friend problems
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i think if they prefer hawker center den let em be, join em for hawker center makans.Originally posted by gigabyte14:i find myself in a deadend already...
but anyway, you don't care much about true frens and such 1?
more the merrier ah?
go to ieat blog oso can find alot of good and cheap food. for example.
if u wan go chiong or wad, u go find some other frens who does dat.
they dun need to follow anyone's footsteps, nor shld u force ppl to follow yrs. -
i poly, year 2 in april...Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:u schooling? sec?
if go poly make more friends loh, then take up a CCA...
later in life, during NS, if u platoon is those garang ones, ur NS firnds also very socially garang one..
somemore, ur work friends?
who knows, theres always a chance for a relationship with a special someone too
im like the kind whos no-life myself in the first year, its only recently that i started to u know, hang outside more.
im holidaying now,
so... kinda hard for me to fit in the new school term, like a different personality or something like that.
i like someone oso no use, i too ham ji already la
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MY WAY OR THE HIGHWAY
ARGH
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since cannot +1 then
simple solution for you, just find new friends to replace those old friends of yours lor, -
oi, +1 for wat laOriginally posted by allentyb:MY WAY OR THE HIGHWAY
ARGH
+1
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now you scold me, i +1 kenna scolded, flame also kenna scoldedOriginally posted by gigabyte14:oi, +1 for wat la 
kenna question
you so bad
i also don't know what to do lah -
i care a lot. true friends will understand u, and u will understand them too.Originally posted by gigabyte14:i find myself in a deadend already...
but anyway, you don't care much about true frens and such 1?
more the merrier ah?
i am a talker and initiator.
i even have msn of people i hardly know...
afterall, contacts is very just as impt...at least the link is still there... -
haha gigabyte.. i can tell u cherish these frens lah..however many ppl define frens differently rite..wad u can do is try to understand and look at things from their point of view...well u can try to make new frens while moving on to another stage of ur life, make frens tt r more outgoing,but at the same time, don 4get these frens cuz they ll b there for u too...tts wad i tink...be grateful tt u ve frens and cherish dem...liddis den call fren...tts wad frens r for..
personally i oso got problem wif frens oso...if u wana chat more den pm mi k... -
my circle of frens oso not alot, i said i oso homey kind b4 ma, now den changed...Originally posted by Ito_^:i think if they prefer hawker center den let em be, join em for hawker center makans.
go to ieat blog oso can find alot of good and cheap food. for example.
if u wan go chiong or wad, u go find some other frens who does dat.
they dun need to follow anyone's footsteps, nor shld u force ppl to follow yrs.
changing is hard when none of your friends around you changed.
between my frens and me, im the only one changing...
its like, alone liddat, its a weird feeling, a lonely feeling...
its like im being left out, my living of life becomes left out from them...
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give advice or smile la...Originally posted by allentyb:now you scold me, i +1 kenna scolded, flame also kenna scolded kenna question
you so bad
i also don't know what to do lah
give me a smile pussycat
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i agree man...Originally posted by Ito_^:i think if they prefer hawker center den let em be, join em for hawker center makans.
go to ieat blog oso can find alot of good and cheap food. for example.
if u wan go chiong or wad, u go find some other frens who does dat.
they dun need to follow anyone's footsteps, nor shld u force ppl to follow yrs.
we should have a mixture of activities...last month, i went clubbing every weekend...until OMG! i got so sick of it..my back aches with all that hip shaking dances...
then last week, i went out with my "homely" friends, wow, refreshing!
walk walk, eat eat, go home, sleep before 12... nice enjoyable weekend..
but then of course lah, if i every week also do the same "walk-eat-home-sleep" activities i will also become "siao siao" one... -
haha i ve frens in poly too and they r doing well wif frens oso mahx...not say u muz be stuck but not say u shud let go of these frens...tts makes u no better as a person....
