friend problems
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which kind 1? sales?Originally posted by Ito_^:aiyo..
go for at least 3 at a single time.
its easier to reject ppl den to get rejected.
wad kind of jobs u wan har?
maybe i got lobang. (since i can't work fulltime anyways, i can't go for em.) -
I got some frens- who work everyday. Ask them go out still muz make appts.
I got some frens- working but mountain turtles. Wan buy crumpler bag but not willing to pay for it.
I got some frens- forever busy. Busy wat? Busy sleeping
I got some frens- wan eat good food but dun wan pay. Always say no $$$.
So sianz.. How i wish they got a life! -
you have a point that they should go out more and experience more within their means but you cannot force people ... you must find people and friends with similar interests as you...Originally posted by gigabyte14:my gd frens around me hor, all like freaking nolifes liddat...
ask them go out, dey sissy here sissy there say "if he go den i go", "no money", or "i want stay at home"
wtf?
my frens all giam siap and shit... jus finished a fone call wif him askin him to go out on sat n he give me a lan lan reply say if xxxx go den i go...
its like, dey all the suaku kind, 4 of them, the places to eat? never b4 the places like sakura, cartel and such, its always hawker centers =_="
im not saying that hawker centers sux, its like higher standards of places dey oso dunwan go, the reasons? no $$, too expensive...
i wonder how are they going to survive next time, always save money? always hawker center? wedding oso hawker center la?
i tried telling them to go out and experience the "outside" and dun be a nolife always rotting at home and what do i get?
"eh i got go my grandma hse 1 hor"
wtf.
"when go?"
"once a week."
tell dem go see movie, every1 not free, always not free. and btw when i meant not free means dunwan to go, staying at home... might as well go die...
and the only times to get them out is at times when they will benefit from it, like the IT show, they go cos dey wanna buy stuffs... den in the end straight go home...
got go out i happy liao, but so little times onli...
how can i make them go out more? like make them interested to go out more?
they're all the homey homey kind... i oso, but den recently i began to travel more, its like i want them to know its great outside oso...
anyway thanks for reading, hoping for advices
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cos they r childish
secondly they may not have time or money, not everyone free as u or rich as u
thirdly, u ain't that a gd friend of them to begin with
the above r my assumptions -
i always stay home
and only go out alone -
You're a bunch of students...?Originally posted by gigabyte14:my gd frens around me hor, all like freaking nolifes liddat...
ask them go out, dey sissy here sissy there say "if he go den i go", "no money", or "i want stay at home"
wtf?
my frens all giam siap and shit... jus finished a fone call wif him askin him to go out on sat n he give me a lan lan reply say if xxxx go den i go...
its like, dey all the suaku kind, 4 of them, the places to eat? never b4 the places like sakura, cartel and such, its always hawker centers =_="
im not saying that hawker centers sux, its like higher standards of places dey oso dunwan go, the reasons? no $$, too expensive...
i wonder how are they going to survive next time, always save money? always hawker center? wedding oso hawker center la?
i tried telling them to go out and experience the "outside" and dun be a nolife always rotting at home and what do i get?
"eh i got go my grandma hse 1 hor"
wtf.
"when go?"
"once a week."
tell dem go see movie, every1 not free, always not free. and btw when i meant not free means dunwan to go, staying at home... might as well go die...
and the only times to get them out is at times when they will benefit from it, like the IT show, they go cos dey wanna buy stuffs... den in the end straight go home...
got go out i happy liao, but so little times onli...
how can i make them go out more? like make them interested to go out more?
they're all the homey homey kind... i oso, but den recently i began to travel more, its like i want them to know its great outside oso...
anyway thanks for reading, hoping for advices
Maybe it's not 'no life'? Maybe it's just a different type of life-style... Try to find friends who can fit more closely to your life-style to hang out with then? -
By the way.. Money and time are often the 2 major factors in a student's life... Not everybody comes from a reasonably 'problem-free' and well-to-do family...
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i average wat, not rich...Originally posted by Devil1976:By the way.. Money and time are often the 2 major factors in a student's life... Not everybody comes from a reasonably 'problem-free' and well-to-do family... -
we gd frens since sec 3 liao leh... i NA stream, now poly 2nd yr... 5 yrs liao leh... summore we different poly still quite close.Originally posted by Kenashi:cos they r childish
secondly they may not have time or money, not everyone free as u or rich as u
thirdly, u ain't that a gd friend of them to begin with
the above r my assumptions -
the hard ting is finding loOriginally posted by AndrewPKYap:you have a point that they should go out more and experience more within their means but you cannot force people ... you must find people and friends with similar interests as you...
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ppl oso have their way of doings what. u cannot force them to go out oso mah.
