I'm in love with one of my best friends
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how does that relate to me? nobody was even trying to pull me. he's my friend..that's all, from his point of view anyway.Originally posted by freestyle:girls r dumb.
so easily swayed
sometimes the new guy not even serious about her just want her body etc
so pretend be nice and all
understanding and all that crap
pretend to provide solutions to her current r/s problems
NATURALLY
the dumb girl will be swayed over.
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yes everything's correct. we're all in our twenties. and nothing really happened. i guess i had some feeling for him even bfor but i realised it only a while ago. I got jealous when he told me about this other girl. And it still stings every time he mentions her.Originally posted by Devil1976:Actually... I'm not exactly sure what you're trying to say....?
So... Correct me if I'm wrong?
1. The guy you're interested in just found out a week ago that you're interested in him.
2. That guy you're interested in is in love with another girl who doesn't love him back?
3. You afraid things might be more complicated when the guy you're interested in lost his interest in the girl he's currently interested in?
How old are the 3 of you?
To be honest with you... It's not uncommon that people don't put in their 100% in their relationship... The KEY is SELF-WILLINGNESS... Sometimes it's really no point pushing yourself too hard just for teh sake of doing it....?
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i'm sorry i dont have time to reply to all the posts, i'll try to get back later. thanks everybody for trying to help.
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what a mess...Follow your heartOriginally posted by red|pixie:He knows, he found out about a week ago. I wish we could be more than friends but the thing is...I have a boyfriend who loves me very much and he's in love with another girl who doesn't love him. I know i have to faithful to my boyfriend which is not hard at the moment since the guy i'm in love with doesn't love me, but i'm afraid that in the future when he gets over his current love things will be more complicated. We had a chance to become a couple long time ago but he let it slip away. Now i keep thinking what could have been. I try to support my boyfriend and give him as much love as he's given me over the past couple of years but my heart's not 100% in it. Every now and then i start thinking about my friend...How can i get over him?
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make a really firm decision. dont hurt both parties in the end =)
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???Originally posted by red|pixie:He knows, he found out about a week ago. I wish we could be more than friends but the thing is...I have a boyfriend who loves me very much and he's in love with another girl who doesn't love him. I know i have to faithful to my boyfriend which is not hard at the moment since the guy i'm in love with doesn't love me, but i'm afraid that in the future when he gets over his current love things will be more complicated. We had a chance to become a couple long time ago but he let it slip away. Now i keep thinking what could have been. I try to support my boyfriend and give him as much love as he's given me over the past couple of years but my heart's not 100% in it. Every now and then i start thinking about my friend...How can i get over him?
did u type correctly or not!!
seem to me that everyone inside a r/s above doesn't love one another
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So... How is that guy reacting now that he found out you're interested in him...? Still talk to you about that girl she's interested in....?Originally posted by red|pixie:i'm sorry i dont have time to reply to all the posts, i'll try to get back later. thanks everybody for trying to help. -
Is your decision and need for advice to forget and get over with that guy you're interested in...?Originally posted by red|pixie:He knows, he found out about a week ago. I wish we could be more than friends but the thing is...I have a boyfriend who loves me very much and he's in love with another girl who doesn't love him. I know i have to faithful to my boyfriend which is not hard at the moment since the guy i'm in love with doesn't love me, but i'm afraid that in the future when he gets over his current love things will be more complicated. We had a chance to become a couple long time ago but he let it slip away. Now i keep thinking what could have been. I try to support my boyfriend and give him as much love as he's given me over the past couple of years but my heart's not 100% in it. Every now and then i start thinking about my friend...How can i get over him?
Why did he let things slip passed before....? Was your current bf there for you when that thing happened...? How long have you been interested in him and he not interested in you...? What makes you actually think that he would just suddenly and be genuinely interested in you out of the blues when both of you hardly even get that close together (I'm presuming on this one)? Do you think this would in fact make a fruitful relationship in turn...?
Who is your bf to you now...? Why did you chose to be with him...? Do you love him....