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ya, sometimes can get abit frustrating oso.Originally posted by gigabyte14:my circle of frens oso not alot, i said i oso homey kind b4 ma, now den changed...
changing is hard when none of your friends around you changed.
its like, alone liddat, its a weird feeling, a lonely feeling...
its like im being left out, my living of life becomes left out from them...
know what i mean?
i want my god damm skewed chicken hearts! sigh.
but really, i think can juggle between different kind of ppl as friends one. dun abandon ur old frens juz becuz their habits are different.
good frens are hard to come by. -
Enough of crap
Dude
why not find a hobby to preoccupy your mind, go out on the sgforum outing, find more friends, be more pro active in your social circle, since your friends are homies, what to do, learn to cope with loneliness, either you find more friends to fill up your weekend, or find something to do like downloading anime, -
well now i need to make frens who are the outgoing kind huh?Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:i agree man...
we should have a mixture of activities...last month, i went clubbing every weekend...until OMG! i got so sick of it..my back aches with all that hip shaking dances...
then last week, i went out with my "homely" friends, wow, refreshing!
walk walk, eat eat, go home, sleep before 12... nice enjoyable weekend..
but then of course lah, if i every week also do the same "walk-eat-home-sleep" activities i will also become "siao siao" one... -
yes...........Originally posted by gigabyte14:well now i need to make frens who are the outgoing kind huh? -
Originally posted by allentyb:Enough of crap
Dude
why not find a hobby to preoccupy your mind, go out on the sgforum outing, find more friends, be more pro active in your social circle, since your friends are homies, what to do, learn to cope with loneliness, either you find more friends to fill up your weekend, or find something to do like downloading anime,
u oso nvr go for the outing n u still say me
cos when i ask i can go anot, i got totally ignored... so i dunwan go liao lo...
i oso got watch anime 1 la, occasionally only, nothing nice already -
mixture loh...Originally posted by gigabyte14:well now i need to make frens who are the outgoing kind huh?
homely got homely good...
outgoing got outgoing good...
imh, i prefer outgoing friends, i can "tan1 xing1 shi4" with them...they also more open to comment,advice and opinions... -
Originally posted by gigabyte14:
u oso nvr go for the outing n u still say me
cos when i ask i can go anot, i got totally ignored... so i dunwan go liao lo...
i oso got watch anime 1 la, occasionally only, nothing nice already
i am shy
there are alot of anime out there, which is nice
WATCH CODE GEASS!!!!!!! -
u shld find a job. *sniggers*Originally posted by allentyb:
i am shy
there are alot of anime out there, which is nice
WATCH CODE GEASS!!!!!!! -
i tot homey frens can tan1 xing1 shi4 better?Originally posted by pinkish purple papayas:mixture loh...
homely got homely good...
outgoing got outgoing good...
imh, i prefer outgoing friends, i can "tan1 xing1 shi4" with them...they also more open to comment,advice and opinions... -
i am waiting for a replyOriginally posted by Ito_^:u shld find a job. *sniggers*
being to one interview
waiting for reply tmr or the next day after
then i go look for another job
patiently waiting for their response -
i still looking for work... 1 more month to poly reopen sch...
oh crap 9am results!! die! -
aiyo..Originally posted by allentyb:i am waiting for a reply
being to one interview
waiting for reply tmr or the next day after
then i go look for another job
patiently waiting for their response
go for at least 3 at a single time.
its easier to reject ppl den to get rejected.
wad kind of jobs u wan har?
maybe i got lobang. (since i can't work fulltime anyways, i can't go for em.) -
well goodluck..wad kind of jobs u looking for?
frens...u wan tan xing shi 1...go out in small grp...cuz in big grps its hard n ppl tend to get insensitive to ur feelings(am a victim) and oso..tok to those u tink reli cares and understand how u feel 1, so they ll b able to relate to u, console u, giv u advice... -
i lazyOriginally posted by Ito_^:aiyo..
go for at least 3 at a single time.
its easier to reject ppl den to get rejected.
wad kind of jobs u wan har?
maybe i got lobang. (since i can't work fulltime anyways, i can't go for em.)
wanted to try out this indoor sales
waiting for my friend reply lor
he introduce me one