Just had a breakup...
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I think that's one of the 1st things you should start considering to get rid of....Originally posted by technoboy:Memories of us together just keep coming back to my mind, even though I keep myself busy in the morning. But during the night I feel so so lonely without her... People ask me to delete everything of her, but I just can't bear to do it. I cry every night when I see my handphone's wallpaper which is a picture we took together when we just started...
Sigh...
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I've learnt.. Sometimes the reason might not always be so important.. When someone wants to leave you, it can very well be ANY reason / excuse they might choose to give you just to get you off the hook...Originally posted by technoboy:I also find it wierd, but she said she already thought of this problem since a long time, like 2 or 3 months since we were together. And when I asked for the real reason, she just said it was simple as that, which was the feelings changed. -
Patch up? Based on what grounds..? What makes you think that her feelings might not just 'change again'...?Originally posted by technoboy:I kept thinking whether there'll still be any more chance between us and hoping I can patch up with her. Maybe ask her come back to me on our anniversary which is on the 16th of April...
Do you guys think I should or should I just forget about it?
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think you misunderstand leh.. dun think he now still going for dinner with her. think what he meant was that he went for dinner with her everyday at her school while they were still together.Originally posted by Devil1976:I just don't get it? Why are you still going on dinner with her...? I think that would just drag things on and make it more difficult for you to let go of the past...? Especially when you're already saying you're not feeling well with things....?
Only 2 friends in Poly now...? How long have you enter NP? I can only say... MAKE MORE FRIENDS!!
Borrow and exchange lecture notes... Discuss lesson with class mates.. ECA make friends... Go use the facilities of campus and make friends...
but such a sudden change of heart makes one wonder. i believe every time when a girl got some intentions to end a r/s with you, there will sure be signs and signals for you to pick out.
can it really be lovey-dovey today and sudden change of heart the next day? TS did she show any abnormal behaviour prior to her announcement to you? -
Nah, it's based on nothing. Thats just wishful thinking on my part. But since she liked or loved me before, I guess there might probably a chance for the love to rekindle?Originally posted by Devil1976:Patch up? Based on what grounds..? What makes you think that her feelings might not just 'change again'...? -
Yup you're right for the first para.Originally posted by jeramy:think you misunderstand leh.. dun think he now still going for dinner with her. think what he meant was that he went for dinner with her everyday at her school while they were still together.
but such a sudden change of heart makes one wonder. i believe every time when a girl got some intentions to end a r/s with you, there will sure be signs and signals for you to pick out.
can it really be lovey-dovey today and sudden change of heart the next day? TS did she show any abnormal behaviour prior to her announcement to you?
Actually, there are some signs which are on and off. Like she doesn't put pictures on friendster unless I ask her to (she told me that she is just pai seh and scared those who are single will feel lonely when they see those couple pictures), and from the way she gave in to me everytime we quarel in the beginning to I gave way to her at the end... -
Join sg single and friend for accompany....
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Argg! I'm thinking of those memories again right now... I'm so fucking depressed and sad now!!!!!!
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EVERYTHING is ALMOST POSSIBLE if you're so BIASED as to think that LUCK is ONLY DANCING on YOUR SIDE...Originally posted by technoboy:Nah, it's based on nothing. Thats just wishful thinking on my part. But since she liked or loved me before, I guess there might probably a chance for the love to rekindle?
Since you KNOW that it's more like WISHFUL THINKINGS than anything else, why not try to be more 'logical' about it and make plans and arrangements for your heart to heal better..?
If liked or loved before
can patch back then there WON'T be any BREAK UP couples already... THINK about it.. -
Originally posted by technoboy:
What 'memories'...? I think you should really be thinking about how you QUARRELLED and couldn't get along too...?
Argg! I'm thinking of those memories again right now... I'm so fu[b]cking depressed and sad now!!!!!! [/b] -
Originally posted by technoboy:
Is she your first love?
Argg! I'm thinking of those memories again right now... I'm so fu[b]cking depressed and sad now!!!!!! [/b]
love is not everything.
Some come some go
some stay some move on
Wats the point of going after someone when her heart is not with you?
Were you be truly happy if one day she comes up to you and say sorry I love someone else and break up with you after 2 years?
Breakup is hard i understand everyone here has gone thru it.
Is either you wake up and be a better man or suffer and be a loser.
No one can help unless you help yourself, stop looking so weak and be strong
Imagine what would you look like if you are the girl?
BE a man take charge and change your life. -
Well, definitely true but I just can't accept it! I'm feeling so wierd and disappointed that everytime my phone doesn't ring anymore... SighOriginally posted by Devil1976:EVERYTHING is ALMOST POSSIBLE if you're so BIASED as to think that LUCK is ONLY DANCING on YOUR SIDE...
Since you KNOW that it's more like WISHFUL THINKINGS than anything else, why not try to be more 'logical' about it and make plans and arrangements for your heart to heal better..?
If liked or loved before can patch back then there WON'T be any BREAK UP couples already... THINK about it.. -
Of course normally people will just think of the happy memories, although there are some rough times, there were not 1 time we left each other somewhere. I'll still send her home no matter what...Originally posted by Devil1976:What 'memories'...? I think you should really be thinking about how you QUARRELLED and couldn't get along too...? -
Yes, she's my first love. But is there a difference?Originally posted by zeny:Is she your first love?
love is not everything.
