my sister loves a married guy
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tell the wife lorOriginally posted by keropoking:my sister is dating a 19 year old guy for 6 months. but what made my parents angry is that the guy has a child and is already married. worse thing is that his wife is pregnant with his 2nd child. he is currently serving NS. tried to talk to my sister but she refuses to listen, saying that he dun like his wife and what crap....
btw your sis got say hor why she likes her so much. -
Your sister chio anot first?
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Though I believe a woman needs to fall in love once or twice wif some bad guys in order to know how to appreciate a good guy, I cant help but to say ur sister is in a grave situation......pls talk to her nicely for the more harsh ur family are to her..the more she will stick to that guy. Le chatlier principle in work, not in chemistry but in psychology.
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i got one fren who is a father at around age 17 or 18... asked the girl of 16 to bear him a son... WTF?!
hmmm i believe in letting ppl play with fire n get burnt... but if u wan, approve of it 1st, like ask her how is she n the guy, how is everything n all... gain her trust... then u understand what she thinking... jumping to conclusions will not help... oh n parents r absolutely be in deaf ears...
gd luck -
Letting people learn from getting burn is fine provided the consequences are not grave. How to learn if the person die from the burn? In this case, TS's sister is pregnant with the guy's kids, if he get her go ahead, she may really bear him a kid, this is affect her life entirely and the kid's too.Originally posted by cheekycheng:i got one fren who is a father at around age 17 or 18... asked the girl of 16 to bear him a son... WTF?!
hmmm i believe in letting ppl play with fire n get burnt... but if u wan, approve of it 1st, like ask her how is she n the guy, how is everything n all... gain her trust... then u understand what she thinking... jumping to conclusions will not help... oh n parents r absolutely be in deaf ears...
gd luck -
The guy sure is a good fcuker...at 19, he is going to have 2 child !
Its kinda surprising that his wife even allowed him to have a second child.
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people in love do not listen to anyone. So you can save it. Or sometimes when it gets ugly, they tell you to shove it.
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haha..Originally posted by Haven:My question wasn't meant to offend. It is just to see whether are we looking at things on the same platform.
Then you should know she have a decision to make and if she's still young. She'll need to learn from her own personal experience.
What keropoking can do, he have done.
What he should do next is, wait...for his sister to seek help.
Now his sister doesn't need anyone because 'she's in love'
So others just have to look closely and help her incase she falls.
Hard or Soft method. It doesn't work if sister doesn't want help.
Yes i've been in love. I speak from the deviant i used to be.
quite true, because for me, i always want to help pple even before dey fall . no doubt many parent's mentality is the same as mine.
To TS: observe her and offer a helping hand if she ever needs the family. gd luck~~