Being helpful or kind just doesnt help?

• the Bear

  28 Mar 07, 12:13

  for a mod of a place where people come with their problems for advice, you are surprisingly cynical and bitter...
  
  oh well..
• yihao93

  28 Mar 07, 21:52

  Originally posted by felirox:

  regarding on the topic,do u think its true? I realized that being helpful to someone at times just doesn't help cos at times u will not get the same treatment. I've experienced it umpteen times and i'm starting to think,why be helpful to those ppl who will nvr return you the same treatment? But at times,there are people who just cant bear not to help someone when they are in trouble. What do u think?

  dude,,,, i oso la...
  dun fret...
• yihao93

  28 Mar 07, 21:54

  Originally posted by Ito_^:

  today i kana already.
  
  when u need help dat time, u see how many are willing to help u.
  
  confirm 1 from 4 will suddenly turn face gib u see.

  i beg to differ,
  i think is 3 from 4
• zeny

  28 Mar 07, 22:03

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  for a mod of a place where people come with their problems for advice, you are surprisingly cynical and bitter...
  
  oh well..

  I agree with Devil thats life.
  I do not find him bitter..
  
• Devil1976

  29 Mar 07, 11:52

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  for a mod of a place where people come with their problems for advice, you are surprisingly cynical and bitter...
  
  oh well..

  Talk is cheap... It's the experience man..
  
  Time for a reality check?
• pwnz0r

  29 Mar 07, 12:00

  so you are kind and helpful just to received equivalent, reciprocal behaviour in future?
  
  that's damn selfish...
  
  true help and assistance is one that is freely and wholeheartedly given, at no cost, without any expectations of returned favours.