Addicted to her.....
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got a problem
hope everyone can give me a good suggestion
PLSSSSSSS!!!!
i know a girl for going 4 years... she always part of my life...
i chase her before rejected before
i tried to forget her before
i remember her again..
we are such close friends that even we are not lovers we still are good friends.. but i just want to tell her really love her..
i can stop thinking of her.. i smile i cry i laff angry over her...
i want to protect her for life which it never occurs to me to any other girls.
i was thinking even it cost me a life time i am willing to love her deep...
she is a good girl.. caring, sweet, and my mind is blank now... .. she is too lovely 
p.s she is not consider pretty type...
i alway feel that she is lack of love... but why wont she let me come to her life?
we are both 21 .. she owns her own shop... recently i help her out.. i feel so happy to watch her work.. help her keep her shop and buying her lunch and dinner watch her eat, when her business issit that good .. i feel sad very sad..i wanted to help her but then .. even think of save money open account for her.. maybe when she needs i can really help her...
... yah i feel i am abit stupid over alot of things maybe i still not familar with the stock in and out.. where to place it...
well i am going to ns soon . i know my allowance will be super low.. maybe i can choose to sign on something.... but really scare of losing her.. but i know i wont lost her as a friend.. but sometimes i really want more.. even go thru the red carpet... this is my fantasy or is this my reality... i am a very responsible person.. up to now i never give up things easy even i own it i treasure it..
i really believe this love for her is very pure.
ps: joan if u see this but i know u wont..
... remember i make u a promise...my promise never meant to be broken..
when you need someone i will always be by your side.. -
wow u r so chi qing.. I tink u should tell her how u feel and see wat happens 1st. You can continue to help her as a friend 1st and the same time let her haf a better opinion of u. The reason maybe y she dun accept u is maybe of a past relationship or crush that left her bad memories. Give her time and im sure she will slowly get to knoe and accept u. TAke care and all the Best!!!
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to tell her again needs too much courage.. i really worry to destory our friendship again.. but recent she did hint me she is single now..
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ya i must agree with u... i know u dun wanna jeopardise the r/s with her now... u scare of losing her.... maybe during ur NS u decide whether u can forget her or not..Originally posted by Seventh_Signs:to tell her again needs too much courage.. i really worry to destory our friendship again.. but recent she did hint me she is single now..
if u cant... (like me ) then continue chasing her and make ur feelings known to her once again 
good luck my fren
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maybe going ns wil help in some way..
when u are away, maybe she wil realise how much u mean to her...
if she dun miss u at all.. then u shld know how impossible this r/s is..
if she seem normal.. miss u in a frenz way.. then maybe u wil have the chance after ur ns.. when u are more mature and "reliable".
it can be a test for u toward her too...a test of how much u love her. scally u dun mis her as much when u are in ur ns and after ur ns... -
support you!!!! jia you wor!! she must be a very good ger to lat you so chi qing over her..erm..so envious of her,got ppl treat her so good.
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Hi ,
i support u for the deep love to her.
I know cause i also once deep love to one girl.
But fate decided she not mine and i had been low for 4 years after that.But im glad i still be strong although it's hard to forget.
Take care ,
if i can stop myself for being 'fan nao' whether is i truely put it down
or whether is fake put it down my past also doesn't matter.
I believe one day i can forget about my past.
As for u,
hope that one day u will win her heart.
Don't think too much. -
hey dude... hang in there... show her that u will always be by her side no matter wat.. one day she will realise.. myb now its not the right time to get together yet.. as GOD wont always grant ur wish.. BUT he din say he wont.. its just not the time yet.. just like while on the road... u will encounter amber and red lights.. just have to wait..
always remember " Victory Belongs To The Most Perservering" she will be touched one day.. you have my support.
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ha, don't place your hopes on GOD. He can't be trusted...
rather than pray for the best, do something yourself, don't live in regret for the rest of your life -
DuDe
This kind of things does require fate and luck..
so GOOD LUCK! -
Hi, U can believe me on one thing... the hardest thing about saying things and confessing your feelings in a true and honest way is only fearing fear itself. Thats all. But once u cross that, u can do it. The first step is the hardest and that is to tell her how u feeeel towards her. Trust me, u wun wanna regret confessing your feelings cause when u confess at least u know u either pass of failed but if u dun, u will alwaz be thinking and sleeping on the thought whether or not she likes u or not. Be a man, go tell her. U wun regret it.Originally posted by Seventh_Signs:to tell her again needs too much courage.. i really worry to destory our friendship again.. but recent she did hint me she is single now..
I once confessed my feelings for some girl i liked but she rejected me in a friendly way that our friendship got better after that cause we set out our direction of our friendship in which it should go, we talked well and good that friends betw us would be good enough and i really appreciated that cause i am now a closer friend to her and she actually thanked me for that cause she was really too shy to tell me she was interested in me as a fren only(sometimes we guys too thick-headed to sense!). It realised alot of social tension betw us and it felt much better. Be truthful and speak from the heart. -
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tsk tsk haiz...
woah u quite sad yah. cheer up a bit dont brood over it. not asking u to give up cos u might still have a chance. try to make yrself happy (though might be quite hard when u are in the army ) nevertheless ure at yr most attractive when ure bright and cheerful so let her see tat more often.
right now try not to assume anything, continue to do wat ure doing and hint to her when u think the time is ripe. e.g. if she asks u questions regarding bgr stuff etc.
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ermmm... very familier leh... heheOriginally posted by MoNsTer:maybe going ns wil help in some way..
when u are away, maybe she wil realise how much u mean to her...
if she dun miss u at all.. then u shld know how impossible this r/s is..
if she seem normal.. miss u in a frenz way.. then maybe u wil have the chance after ur ns.. when u are more mature and "reliable".
it can be a test for u toward her too...a test of how much u love her. scally u dun mis her as much when u are in ur ns and after ur ns...
