Respond to SMS or call
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Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:How often does your gf didn't respond to your SMS or call?
If she always care to explain who is she with, eg go out with gal friends to shop or drink, after sometime do you feel fishy?
If one has the intention to cheat, he/she will cheat, insofar as to do whatsoever possible to keep it hidden (although with time, everything will be known eventually).
It's not about girls; in fact, it's about the personality of the person. Some people do not feel the need to report their SMS/calls when they out with a group of friends - I used to be like that. Of course if you are not pleased with such behaviour, you have to talk to her about your insecurities.
It's always possible to manage personal space and 'couple's regulation' harmoniously. But if her previous relationship was like that, it would probably take a couple of yearsÂ’ worth of communication, understanding and compromising before a lasting, viable solution will be in place.
The key is to keep communicating.
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thank for the advise, so she cannot complain if i din pick up the pone or reply sms.Originally posted by Yunhaier: If one has the intention to cheat, he/she will cheat, insofar as to do whatsoever possible to keep it hidden (although with time, everything will be known eventually).
It's not about girls; in fact, it's about the personality of the person. Some people do not feel the need to report their SMS/calls when they out with a group of friends - I used to be like that. Of course if you are not pleased with such behaviour, you have to talk to her about your insecurities.
It's always possible to manage personal space and 'couple's regulation' harmoniously. But if her previous relationship was like that, it would probably take a couple of yearsÂ’ worth of communication, understanding and compromising before a lasting, viable solution will be in place.
The key is to keep communicating.
Cheers -
Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:thank for the advise, so she cannot complain if i din pick up the pone or reply sms. Before you consider playing a tit for a tat game - think about whether this action will build or mess up your relationship further.
Don't do something like these just because ego and temper are itching to find fault. You might just regret your action in time to come.
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Ofcourse din do it in purpose but u know gal like to complain about all this. 1 thing for sure that in future I won't sms or call her when she is out with her friends even I am some where nearby, cos I find that there is no need for me to care for her to this extend since she don't need my help. Why ego is involve? or maybe I should take it easy.Originally posted by Yunhaier: Before you consider playing a tit for a tat game - think about whether this action will build or mess up your relationship further.
Don't do something like these just because ego and temper are itching to find fault. You might just regret your action in time to come.
Cheers -
dun u guys think that there must be trust between u and her??
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Like... What happened in the past....?Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:This is something din happen in the past, so maybe I'm too sensitive. But I seldom disturb her when she is meeting her friend , only call to tell her I'm going to fatch her. -
From my personal experience with various cases and people... When there're doubts in the heart, there'll always be room for suspicion....Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:How often does your gf didn't respond to your SMS or call?
If she always care to explain who is she with, eg go out with gal friends to shop or drink, after sometime do you feel fishy? -
Disagree. Whether in a relationship or not, many people might just need their own personal space from time to time...Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:Yah, this is the end result when someone being take for granted and just feel bore about the r/s ,maybe. -
And have you ever wonder why this is so? Or even why you're thinking so in the 1st place?Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:I beco transparent to her liao. -
Hi. I know it is very frustrating to msg someone on yr mind and to wait for a reply from that special someone for ages. Always look on the bright side of things. Always give the other party the benefit of the doubt. Most importantly, I feel that being in a relationship, both parties must always respect and trust eachother. Learn to trust your gf and give her some personal privacy. Being too possessive in a relationship most of the times spell the end of a relationship.
Why don you try this next time. When you msg or call her and there is no reply. Giving her the benefit of the doubt, she will call or sms ypu back when she sees the msg or missed call. Meanwhile, do something to get her off your mind, like meeting up with friends, watching tv or something you were supposed to do. Like this when she calls or msg you back, you can than talk to her since she should be free than she would contact you.
hope this helps.