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but i wan try convert them ma, homey isn't the best ting lehOriginally posted by jay_rocks:ppl oso have their way of doings what. u cannot force them to go out oso mah. -
hmmm, my suggestion is dun ask them out lor. go and find other ppl to go out with uOriginally posted by gigabyte14:but i wan try convert them ma, homey isn't the best ting leh -
wah.. say till like that.. wan convert.. hahahaha.. i understand u la.. but sometimes u should look at the person if he or she is willing to go out or not.. i used to be someone who likes to go out and hang out damn lots.. but because of something, i force myself not to go out and waste $$.. and because of something else, i have low confidence in myself..
u mus understand the fact that not everyone is like u r now.. not everyone has the ability to go out everyday, buy this buy that, shop here shop there, play this play that or watever.. u guess it's best u understand more about ur friends 1st.. maybe they r not who u think they r.. -
i say liao ma, the hard part is to find new ones.Originally posted by jay_rocks:hmmm, my suggestion is dun ask them out lor. go and find other ppl to go out with u -
Well.. Maybe your friends below average ley....?Originally posted by gigabyte14:i average wat, not rich...
Personally, if I was still a student I also won't anyhow spend too much because of my budget... Somemore it's not my own $... If earn my own $ then I think I might treasure even more...? -
Why must u be so anal about ur friends wanting to stay at home, or go hawker centre eat? Do u realise that ur friends have the right to go where they want, who they want to go with?Originally posted by gigabyte14:my gd frens around me hor, all like freaking nolifes liddat...
ask them go out, dey sissy here sissy there say "if he go den i go", "no money", or "i want stay at home"
wtf?
my frens all giam siap and shit... jus finished a fone call wif him askin him to go out on sat n he give me a lan lan reply say if xxxx go den i go...
its like, dey all the suaku kind, 4 of them, the places to eat? never b4 the places like sakura, cartel and such, its always hawker centers =_="
im not saying that hawker centers sux, its like higher standards of places dey oso dunwan go, the reasons? no $$, too expensive...
i wonder how are they going to survive next time, always save money? always hawker center? wedding oso hawker center la?
i tried telling them to go out and experience the "outside" and dun be a nolife always rotting at home and what do i get?
"eh i got go my grandma hse 1 hor"
wtf.
"when go?"
"once a week."
tell dem go see movie, every1 not free, always not free. and btw when i meant not free means dunwan to go, staying at home... might as well go die...
and the only times to get them out is at times when they will benefit from it, like the IT show, they go cos dey wanna buy stuffs... den in the end straight go home...
got go out i happy liao, but so little times onli...
how can i make them go out more? like make them interested to go out more?
they're all the homey homey kind... i oso, but den recently i began to travel more, its like i want them to know its great outside oso...
anyway thanks for reading, hoping for advices
Let's face it, every individual is different in their own way. They can do what they want, and its frankly none of our business if they decide not to go out with us. Its not as if u never ask them go out. If they always reject going out with u, then just find some other pple and go out lah.
"Nolife", as u claimed some of ur friends are, can have different meanings to different people. For all u know, people are calling u "Nolife" for always asking them go out when all they want is to stay at home. They may think, oh because Gigabyte 14 has no friends and no life, so he always call people go out.
Anyway, if all ur friends always give u excuses when u ask them go out, maybe they just wanna be left alone bah. No use asking them out if all u get is constant rejection, because that's probably hinting to u that they don't wanna go out with u much. -
Why must u be so anal about ur friends wanting to stay at home, or go hawker centre eat? Do u realise that ur friends have the right to go where they want, who they want to go with?Originally posted by gigabyte14:my gd frens around me hor, all like freaking nolifes liddat...
ask them go out, dey sissy here sissy there say "if he go den i go", "no money", or "i want stay at home"
wtf?
my frens all giam siap and shit... jus finished a fone call wif him askin him to go out on sat n he give me a lan lan reply say if xxxx go den i go...
its like, dey all the suaku kind, 4 of them, the places to eat? never b4 the places like sakura, cartel and such, its always hawker centers =_="
im not saying that hawker centers sux, its like higher standards of places dey oso dunwan go, the reasons? no $$, too expensive...
i wonder how are they going to survive next time, always save money? always hawker center? wedding oso hawker center la?
i tried telling them to go out and experience the "outside" and dun be a nolife always rotting at home and what do i get?
"eh i got go my grandma hse 1 hor"
wtf.
"when go?"
"once a week."
tell dem go see movie, every1 not free, always not free. and btw when i meant not free means dunwan to go, staying at home... might as well go die...
and the only times to get them out is at times when they will benefit from it, like the IT show, they go cos dey wanna buy stuffs... den in the end straight go home...
got go out i happy liao, but so little times onli...
how can i make them go out more? like make them interested to go out more?
they're all the homey homey kind... i oso, but den recently i began to travel more, its like i want them to know its great outside oso...
anyway thanks for reading, hoping for advices
Let's face it, every individual is different in their own way. They can do what they want, and its frankly none of our business if they decide not to go out with us. Its not as if u never ask them go out. If they always reject going out with u, then just find some other pple and go out lah.
"Nolife", as u claimed some of ur friends are, can have different meanings to different people. For all u know, people are calling u "Nolife" for always asking them go out when all they want is to stay at home. They may think, oh because Gigabyte 14 has no friends and no life, so he always call people go out.
Anyway, if all ur friends always give u excuses when u ask them go out, maybe they just wanna be left alone bah. No use asking them out if all u get is constant rejection, because that's probably hinting to u that they don't wanna go out with u much.
Sorry if i sound too harsh on u, but I am trying 2 let u see things from another perspective.