is it just me..
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And one thing I need to add is...u are here for one week only, so u might feel not used to the enviroment...so maybe u can observe the enviroment first before u can actually plan for anything or trips....cos its not fun to get urself lost in bigger countries and in ur case is europe. Get a GPS if u r drving. Getting lost during ur trip is super turn off as it wasting time and u only have weekends to travel, rite?? Anyway the key word is to plan. Spend some time planning before u excute anything. ok? Enjoy
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My sympathies....... But you shouldn't have asumed that she has no bf perhaps.Mebbe u were careless. Still, since it's happened, just lan lan lor. Wad else can you do right? Exploring London alone may be pretty excitingtoo. Who knows who you'll meet? So just stay cool and look ahead and dun brood over this too long lor........
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yup. she did. and she did not even tell me about her easter plans. How i know abt it? coz im sitting at the cubicle next to her. i can hear her discussing abt travelling issue with her bf in sg (on the phone) and calls to book train tickets.Originally posted by Slipshade:Huh. She suddenly dump you aside repeatedly like that.
Reeks of playing you out, especially that Easter holiday matter. She really play you out.
Its quite bad to act like this i think. So secretive, and din even bother to notify me. I onli casually asked her once, and she jus say she going with her bf. Fr then, i heard nothing from her mouth. Onli thru "eavesdropping" but i much not hear anything. just makes me feel upset and disappointed.
she likes to tell me to " u go first" " u go urself lor.. "
quite mani times. hard to develop close frenship if she is acting this way.
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i guess u r right! im too afraid to drive alone here. lolz..Originally posted by SpeedStar:And one thing I need to add is...u are here for one week only, so u might feel not used to the enviroment...so maybe u can observe the enviroment first before u can actually plan for anything or trips....cos its not fun to get urself lost in bigger countries and in ur case is europe. Get a GPS if u r drving. Getting lost during ur trip is super turn off as it wasting time and u only have weekends to travel, rite?? Anyway the key word is to plan. Spend some time planning before u excute anything. ok? Enjoy
another incident. at 1st we both badly wanted to get broadband for our apartment. Then we realised that all plans are 12 mths contract.
Then she tells me we shld nt get bb, jus get dial up cheaper.
then next day she say, her bf wil be gettin one when he comes over, so mite as well use at his place. I tink quite paiseh, but said nothing.
then now she say she not sharing liao. ask me get it myself if i want.
haha.. she is this kind one.
now she buggin me to share buy a filter for the tap. was wondering if i shld do the same to her .. -
hee.. thanks for letting me see things in an optimistic way. i guess i will!Originally posted by :My sympathies....... But you shouldn't have asumed that she has no bf perhaps.Mebbe u were careless. Still, since it's happened, just lan lan lor. Wad else can you do right? Exploring London alone may be pretty excitingtoo. Who knows who you'll meet? So just stay cool and look ahead and dun brood over this too long lor........
im jus blur now. need to be more alert ...
i alreadi knew her bf coming. but i din know its before easter break. so back in sg, we alreadi planned easter Together!! thats y i felt sad. and she just "kick me aside" without notifying me at all.. felt dumb.. really
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If you'd like some help I can ask my English friends there for tips. Where in Blighty are you now and what would you like to see?
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U got urself a dangerous working colleage..
wEll even in times of play, she dares to play you out in such a way..i dare to say working wise, she will do the very same if needed..
Sometimes a person behaviour can easily been seen in times of need...
I believe you have tasted the feeling of being played out..mm its a bitter taste right. I got a couple of that b4..and it shucks..
Well well..think this way k..since you have not much time to plan liao..you gotttaa make a crash plan le..if anything to goes by, msg me..i got a fren in england..she can help u if u in need of serious help.. : )
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maybe she just treats u as a companion when she needs one. Betrayal would be a too strong word to describe her. Just let her be, but take note of what she did to u. When she is lonely and seek ur companion, tell her u have more impt things than her. Sometimes it is gd to be independent.
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Hmmm... come to think about it, the word "betray" seems too strong a word to use.... how about "let down" then??!!
Anyway, ilovethesun, don't let the action of your friend to make you miss out on the opportunity to travel around UK.
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she's rather inconsiderate.
At any rate, it is great not to have someone like that to cramp your style too. Plus its much better to find out she is inconsiderate NOW than when you are already travelling with her. It's no fun to travel with someone who is only sensitive to her own needs
In the meantime, I think 8 months is not a long time at all! It's a very short time when you consider that you have to WORK most of the time. Do treasure that time you have there and not waste it! Try to let the excitement that you are in a new country! You are ready to travel! And your own travel plans wash over the temporary hurt that you feel
If you are not experienced in travelling alone, sometimes it can be dangerous. So perhaps you want to stick to 'safer' routes first. Take care and have fun I wish I'm in UK working! -
I second this. What the hell, man.Originally posted by ironpeasant:maybe she just treats u as a companion when she needs one. Betrayal would be a too strong word to describe her. Just let her be, but take note of what she did to u. When she is lonely and seek ur companion, tell her u have more impt things than her. Sometimes it is gd to be independent.
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Hi Kuali Baba, thanks for the offer.. I have not had any places tat i wan to visit. I jus got here, and wanted to get use to the new environmet 1st. But then the idea of travelling is ever so tempting! and seein my 'companion ' is plannin so hard for trips, felt sad that i cant share the excitement.. agk..Originally posted by Kuali Baba:If you'd like some help I can ask my English friends there for tips. Where in Blighty are you now and what would you like to see? -
Yea, its shocking that feelings n perception of someone can change jus by living tog less than 1 wk.. I walked fr city to home todae..got lost abit and finally got back..felt better abt myself and i can get to n fro without much help.Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:she's rather inconsiderate.
At any rate, it is great not to have someone like that to cramp your style too. Plus its much better to find out she is inconsiderate NOW than when you are already travelling with her. It's no fun to travel with someone who is only sensitive to her own needs
In the meantime, I think 8 months is not a long time at all! It's a very short time when you consider that you have to WORK most of the time. Do treasure that time you have there and not waste it! Try to let the excitement that you are in a new country! You are ready to travel! And your own travel plans wash over the temporary hurt that you feel
If you are not experienced in travelling alone, sometimes it can be dangerous. So perhaps you want to stick to 'safer' routes first. Take care and have fun I wish I'm in UK working!
thnks for the many words of comfort n encouragement. i think it really helps. Felt much better abt this whole incident. at least i know its just plain unlucky to b in this situation -
Always have a good attitude... this attitude is very bad...Originally posted by ilovethesun:yar.. and B's bf is 6 yrs older than us..
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It is challenging and yet a lot of fun when you learnt to move around on your own. Speaking from experience because previosuly I was on business trip alone in one part of Philippines too and most time I need to do a lot of traveling on my own too. Just got to be familarize with the transport system and moving around. Jia YOu!!