Some come some go
some stay some move on
Wats the point of going after someone when her heart is not with you?
Were you be truly happy if one day she comes up to you and say sorry I love someone else and break up with you after 2 years?
Breakup is hard i understand everyone here has gone thru it.
Is either you wake up and be a better man or suffer and be a loser.
No one can help unless you help yourself, stop looking so weak and be strong
Imagine what would you look like if you are the girl?
BE a man take charge and change your life.
I know I should just forget it and move on, but then I want her to know I still love her and wish we can still be together... Don't you guys think break up doesn't mean the love will fade for 1 party? -
It does not matter how much you want to tell her that you love her. she should already sense all this.
But in the 10 months, she can't convince herself to carry on with you.
She just want to complete her infatuation and now seek a closure.
You can try by all means but remember, what dun come naturally, will never happen.
Love can be forever but may not always be realistic. -
i can sense your feeling. give your time a break. wait for a while more. i possibly feels that she is not committed to the relationship yet. but still keep in touch with each other. someday, if she need's your help, you can help her out. give her a little time to rest. you too..Originally posted by technoboy:Just broken up with my girlfriend of 10 mths++. As you can see from my other AA thread, I had some problems with her right from the start (I.E. religion).
She told me we were not possible already and it was infatuation right from the start for her, and an act of rashness when she decided to be with me.
Now that she's gone, I really feel so lost. I'm studying in NP while she's on TP. So everyday after school, I will go to her school to eat dinner with her. But now that the relationship is gone, I'll be so not used to going home early. I still planned so many things to do with her and they are impossible to complete now, especially our 1st anniversary...
What's worst is that I only got 2 good friends in Poly, so I think I'll be so lonely now... Luckily it's the holidays now.
Sigh, so can anyone tell me what should I do? Should I still wait for her hoping that there's still a chance in the future for us to patch up?
I just can't forget her, and I guess I won't be able to sleep every night...
I'm fcuking heartbroken now... Someone please help me! *Sigh*
all the best -
I guess I'll just forget about her, someone who doesn't worth my love.
Thanks guys for reading. Appreciate it
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Make more friends, join a new cca...
Time will heal all wounds...
The only problem is the passing of time... -
Congrats, you've grown up! Go make new friends lor........
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Originally posted by technoboy:Well, definitely true but I just can't accept it! I'm feeling so wierd and disappointed that everytime my phone doesn't ring anymore... Sigh
Time to give your life a different tone!Originally posted by technoboy:I guess I'll just forget about her, someone who doesn't worth my love.
Thanks guys for reading. Appreciate it -
By posting here you are doing something about it. This is not the only thing you can do. You can do many things... just do them.Originally posted by technoboy:Just broken up with my girlfriend of 10 mths++. As you can see from my other AA thread, I had some problems with her right from the start (I.E. religion).
She told me we were not possible already and it was infatuation right from the start for her, and an act of rashness when she decided to be with me.
Now that she's gone, I really feel so lost. I'm studying in NP while she's on TP. So everyday after school, I will go to her school to eat dinner with her. But now that the relationship is gone, I'll be so not used to going home early. I still planned so many things to do with her and they are impossible to complete now, especially our 1st anniversary...
What's worst is that I only got 2 good friends in Poly, so I think I'll be so lonely now... Luckily it's the holidays now.
Sigh, so can anyone tell me what should I do? Should I still wait for her hoping that there's still a chance in the future for us to patch up?
I just can't forget her, and I guess I won't be able to sleep every night...
I'm fcuking heartbroken now... Someone please help me! *Sigh* -
Poor chap....how come only 2 FRENS in poly???!!!
But really la...it will take time to get used to it....take up things like reading or jogging...
Will keep ur mind away....
truth: if u guys patch back will bring u only more pain.
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*pat* *pat* i am like you 1 month ago....believe me you would feel better soon. try to forget her get busy....
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waaah, both of u study so far... what course r u u in poly? how about ur gf?Originally posted by technoboy:Just broken up with my girlfriend of 10 mths++. As you can see from my other AA thread, I had some problems with her right from the start (I.E. religion).
She told me we were not possible already and it was infatuation right from the start for her, and an act of rashness when she decided to be with me.
Now that she's gone, I really feel so lost. I'm studying in NP while she's on TP. So everyday after school, I will go to her school to eat dinner with her. But now that the relationship is gone, I'll be so not used to going home early. I still planned so many things to do with her and they are impossible to complete now, especially our 1st anniversary...
What's worst is that I only got 2 good friends in Poly, so I think I'll be so lonely now... Luckily it's the holidays now.
Sigh, so can anyone tell me what should I do? Should I still wait for her hoping that there's still a chance in the future for us to patch up?
I just can't forget her, and I guess I won't be able to sleep every night...
I'm fcuking heartbroken now... Someone please help me! *Sigh* -
Lol, yeah but i guess love conquers all things
I'm in accountancy while she's in Hospitality and Resort Management
Anyway, it's all over now...