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juz ended my half a yr relationship with my gf about a week ago and find it hard to accept the fact that she want to be a faithful christian to her church, want more time to do what she want and also she think i need to be more mature enough.
The day when she decided to break up, I was totally devastated and was demoralized, she told me in front of my face and was shocked till my face almost turned pale, sorry if I was a little "Kua Zhang" is because i want to let you guys understand how I feel, I begging her minute by minute, hour by hour to take me back but she refused. We had lots of quarrel as we hardly give in to one another and as the time goes by, she said, "quarrelling something allow us to understand each other better." so I think it's all right to quarrel so I carried on for months till now.
As I know the moment when I beg her, she felt honor being pleased, I think it's common for all human being.
A few days after the broke up, I was thinking of returning back the stuff which she bought for me such as t-shirt, bags and etc. Do you think it's childish to do that? Because I think it can erase off the pain she gave me.... -
She wants more time to do what she wants? Do you love her? If you do, definately you would give her the freedom to do so.Originally posted by James1:juz ended my half a yr relationship with my gf about a week ago and find it hard to accept the fact that she want to be a faithful christian to her church, want more time to do what she want and also she think i need to be more mature enough.
The day when she decided to break up, I was totally devastated and was demoralized, she told me in front of my face and was shocked till my face almost turned pale, sorry if I was a little "Kua Zhang" is because i want to let you guys understand how I feel, I begging her minute by minute, hour by hour to take me back but she refused. We had lots of quarrel as we hardly give in to one another and as the time goes by, she said, "quarrelling something allow us to understand each other better." so I think it's all right to quarrel so I carried on for months till now.
As I know the moment when I beg her, she felt honor being pleased, I think it's common for all human being.
A few days after the broke up, I was thinking of returning back the stuff which she bought for me such as t-shirt, bags and etc. Do you think it's childish to do that? Because I think it can erase off the pain she gave me....
She thinks you need to be more mature? Maybe its time for you to do some reflection and ask yourself what prompt her to think that way.
Do what you think is in the best interest for you and her. If you think it can erase the pain, go ahead. If she refuses to accept it, tell her why. She as a Christian should be able to understand that at the moment, both of you need to clear this relationship (between you 2) off the mind in order to focus on other things. (For her, being a faithful Christian. For you, to recover from this heartbreak.) -
A good horse never turn back and eat the grass.
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faithful christians cant have premaritial sex right?
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Love can be... "can be" an addiction. so how to deal with the addictive aspect of love? How to deal with addiction?Originally posted by James1:juz ended my half a yr relationship with my gf about a week ago and find it hard to accept the fact that she want to be a faithful christian to her church, want more time to do what she want and also she think i need to be more mature enough.
The day when she decided to break up, I was totally devastated and was demoralized, she told me in front of my face and was shocked till my face almost turned pale, sorry if I was a little "Kua Zhang" is because i want to let you guys understand how I feel, I begging her minute by minute, hour by hour to take me back but she refused. We had lots of quarrel as we hardly give in to one another and as the time goes by, she said, "quarrelling something allow us to understand each other better." so I think it's all right to quarrel so I carried on for months till now.
As I know the moment when I beg her, she felt honor being pleased, I think it's common for all human being.
A few days after the broke up, I was thinking of returning back the stuff which she bought for me such as t-shirt, bags and etc. Do you think it's childish to do that? Because I think it can erase off the pain she gave me....
One of the ways is to remove all reminders associated with the addiction...
so "returning back the stuff which she bought for me such as t-shirt, bags and etc. " is a very sound idea! then throw away all her pics and tel number and anything that might remind you of her... good luck in finding a better one...
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Originally posted by James1:juz ended my half a yr relationship with my gf about a week ago and find it hard to accept the fact that she want to be a faithful christian to her church, want more time to do what she want and also she think i need to be more mature enough.
The day when she decided to break up, I was totally devastated and was demoralized, she told me in front of my face and was shocked till my face almost turned pale, sorry if I was a little "Kua Zhang" is because i want to let you guys understand how I feel, I begging her minute by minute, hour by hour to take me back but she refused. We had lots of quarrel as we hardly give in to one another and as the time goes by, she said, "quarrelling something allow us to understand each other better." so I think it's all right to quarrel so I carried on for months till now.
As I know the moment when I beg her, she felt honor being pleased, I think it's common for all human being.
A few days after the broke up, I was thinking of returning back the stuff which she bought for me such as t-shirt, bags and etc. Do you think it's childish to do that? Because I think it can erase off the pain she gave me....
I think Christianity is merely a red herring; incompatibility is the real stuff.
Quarrels are good only if it's constructive arguments and that there must always be 'cushions' to prevent acrid aftermath and bitterness.
Argue for the sake of arguments very often drains the energy of relationship rapidly.
Hope you do learn something out from this ordeal.
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give urself time, most imptly, do not stress urself.
she tells u being christian and stuff like dat, i bet it is juz an excuse. if she really loves u so much, no matter how busy she is, she will find time for u. dude, u can find a better gerl who suits u more. -
so you want to bong her but she don't let you bong her but you force her to bong with you thats why you break?
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Ask God to heal and and provid you a new and better gF...
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Not really... If you feel that you cannot handle the things she gave you, it might really be wiser to just return all the stuffs and start your life afresh...?Originally posted by James1:juz ended my half a yr relationship with my gf about a week ago and find it hard to accept the fact that she want to be a faithful christian to her church, want more time to do what she want and also she think i need to be more mature enough.
