Just had a breakup...
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Just broken up with my girlfriend of 10 mths++. As you can see from my other AA thread, I had some problems with her right from the start (I.E. religion).
She told me we were not possible already and it was infatuation right from the start for her, and an act of rashness when she decided to be with me.
Now that she's gone, I really feel so lost. I'm studying in NP while she's on TP. So everyday after school, I will go to her school to eat dinner with her. But now that the relationship is gone, I'll be so not used to going home early. I still planned so many things to do with her and they are impossible to complete now, especially our 1st anniversary...
What's worst is that I only got 2 good friends in Poly, so I think I'll be so lonely now... Luckily it's the holidays now.
Sigh, so can anyone tell me what should I do? Should I still wait for her hoping that there's still a chance in the future for us to patch up?
I just can't forget her, and I guess I won't be able to sleep every night...
I'm fcuking heartbroken now... Someone please help me! *Sigh* -
w8 for a few weeks...
if no nothing, den too bad la.
try to adapt being single.
patience, my friend. -
What do I wait a few weeks for?
You mean after a few weeks then ask her again? -
Find your old friends to keep you company at night, to fill in the gaps without her.
Don't wallow in emptiness. Cuz the more empty you feel, the more you want her back. Better still, go out and get to know more girls!!! -
hmmm....
u mentioned that you only have 2 good friends in poly? to me that's more than enough...
spend time with them....
call out your old good friends.... hang out with them...
when i broke up with my ex, he had no one... he distance himself so much from his friends that he had no one.... but he called up all his old friends, from sec sch. primary sch, army etc.
and they were there for him. let your friends be there for you. -
you felt lost of hope is because right now you have nothing to do since its your holidays,try to do some meaningful stuffs to stay out of the memories you have.
since you r studying at the moment,there are still plentiful of opprtunities for you in the future.remember that there are others who have the same situation as you have right now and you are not alone. -
Memories of us together just keep coming back to my mind, even though I keep myself busy in the morning. But during the night I feel so so lonely without her... People ask me to delete everything of her, but I just can't bear to do it. I cry every night when I see my handphone's wallpaper which is a picture we took together when we just started...
Sigh... -
time heals
U can alway spend time at the forum -
*pat pat on TS back*
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yeah.....maybe go for forum outing organised by forumnites here?....Originally posted by xDD:time heals
U can alway spend time at the forum -
Can depend on ur friends ba..
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sigh...you remind me....I still havent change the picture associated with her number...Originally posted by technoboy:Memories of us together just keep coming back to my mind, even though I keep myself busy in the morning. But during the night I feel so so lonely without her... People ask me to delete everything of her, but I just can't bear to do it. I cry every night when I see my handphone's wallpaper which is a picture we took together when we just started...
Sigh... -
don't worry, it will take time to get over. you'll be fine.Originally posted by technoboy:Memories of us together just keep coming back to my mind, even though I keep myself busy in the morning. But during the night I feel so so lonely without her... People ask me to delete everything of her, but I just can't bear to do it. I cry every night when I see my handphone's wallpaper which is a picture we took together when we just started...
Sigh... -
And time passes by so slowly.Originally posted by technoboy:Memories of us together just keep coming back to my mind, even though I keep myself busy in the morning. But during the night I feel so so lonely without her... People ask me to delete everything of her, but I just can't bear to do it. I cry every night when I see my handphone's wallpaper which is a picture we took together when we just started...
Sigh...
And the nights are so cold and lonely. -
i think u jus need to go over it.. do some things to distract urself 1st and slowly, will adapt to life without her.. try ur best to concentrate on ur studies and nothing else.. jus get urself busy.. maybe u can call her out and ask her y she ditch u cause i dun find the reason above very reasonable.. it have been 10months.. so if she accepts u in a rush, u both won't stay so long.. maybe the real answer will make u feel better..Originally posted by technoboy:Just broken up with my girlfriend of 10 mths++. As you can see from my other AA thread, I had some problems with her right from the start (I.E. religion).
She told me we were not possible already and it was infatuation right from the start for her, and an act of rashness when she decided to be with me.
Now that she's gone, I really feel so lost. I'm studying in NP while she's on TP. So everyday after school, I will go to her school to eat dinner with her. But now that the relationship is gone, I'll be so not used to going home early. I still planned so many things to do with her and they are impossible to complete now, especially our 1st anniversary...
What's worst is that I only got 2 good friends in Poly, so I think I'll be so lonely now... Luckily it's the holidays now.
Sigh, so can anyone tell me what should I do? Should I still wait for her hoping that there's still a chance in the future for us to patch up?
