True.Originally posted by mhcampboy:If it were me, I would forget about my birth parents.
For 28 years, you were brought up by your current family. They are your real parents. Nothing else matters.
" u have almost everything in life"... wah lao instead of enjoying life to the max, you worry about "nonsense". What is wrong with you?Originally posted by upset:if u are 28, married with a happiy family, u have almost everything in life, an only child. U have always suspected tat u are adopted because of some feelings. Then One day, u muster up enough courage to know the whole truth and ask around. In the end, the truth is out that u are adopted. Ur birth parents had given u away because of poverty. U wanted very much to find ur birth parents, but scared that ur birth parents may not remember u. Or afraid that ur actions to find ur birth parents will hurt ur foster parent. what will u do?
Originally posted by upset:if u are 28, married with a happiy family, u have almost everything in life, an only child. U have always suspected tat u are adopted because of some feelings. Then One day, u muster up enough courage to know the whole truth and ask around. In the end, the truth is out that u are adopted. Ur birth parents had given u away because of poverty. U wanted very much to find ur birth parents, but scared that ur birth parents may not remember u. Or afraid that ur actions to find ur birth parents will hurt ur foster parent. what will u do?
without ur real parents, you wun even exist.Originally posted by :Since I'm already 28, married with my own family, who my real parents are will cease to play an important part of my life. I won't even bother to investigate to find out who they really are. I'll just take my foster parents as the real ones. Anyway, I'll be indeted to my foster parents for the many years they have taken care of my needs and if anybody's to be repaid, it's my foster parents!
Already having my own family, I will treasure my present and work hard towards our future, not waste unnecessary time and effort tracking history as in who my true parents are..........![]()
i wish i was nv borned, shd i blame my real parents?Originally posted by browniebaobao:without ur real parents, you wun even exist.
hi gal! Long time no see!Originally posted by subarugal:i wouldn't find the truth.
Coz nothing beat the hardship parental guideance shown since i was born.
And the real truth is you are meeting some stranger family too.
And the truth might not be as beautiful as it is..
Ignorance is bliss.
this happened to my friend who went all the way to japan to find her birth mother (she is half jap) after he 'o' levels; using her entire life savings and spending years in search of her.Originally posted by subarugal:i wouldn't find the truth.
Coz nothing beat the hardship parental guideance shown since i was born.
And the real truth is you are meeting some stranger family too.
And the truth might not be as beautiful as it is..
Ignorance is bliss.
may i know why?Originally posted by UandMe:i wish i was nv borned, shd i blame my real parents?