The day when she decided to break up, I was totally devastated and was demoralized, she told me in front of my face and was shocked till my face almost turned pale, sorry if I was a little "Kua Zhang" is because i want to let you guys understand how I feel, I begging her minute by minute, hour by hour to take me back but she refused. We had lots of quarrel as we hardly give in to one another and as the time goes by, she said, "quarrelling something allow us to understand each other better." so I think it's all right to quarrel so I carried on for months till now.
As I know the moment when I beg her, she felt honor being pleased, I think it's common for all human being.
A few days after the broke up, I was thinking of returning back the stuff which she bought for me such as t-shirt, bags and etc. Do you think it's childish to do that? Because I think it can erase off the pain she gave me.... -
Originally posted by menoob:faithful christians cant have premaritial sex right?
Not mentioned and I don't think that was ever the point. Thankfully there are sincere and helpful posts by others.Originally posted by R3SsH|n:so you want to bong her but she don't let you bong her but you force her to bong with you thats why you break? -
but according to TS's previous thread, he did had a problem with his gf being a "second hand", which i found was kinda stupid...Originally posted by SumOne:Not mentioned and I don't think that was ever the point. Thankfully there are sincere and helpful posts by others. -
Same as my long time ago ex. I really understand that.Originally posted by James1:juz ended my half a yr relationship with my gf about a week ago and find it hard to accept the fact that she want to be a faithful christian to her church, want more time to do what she want and also she think i need to be more mature enough.
The day when she decided to break up, I was totally devastated and was demoralized, she told me in front of my face and was shocked till my face almost turned pale, sorry if I was a little "Kua Zhang" is because i want to let you guys understand how I feel, I begging her minute by minute, hour by hour to take me back but she refused. We had lots of quarrel as we hardly give in to one another and as the time goes by, she said, "quarrelling something allow us to understand each other better." so I think it's all right to quarrel so I carried on for months till now.
As I know the moment when I beg her, she felt honor being pleased, I think it's common for all human being.
A few days after the broke up, I was thinking of returning back the stuff which she bought for me such as t-shirt, bags and etc. Do you think it's childish to do that? Because I think it can erase off the pain she gave me....
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she said, "quarrelling something allow us to understand each other better." so I think it's all right to quarrel so I carried on for months till now.
LOL @ This quote
We all know whatever a girl says we guys can't take it word for word
I'm sure you've heard of the
"If she says no it means yes"
"If she says yes it might mean something else"
Basically you need to learn to read between the lines -
What is left, has already left.. Most of the times, your ex would never turn back and eats the same grass again..
There are plenty of girls out there.. I'm sure there will be girls that are better than your ex..
Cheers,
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i think it is another case of a christain not able to accept a non-christain as partner....
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a girl friend of mine is not a christian while her stead is a christian. and they ended breaking up with reason giving by her stead that there's many things that he cant share with her because she's not a christian. and when there's joy or happiness with the god, he can't share with herOriginally posted by darknessfall:i think it is another case of a christain not able to accept a non-christain as partner....
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Everything happened for a reason!
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Take heart. You are the better for it than without. This is only a part of life you are going thru but will greatly enrich your experience and wisdom.
You shud not brood over the reason for the r/s failure coz when pple want to quit the game, aything and everything can be used as a reason wan.....
This may be your first experience but it almost certainly will not be the last! -
how old are you?
if you're <18, you are desperate.
and if you're >18, well here's some advice.
the possible facts would be that she felt she wasn't good enough for you, or she likes another guy.
so, carry on with your life.
why beg her to take you back? are you her slave?
be a man.
i wouldn't beg unless it's proposal.
and if you're <18, you can kill her. u won't be sentenced to death anyway.
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again?
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huh?Originally posted by browniebaobao:again? -
Isn't that a selfish move to the guy (in this case a gurl)? She spends so much time with him, showers him with love, gives him small presents and attention and what she receives in the end is "I think we aren't compatible with each other. We are of different religion. Its difficult for us to relate to each other regarding religious issues. Lets break up okay?"Originally posted by mpgtdr:a girl friend of mine is not a christian while her stead is a christian. and they ended breaking up with reason giving by her stead that there's many things that he cant share with her because she's not a christian. and when there's joy or happiness with the god, he can't share with her -
Too much emo drama liao la.Originally posted by James1:juz ended my half a yr relationship with my gf about a week ago and find it hard to accept the fact that she want to be a faithful christian to her church, want more time to do what she want and also she think i need to be more mature enough.
The day when she decided to break up, I was totally devastated and was demoralized, she told me in front of my face and was shocked till my face almost turned pale, sorry if I was a little "Kua Zhang" is because i want to let you guys understand how I feel, I begging her minute by minute, hour by hour to take me back but she refused. We had lots of quarrel as we hardly give in to one another and as the time goes by, she said, "quarrelling something allow us to understand each other better." so I think it's all right to quarrel so I carried on for months till now.
As I know the moment when I beg her, she felt honor being pleased, I think it's common for all human being.
A few days after the broke up, I was thinking of returning back the stuff which she bought for me such as t-shirt, bags and etc. Do you think it's childish to do that? Because I think it can erase off the pain she gave me....
Just continue with life, its like that one.
3 years down the road you will just think, KNN why i last time so stupid. -
[quote]Originally posted by James1:
jWe had lots of quarrel as we hardly give in to one another and as the time goes by, she said, "quarrelling something allow us to understand each other better." so I think it's all right to quarrel so I carried on for months till now.
lol.... i was really laffing as i read this.
hope you understand the hidden meaning.