother? Even if your brother do not have sufficient amount, why not get from your mum?
This is an issue I cannot give further comments for I fear may add complications. So I apologise again for what I have imputted. -
how about buying a basket of underwear for him so he can't use dat as an excuse?
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I'm waiting for bookie to come out.
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Someone can marry jookie and deliver her from all the mishaps????
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Nah no problem, what we do here is just to encourage her, to work out on the means to solve this problem.Originally posted by Bontakun:I agree in red too, forgive my earlier suggestion on contacting his colleagues because I think that can be used as a trump against your dad should he is not repentant. Reporting to the police is last of course.
But somehow I see its more than just what is described here. I seem to think we are looking at your dad's 'perversion' here. I mean: if he really short on undergarments, why not all get from your brother? Even if your brother do not have sufficient amount, why not get from your mum?
This is an issue I cannot give further comments for I fear may add complications. So I apologise again for what I have imputted. -
can't you tell he's bullshiting?
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what if she is not? can u take the responsibility?Originally posted by gigabyte14:can't you tell he's bullshiting? -
Father likes to wear her undies... as far as I can see, no law broken... if that is all the weird stuff he does then she should just observe him. She should be like her mum and bro... just be cool about it. No need to go crazy about it. No need to take any action.Originally posted by Ito_^:what if she is not? can u take the responsibility? -
i think its not normal to for your dad to take ur private belongings and who knows what he will do next.....it is best to monitor the situation and lock your door at night.if seriously try to do funny things...talk to your mom first and if nothing works out,police is the only issue....hope it helps.i believe right now u r still young now but who knows in the future???
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You should speak to your lecturers on your family problems as well as trying to talk to your mom via lecturers regarding taking a part time job so as to lighten your allowance.Originally posted by Jookie:I'll try to consult my lecturers. See what should I do. I think my whole family is f**ked up. Dad insance, mom ignorance, bro laughing......Haiz...
obviously $2 per day is miserably low, it's not even enough to have a decent few these days in poly.
you can just ignore those similar replies by them.Originally posted by Jookie:How many times in the world I need to tell u all that Im not who-the-hell stookie!??
as there's a lot of clones in the forums, since you're not, than just ignore them.
when no one responds to them, they will automatically keep quiet.
Take this as a learning experience, and learnt to survive on your own, less the behaviour of your dad gets even serious years later when you grow up.Originally posted by Jookie:Yeah pretty rare huh....sometimes my friends also pity me, they actually try to give me some money to spend but I reject it.
My father work as assistant lawyer and my mother work as clerk.
so by that time, when you have worked for some time (assuming your lectuers are able to speak to your mom on allowing you to work), perhaps you should have a rent a place to stay. -
So how many forumers out there willing to supply jookie with new panty?????