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Go all the way friend.... if u really love her, u will never gonna give up chasing her...
Yah my gf MoNsTer^ said is true, NS is the best time to test the patient between u and her. During BMT, u only have like 1+hr of really so called own "free time" a day, that will be your precious 1hr with her. hehehe *memories come back liaoz*
Anyway, just one word, don give up.... keep on shower her with your care and love... she'll realise it one day..
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yaya.. just like the way he did.. he show mi love tat no1 even show it to mi b4.. he care for mi in a way.. where no other guy can match.. he show mi loyalty, like a soldier to king...
thus im being very very move by him and falling inlove in a way never b4... -
*shy shy* hehe... si xiang...Originally posted by MoNsTer:yaya.. just like the way he did.. he show mi love tat no1 even show it to mi b4.. he care for mi in a way.. where no other guy can match.. he show mi loyalty, like a soldier to king...
thus im being very very move by him and falling inlove in a way never b4...
no mah, i where got hehehe i just being myself only mah kekeke dear.... *wink wink* -
thanks anyway for all here... i know i am quite stupid.. but i just feel like telling out... ...
i love her.. i really love her alot...
wes brown i think u try to mean there is always others around..
i can tell u truthfully i tried to know others too but this feeling never change abit ... alot of 'better' girls have appeared but i rather hurt myself then to mian chang myselves to love others if the feeling is not true... i hate the feeling why i cann't be alot others who can let go of bad experience and love one after another...
but nothing can compare a smile from the one i love, the look in her eyes, every single words she say .. cannt bear if she is hurt, she is tired, she is sad... it just goes ' ying ying zhuo tong' i will goes in the song i wrote for her...
when u need someone i'm always by your side.. -
http://www.geocities.com/antrence/dairy.html
if u have the interested in knowing most of my life happening with her.... -
You mentioned that you're scared of losing her after you've gone for your NS, but not as a friend...? But just to remind you again, since when have you been more than a friend to her....? (As you've revealed it...)Originally posted by Seventh_Signs:got a problem hope everyone can give me a good suggestion
PLSSSSSSS!!!!
i know a girl for going 4 years... she always part of my life...
i chase her before rejected before
i tried to forget her before
i remember her again..
we are such close friends that even we are not lovers we still are good friends.. but i just want to tell her really love her..
i can stop thinking of her.. i smile i cry i laff angry over her...
i want to protect her for life which it never occurs to me to any other girls.
i was thinking even it cost me a life time i am willing to love her deep...
she is a good girl.. caring, sweet, and my mind is blank now... .. she is too lovely
p.s she is not consider pretty type...
i alway feel that she is lack of love... but why wont she let me come to her life?
we are both 21 .. she owns her own shop... recently i help her out.. i feel so happy to watch her work.. help her keep her shop and buying her lunch and dinner watch her eat, when her business issit that good .. i feel sad very sad..i wanted to help her but then .. even think of save money open account for her.. maybe when she needs i can really help her...
... yah i feel i am abit stupid over alot of things maybe i still not familar with the stock in and out.. where to place it...
well i am going to ns soon . i know my allowance will be super low.. maybe i can choose to sign on something.... but really scare of losing her.. but i know i wont lost her as a friend.. but sometimes i really want more.. even go thru the red carpet... this is my fantasy or is this my reality... i am a very responsible person.. up to now i never give up things easy even i own it i treasure it..
i really believe this love for her is very pure.
ps: joan if u see this but i know u wont..
... remember i make u a promise...my promise never meant to be broken..
when you need someone i will always be by your side..
It doesn't matter if you're a responsible guy, it doesn't matter if you're willing to do alot for her, and that your love for her is very pure...? It all doesn't really matter..... What matters of much concern now would be what she wants? No point giving someone a branded watch if she doesn't need a watch, a delicious meal when she's all full...? Abides by her ways as you're playing her game now..... Even though you know that you might end up with nothing... Even though it might be hurt in return....
If lady's luck was not on your side, situation seems like it sure isn't much so now that you're heading for your NS....? Do you think you can really change her heart...? Only she can tell, if she bother to notice...? -
By the way... Addiction is usually never a good thing...? ~Take note of that...?~
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Sigh,
i'm also in a similar situation. i'm also playing someone's game and i hope she notices that i'm treating her so well. but if she doesn't then i'll juz be left wif hurt and memories.
my case is slightly different, she is my ex, and currently she is attatched to a guy who treats her badly. dunno lah, like wat u said, yup, i do feel hurt when she is hurt. not a good feeling.
she did say she regret the break up. but now wat to do? i also cannot do anything but wait for her lor. sigh.
Love sucks lah. -
i am so touchedOriginally posted by Seventh_Signs:http://www.geocities.com/antrence/dairy.html
if u have the interested in knowing most of my life happening with her.... -
erm touch ? .. some people say me stupid... anyway i create it not because to tell her what have been in my memories or let her read... cause i know .. she have no more time in the net and i dont think she will ever find out about this... maybe if there is a chance i can be with her... maybe ... she will see this.....
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my problem ABOUT the same with u... i dunno wat she wants... is she playing ard with me?Originally posted by Seventh_Signs:erm touch ? .. some people say me stupid... anyway i create it not because to tell her what have been in my memories or let her read... cause i know .. she have no more time in the net and i dont think she will ever find out about this... maybe if there is a chance i can be with her... maybe ... she will see this.....
make me fall for her, then reject me.
reject me then still treat me so good..
wat the world does she want... i really dunno
ps. i also done silly stuffs like u just to make her happy