Does ur bf see u home if its too late?
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Hi,
I would like to ask the gals here whether their bf see them home if they go over to their place? My bf gets very lazy and wants me to go home by myself and it is already quite late at night...
he also doesnt really do wat he promised me... he said that a promise can be broken... then wat does a promise mean? I'm i too petty? 
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Well...a boyfriend should see his gf home or at least offer to see her home REGARDLESS how late it is. Unless there are pressing matters for him at hand to handle...otherwise I see no reason why he should not do it. It is the role of being a gentleman.
And if a promise can be broken, then what is a promise for?
A promise is defined asa declaration assuring that one will or will not do something; a vow.
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Sorry....did not see the phrase for gal only....
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do U understand yr guy character? how old is he? .. I used to do that to my g/f long time ago... something that I only came to understand why I did eaht I did then without sparing a thought for the other party... well, mind U, I have done it for about 2 yrs..... but of course, how late do U consider late?
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its okie.. guys too can answer... juz want to know how u all think... usually i will leave his house abt midnight... bbmars, then ur gf didnt say anything abt u not sending her home? my bf is 27... he doesnt really have anything to do juz say tat he is tired... actually greengoblin i didnt really want the definition of promise but was trying to say wat should i do if he break his promise again? should i dun believe him so easily? anyway, thanx for ur reply....
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haiz... your guy is plain lazy lah .. dont know how to protect gf...
for me .. i send any girls home if it is later than 10 p.m, if i go out with them ... i feel it is my responsible if i go out with them late... i dont wish something happen to them and i am going to be sad for life for my plain laziness... but if other day other guys ask them out . they dont send them home and somethign happen to then ... at least... i dont regret mah .... but iwill super sad and angry things happen like this...
( but SOME girls dont like people to send home also) ...i kanna scolded by some girls before...
some girls like guys to send them home also)... once a girl told me she prefer a guy who send her home which i never did... haiz.. -
he's taking you for granted. ya know what to do.
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well, maybe next time he will start to promise u that he will not fool around outside.
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Try to speak this issue to him...but try not to let it be a hinderance to both your maintaining this relationship. Just that if it is after 12 mn...no matter how safe they tout S'pore to be...it is still not advisible for a gal to be out herself at such wee hours of the night.
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i have this problem in the past too..
i just force him to send me home..
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my bf always insist on sending me home... which i think is very sweet
but sometimes i will tell him not to send me coz i worry about his wallet....
the cab fares are too expensive leh.... bo hua....
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Erm..depends loh..but surly he will sent me home if its too late le..cos dangerous for a ger mah..maybe try toking to your bf loh..good luck.
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tired of him???taking u for granted??
then get someone wif a car or bike...
comfirm no problem sending u home baby....
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i always sent my gf home one hehe =)
except for 2wice only that one i really K.O.... damn tired coz i doing NS mah... -
what if you two live yards apart? one in the east and the other in the west? and he doesn't have a bike or car?
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But point is that if ur gf is out with u late at night...it is ones responsibility to see her home.
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it's expect of the guy to send the ger home if she is the last one wif him, unless she declines to be send back then it's not the guy's fault.
Usually i would send a ger back if she is the last one with me or she is staying in the same area, or in the same direction. I even send my cousin back to ntu hall when i'm not on the way their either.
For the case that she is yr gf, of cos u need to send her back lah. if you tink that 20bucks on cab fare is too much as compared to her then i tink you have seriously failed as a bf. -
previously he is staying far from me so he would send me to the bus stop and i take bus home or take cab... but now he moved nearer to me can say about walking distance even.... now he is saying tat since so near, it will be alright if i can go home by myself... i also think that since i purposely go over to his house to spend time with him, the least he could do is to see me home... sigh... any suggestions as to how to tell him not to be so lazy? thanx...
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only one conclusion: he found another and want u to break him upOriginally posted by clara:previously he is staying far from me so he would send me to the bus stop and i take bus home or take cab... but now he moved nearer to me can say about walking distance even.... now he is saying tat since so near, it will be alright if i can go home by myself... i also think that since i purposely go over to his house to spend time with him, the least he could do is to see me home... sigh... any suggestions as to how to tell him not to be so lazy? thanx...
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Maybe you can start by saying you dun feel safe going back alone so late at home and wish for his company?Originally posted by clara:previously he is staying far from me so he would send me to the bus stop and i take bus home or take cab... but now he moved nearer to me can say about walking distance even.... now he is saying tat since so near, it will be alright if i can go home by myself... i also think that since i purposely go over to his house to spend time with him, the least he could do is to see me home... sigh... any suggestions as to how to tell him not to be so lazy? thanx... -
there isnt anything wrong right going home alone? before u had yr boyfriend u do go home yrself right? this is a minor matter i feel it shouldnt ruin what u two have for each other. But if u feeel he doesnt care for u enough or u really wish that he send u home because u can spend time with him maybe u should jus tell him how u feel but then again he himself also have to go home late leh..
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or maybe try not to go hm late loh then even he dunn sent also nvm n not dangerous also...Advice oli..
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erm, my bf lives in the west and i live in the east. he doesnt have any own form of transport too..Originally posted by Estee:what if you two live yards apart? one in the east and the other in the west? and he doesn't have a bike or car?
well, but i dun have the problem of him not sending me home cos' everytime i am the one asking him NOT to send me home when it's late. i dunwan him to waste money on cabfare etc. and i understand that he will be really tired when he reach home as it is really late etc. so i try not to let him send me home but most of the time he will insist.
erm, i think you shd FORCE him to send you home, a guy shdnt be so ungentlemanly and lazy.. somemore he lives near your place! if my bf lives near my place i will make sure he send me home everytime! regardless the time.. hmm..think it is a v basic thing for a guy to do.. -
Hmmmm
why must guys always send girls home? why not vice versa? jus a tot... -
I don know how U can change hinm Clara, as for me. I know I am umb. basically, cause I used to be so very independ, I expect my g/f to be likewise as I still wish to carry on my own life, I mean normal relationship with my friends (not refering to girls lah). just to remain in touch with them.. but g/f is possessive lor.. I only understand and realised years later.... anyway, I leave far away from her... me in central , her in East. in the end , I ended up sending her home and returning home taking the last bus...
AS for him, you need patient, really, all the more when he is living so close to you. guess U may have already except the way he is.....