How do i know if he is interested in me ?
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actually he could be treating u juz like a good fren leh..
so if u really wana know, just ask him. -
dress up...see his reactions....
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Yes, he is interested in you.
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how long has tis been gng on? theres chance he is interested... but as mornitor his actions lo... and check out his background...Originally posted by chaah:Hi there, i need some external advice.
Any guys or gals around to help ?
Tks tks
There's this guy in my office, who i get along very well. I am suspecting he is interested in me, but i am not very sure.
Details:
1) We were in IT shop and he actually get the membership which cost small amount. And told me to use the membership if i want to do so, it's ok. But looking at it, he didn't buy anything from there. But me.
2) he will come to my work area chat with other guys, but there are times when i turn n look at him. He is there looking at me. But then look away.
3) He ask if i am interested to go KTV ? which end up we went with office guys.
4) We both want 2apply for Car-sharing program membership. which he plan to get it next mth. And he teasing me to join as sub-member of his. When i told he i cn't coz we are not related. He tease to say you can haaa..
5) suddenly out of no where, he tease me by asking if i want to rent his house room. which i never mention of moving out ?? But in my heart i am looking for room
6) there are times when we chat, he do look into my eyes for few second. I mean those direct eyes to eyes contact.
Lastly forget to tell, he will usually at times come over to my work space and just throw some paper or etc.. to disturb me. Abit childish but funny keh..keh.. -
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most likely he is interested in u
guys won't go to all that trouble for a friend only
especially a female friend without intentions -
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so u started the teasing part....Originally posted by chaah:how long ?
2months into my employment. At first we don't chat coz i am abit shy to talk to others in dept especially guys. But then there was one day he injure his leg, so i playfully disturb him with some words.
THen after few weeks, he start to chat and etc... follow up
which means you like him lah...
well, "flirt" abit, and he will get hooked if he likes u..drop some hint like, some movies coming up...and see if he will ask you for movie or not -
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sounds like taunting to me..... ai yah.... r/s stuffs... where gt gers initiate 1 .... though 21st century...... sun is still round... day is still brightOriginally posted by chaah:me innocently disturb coz he was in clutch, so i only say: " hey i let you off with 1 lamp post i will still walk faster" Faster leh.. heee...
Is that flirt i don't think so leh
As for him, he seems to be very occupy with sport. (Basketball, canoe, jogging) anyway i don't dare to ask, i am too timid. 
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how about ask one of your friend to ask him to question?
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Originally posted by browniebaobao:actually he could be treating u juz like a good fren leh..
so if u really wana know, just ask him. -
hmmm.... since like tat maybe he jz gng slow as frens lo n maybe flirt abit lo... so no need to so fast xingdong... keep ur options open and keep in mind not good to hv office romance...Originally posted by chaah:how long ?
2months into my employment. At first we don't chat coz i am abit shy to talk to others in dept especially guys. But then there was one day he injure his leg, so i playfully disturb him with some words.
THen after few weeks, he start to chat and etc... follow up
but then again, he never made effort to sms or call me after office hours.
So i keep feeling yes and no.
But if i were to sms him, he would respond with teasing. -
Maybe or may not... Test water by going out for dinner or shopping... Be more closer with another guy so that he might confess to u... wish u good luck...
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if say he got 0 feeling towards u..thats a lie
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try askin him out... trust me, you'll hit the jackpot very fast.
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then that could be a liking..Originally posted by chaah:But when office guys disturb, teasing i am his gf. He respond with smile...
If not pretend never hear.
So far he has never comment anything like, pls dont anyhow say or etc...
i did think he may treat me as good fren.
Yet so much funny reaction from him made me confuse ?
He did share his past relationship with me. Does that made him more wanting to let me know more private life of his ? Coz i am the only one in office who know about it. So far as what other guys was saying he always keep mum of his stuff and private life.
so if he likes u, wat would u do?
do u feel the same for him? -
So u interested in him?
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You are the best judge. Got feel anot? I don't mean him touching you but does his actions make you feel that he's interested in you? Why are you in a hurry to get the answer? Isn't this the most fun part when it grips you with anxiety and excitement? Take your time and observe him for more tell tale signs more carefully lor......... In time, if he's interested in you, he'll most probly want to ask you out one-on-one to isolate you from the others in the group. Wait and see lor......... Remember to update us ok? Good luck!
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he likes you alright.
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go go! do the same to him if u like him. then see how he respond lo!