I just can't forget her, and I guess I won't be able to sleep every night...
I'm fcuking heartbroken now... Someone please help me! *Sigh* -
np wat course?
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Although not related to topic, I'm in accountancy...
You? -
most of us will know how u feel for weve been there... i didnt bear to del everything about her, however i send them to one of my fren... she kept them for me n i del my copy, so that when i DO get over it, i can reminisce... i still do miss her, a relapse or something... its hard to forget about her isnt it? the bed u slp in seemed bigger, feeling alone...
u r studying arent u? to help u a little, im in ns where all other girls we see r auntys... so~ u feeling lucky yet?
gd luck -
I also find it wierd, but she said she already thought of this problem since a long time, like 2 or 3 months since we were together. And when I asked for the real reason, she just said it was simple as that, which was the feelings changed.Originally posted by blahshit:i think u jus need to go over it.. do some things to distract urself 1st and slowly, will adapt to life without her.. try ur best to concentrate on ur studies and nothing else.. jus get urself busy.. maybe u can call her out and ask her y she ditch u cause i dun find the reason above very reasonable.. it have been 10months.. so if she accepts u in a rush, u both won't stay so long.. maybe the real answer will make u feel better.. -
*pat pat*
lao ge drink men jiu with u.. know how u feel.. -
sometimes like dat one, got one saying: nu ren xin, hai di zhen (means women's heart are juz like needles being dropped in the middle of the sea).Originally posted by technoboy:I also find it wierd, but she said she already thought of this problem since a long time, like 2 or 3 months since we were together. And when I asked for the real reason, she just said it was simple as that, which was the feelings changed.
i got a fren, she accepted a guy because she was too afraid of rejecting him. n dat guy had health problem, so she accepted him for the fear dat his health problem would worsen if she rejected him. the guy treated her v nice but she had no dat kind of feelings for her lo.
sounds ridiculous? but it is a true story~yeap.....so technoboy, dun fret....find a gerl who truly loves u n u love her too~.... =) -
i graduated liao.Originally posted by technoboy:Although not related to topic, I'm in accountancy...
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still young la... theres so many nice babes so dun lose heart...u should socio more now... since over liao jz let it be over...Originally posted by technoboy:Just broken up with my girlfriend of 10 mths++. As you can see from my other AA thread, I had some problems with her right from the start (I.E. religion).
She told me we were not possible already and it was infatuation right from the start for her, and an act of rashness when she decided to be with me.
Now that she's gone, I really feel so lost. I'm studying in NP while she's on TP. So everyday after school, I will go to her school to eat dinner with her. But now that the relationship is gone, I'll be so not used to going home early. I still planned so many things to do with her and they are impossible to complete now, especially our 1st anniversary...
What's worst is that I only got 2 good friends in Poly, so I think I'll be so lonely now... Luckily it's the holidays now.
Sigh, so can anyone tell me what should I do? Should I still wait for her hoping that there's still a chance in the future for us to patch up?
I just can't forget her, and I guess I won't be able to sleep every night...
I'm fcuking heartbroken now... Someone please help me! *Sigh* -
I kept thinking whether there'll still be any more chance between us and hoping I can patch up with her. Maybe ask her come back to me on our anniversary which is on the 16th of April...
Do you guys think I should or should I just forget about it?
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I just don't get it? Why are you still going on dinner with her...? I think that would just drag things on and make it more difficult for you to let go of the past...? Especially when you're already saying you're not feeling well with things....?Originally posted by technoboy:Just broken up with my girlfriend of 10 mths++. As you can see from my other AA thread, I had some problems with her right from the start (I.E. religion).
She told me we were not possible already and it was infatuation right from the start for her, and an act of rashness when she decided to be with me.
Now that she's gone, I really feel so lost. I'm studying in NP while she's on TP. So everyday after school, I will go to her school to eat dinner with her. But now that the relationship is gone, I'll be so not used to going home early. I still planned so many things to do with her and they are impossible to complete now, especially our 1st anniversary...
What's worst is that I only got 2 good friends in Poly, so I think I'll be so lonely now... Luckily it's the holidays now.
Sigh, so can anyone tell me what should I do? Should I still wait for her hoping that there's still a chance in the future for us to patch up?
I just can't forget her, and I guess I won't be able to sleep every night...
I'm fcuking heartbroken now... Someone please help me! *Sigh*
Only 2 friends in Poly now...? How long have you enter NP? I can only say... MAKE MORE FRIENDS!!
Borrow and exchange lecture notes... Discuss lesson with class mates.. ECA make friends... Go use the facilities of campus and make friends...