my sister loves a married guy
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my sister is dating a 19 year old guy for 6 months. but what made my parents angry is that the guy has a child and is already married. worse thing is that his wife is pregnant with his 2nd child. he is currently serving NS. tried to talk to my sister but she refuses to listen, saying that he dun like his wife and what crap....
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she will suffer from her actions, that is all... the more you and your parents try to stop her the more you are pushing her to him...Originally posted by keropoking:my sister is dating a 19 year old guy for 6 months. but what made my parents angry is that the guy has a child and is already married. worse thing is that his wife is pregnant with his 2nd child. he is currently serving NS. tried to talk to my sister but she refuses to listen, saying that he dun like his wife and what crap.... -
How old is your sister?
Also, 19 with 2 children?! What on earth is happening to teenagers nowadays?
Cheers.
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Nan ren bu huai, Nu Ren bu ai. This theory really proof itself liao.
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i think ur sis needs some counselling.
its not good and bad to break up family.
i hope tat she will come to her sense real fast. amen. -
18Originally posted by CKeer:How old is your sister?
Also, 19 with 2 children?! What on earth is happening to teenagers nowadays?
Cheers.
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i agree with him... try and find someone who she will listen to, to tok to her nicely..Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:she will suffer from her actions, that is all... the more you and your parents try to stop her the more you are pushing her to him... -
If that guy can abondon his wife, he can abondon your sister too. I worry about your sis leh..
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her emotion took control over her mind. talk nicely to her a little by a little each day but dont too harsh or long in one go otherwise the relationship between her and u all will worsen. if there's no one she can listen to, then only after she suffered because of her action then will she get back to her senses. it must be tough on u all, hopefully she will get back to her senses soon.
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hmm.
19 yr old in NS.
wah muz be JC guy.
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what an idiot!
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WTF. Looks like the guy is just looking for some extra marital fling. That's what happens when you get married too young with kids in tow. You find better girls, lust and want them, but ultimately hurting loads of people around.Originally posted by keropoking:my sister is dating a 19 year old guy for 6 months. but what made my parents angry is that the guy has a child and is already married. worse thing is that his wife is pregnant with his 2nd child. he is currently serving NS. tried to talk to my sister but she refuses to listen, saying that he dun like his wife and what crap....
Get your sister to her senses. He just wants to fug her and make her another underaged mother. Besides, I bet that guy is damn poor. What's the point of being with a poor boy? -
i think it's dropout.Originally posted by carlsonxjd:hmm.
19 yr old in NS.
wah muz be JC guy.
dun flame me. -
wat a havoc guy...Originally posted by keropoking:my sister is dating a 19 year old guy for 6 months. but what made my parents angry is that the guy has a child and is already married. worse thing is that his wife is pregnant with his 2nd child. he is currently serving NS. tried to talk to my sister but she refuses to listen, saying that he dun like his wife and what crap.... -
a thinking girl wouldn't touch such a guy with a 10 foot pole ....
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the sister needs a lobotomy.......
maybe get her good friend. or maybe talk to her as a sister/ bro.
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So if he's loaded then its acceptable?Originally posted by Quinsy:Besides, I bet that guy is damn poor. What's the point of being with a poor boy? -
love dun hab eyesOriginally posted by CKeer:How old is your sister?
Also, 19 with 2 children?! What on earth is happening to teenagers nowadays?
Cheers.
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she is drowned in love with him. doubt nothing said she will listen, your sister may auto shut down if anyone tries to talk to her nicely. tell her she is old enough to think for herself. whatever route she chooses, its her own responsibility to face her decision. people must fall down at times in order to learn.
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a mature and sensible gerl will not choose dat kind of guy, even if he is rich, handsome, or wadever attractive qualities dat he HAS. The fact that he is already married with 2 kids at age 19, somemore has lust for other gerls shows THAT something muz be wrong with that guy.
Anybody will noe dat marriage is for life and one should be responsible for another partner if dey are married.
your sister really needs someone to talk to her. if ur parents arent effective in stopping her, i suggest u talk to her or get her frenz to talk to her. if nth else works, maybe u could get ur parents to meet that guy and ask him to stop seeing ur sister. if i werre u, i would have scolded knocked my sister's head to ask her to WAKE UP!.
one sentence: ur sister is damn naive. ask her WAKE UP and focus on studies instead. if there are many flowers out there, den there ARE many grass out there too. why choose someone who is married and give urself all sorts of trouble and nonsense, when u could choose someone with a better and "cleaner" background?? -
Have you ever been in love before?Originally posted by hiphop2009:a mature and sensible gerl will not choose dat kind of guy, even if he is rich, handsome, or wadever attractive qualities dat he HAS. The fact that he is already married with 2 kids at age 19, somemore has lust for other gerls shows THAT something muz be wrong with that guy.
Anybody will noe dat marriage is for life and one should be responsible for another partner if dey are married.
your sister really needs someone to talk to her. if ur parents arent effective in stopping her, i suggest u talk to her or get her frenz to talk to her. if nth else works, maybe u could get ur parents to meet that guy and ask him to stop seeing ur sister. if i werre u, i would have scolded knocked my sister's head to ask her to WAKE UP!.
one sentence: ur sister is damn naive. ask her WAKE UP and focus on studies instead. if there are many flowers out there, den there ARE many grass out there too. why choose someone who is married and give urself all sorts of trouble and nonsense, when u could choose someone with a better and "cleaner" background?? -
yes of course i understand and i have a gf myself too.Originally posted by Haven:Have you ever been in love before?
i understand dat love is blind yeah? emotion is hard to control, BUT the reality is often cruel! dat is why the previous post emphasized a lot on how we should help her.
maybe i also forgot abt how we can use soft method to help her too. one thing is for sure, we cannot advocate and ask her sister to just chase her dreamz. we are going to get her in trouble if we do so.
now my turn to ask u, have u been in love before??? -
n as someone here said, if nth else can be done, let her do it her way and taste her own fruits. of course, IF (unlikely) things turns out well, den we muz and will wish her, but if she falls badly, we can only help her by comforting her and giving her emotion "medicine". from den she will only learn her lessons =)Originally posted by hiphop2009:yes of course i understand and i have a gf myself too.
i understand dat love is blind yeah? emotion is hard to control, BUT the reality is often cruel! dat is why the previous post emphasized a lot on how we should help her.
maybe i also forgot abt how we can use soft method to help her too. one thing is for sure, we cannot advocate and ask her sister to just chase her dreamz. we are going to get her in trouble if we do so.
now my turn to ask u, have u been in love before??? -
My question wasn't meant to offend. It is just to see whether are we looking at things on the same platform.Originally posted by hiphop2009:yes of course i understand and i have a gf myself too.
i understand dat love is blind yeah? emotion is hard to control, BUT the reality is often cruel! dat is why the previous post emphasized a lot on how we should help her.
maybe i also forgot abt how we can use soft method to help her too. one thing is for sure, we cannot advocate and ask her sister to just chase her dreamz. we are going to get her in trouble if we do so.
now my turn to ask u, have u been in love before???
Then you should know she have a decision to make and if she's still young. She'll need to learn from her own personal experience.
What keropoking can do, he have done.
What he should do next is, wait...for his sister to seek help.
Now his sister doesn't need anyone because 'she's in love'
So others just have to look closely and help her incase she falls.
Hard or Soft method. It doesn't work if sister doesn't want help.
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ur sis is not the 1st girl who does that...