I understand that very well but sometimes just feel like giving up. One or two time bitten is ok. but it's been like countless times in a row.......very tired....sometimes I just feel like giving up and just live a life of vice.Originally posted by pipi & poot-poot:Kip faith dude...
Can't force sumone 2 fall in luv wif u...u'r old enuf 2 understand dat rite?
Dey say happiness is just around e corner...i hope 4 ur sake its true
Stephen King once said that "Nothing lasts forever, even love's a lie...a tool of manipulation...there's no God beyond my sky..."Originally posted by love?:I understand that very well but sometimes just feel like giving up. One or two time bitten is ok. but it's been like countless times in a row.......very tired....sometimes I just feel like giving up and just live a life of vice.
to quote Spiderman 3: How long can any man fight the darkness... before he finds it in himself?
How long can I fight????????? I really don't know. I am not getting young anymore. Few more years will see the big 3. I am very worried.
I suggest you go watch this movie... 'The Pursuit of Happiness'....Originally posted by love?:Why? Why can't I just have the things I want for once in my life? Why is it always so ironic? Why is it when I want something, it always run away? Why is it so hard to find someone to love?
Why is it so hard to woo someone when it gets older? I have decided to ask her out purely as friends and she accepted the first date without any hesitation. After the first date, I find her a very nice lady but right now I have asked her out 2 times and both times got those "see how" first reply.
What have I done that have gone wrong? Why all these years my luck with girls are so bad? So many girls yet none stayed. Am I only suitable yo be good friends and not a lover? In the past, it was not like that. I had 3 gfs before and ever since the last one when I decided to settle down I could not find anyone.
I have socially active and I join many activities and talk to many girls yet the most I can go is being friends. I am not ugly nor anti-social yet sometimes I find my friendliness taken for granted. When I care too much, nothing seems to work out. But when I become a bastard, I get what I want. Why is life so ironic?
In work, I always thought I would get a job where I would meet a good boss who saw potential in me. I don't consider myself stupid but yet all I get a job was simply an average paid job with no growth potential. Yet some of my peers who are academically lousier than me get a higher paid job than me. And worst of all I get a boss that is a joker and a job environment that emphasise on papers.
All I want is a simple and happy life but why am I getting the opposite? Is it really so difficult to find love in this materialistic country?
You waited untill most of the suitable ones for you had been taken... so now you must settle for the less suitable ones (less suitable for you arrr.. not inherently less suitable, ok?)... face reality, embrace it and take it one day at a time.Originally posted by love?:Why? Why can't I just have the things I want for once in my life? Why is it always so ironic? Why is it when I want something, it always run away? Why is it so hard to find someone to love?
Why is it so hard to woo someone when it gets older? I have decided to ask her out purely as friends and she accepted the first date without any hesitation. After the first date, I find her a very nice lady but right now I have asked her out 2 times and both times got those "see how" first reply.
What have I done that have gone wrong? Why all these years my luck with girls are so bad? So many girls yet none stayed. Am I only suitable yo be good friends and not a lover? In the past, it was not like that. I had 3 gfs before and ever since the last one when I decided to settle down I could not find anyone.
I have socially active and I join many activities and talk to many girls yet the most I can go is being friends. I am not ugly nor anti-social yet sometimes I find my friendliness taken for granted. When I care too much, nothing seems to work out. But when I become a bastard, I get what I want. Why is life so ironic?
In work, I always thought I would get a job where I would meet a good boss who saw potential in me. I don't consider myself stupid but yet all I get a job was simply an average paid job with no growth potential. Yet some of my peers who are academically lousier than me get a higher paid job than me. And worst of all I get a boss that is a joker and a job environment that emphasise on papers.
All I want is a simple and happy life but why am I getting the opposite? Is it really so difficult to find love in this materialistic country?
i dont know how you look like but from my observation in life unless you are a big time jerk- no matter how ugly you are there is always somebody in this world for you . Just a matter of timing but of course you must also tailor your expectations to yourself.If you look like ah beng and talk like one you can expect angelina jolie to fall for you.Originally posted by love?:Why? Why can't I just have the things I want for once in my life? Why is it always so ironic? Why is it when I want something, it always run away? Why is it so hard to find someone to love?
Why is it so hard to woo someone when it gets older? I have decided to ask her out purely as friends and she accepted the first date without any hesitation. After the first date, I find her a very nice lady but right now I have asked her out 2 times and both times got those "see how" first reply.
What have I done that have gone wrong? Why all these years my luck with girls are so bad? So many girls yet none stayed. Am I only suitable yo be good friends and not a lover? In the past, it was not like that. I had 3 gfs before and ever since the last one when I decided to settle down I could not find anyone.
I have socially active and I join many activities and talk to many girls yet the most I can go is being friends. I am not ugly nor anti-social yet sometimes I find my friendliness taken for granted. When I care too much, nothing seems to work out. But when I become a bastard, I get what I want. Why is life so ironic?
In work, I always thought I would get a job where I would meet a good boss who saw potential in me. I don't consider myself stupid but yet all I get a job was simply an average paid job with no growth potential. Yet some of my peers who are academically lousier than me get a higher paid job than me. And worst of all I get a boss that is a joker and a job environment that emphasise on papers.
All I want is a simple and happy life but why am I getting the opposite? Is it really so difficult to find love in this materialistic country?
Maybe she finds that you don't have enough money to go out with her? Or too lowly educated?Originally posted by love?:Why? Why can't I just have the things I want for once in my life? Why is it always so ironic? Why is it when I want something, it always run away? Why is it so hard to find someone to love?
Why is it so hard to woo someone when it gets older? I have decided to ask her out purely as friends and she accepted the first date without any hesitation. After the first date, I find her a very nice lady but right now I have asked her out 2 times and both times got those "see how" first reply.
i thought i told ya, hey...Originally posted by choco B:
I can only say, what goes around comes around .....