Addicted to her.....
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bigdeal .. same also lah ... sort of playing like 'hard to get ' like that..
actually i tried to play this game before.. .. tried to quarrel with her do foolish things infront of her... and well she give care more that time.. but until i guess i better not do this thing to her... and sort of try to let go... cause to make her unhappy make me super upset ...
dont ever play such foolish game.. it issit good.. lucky we are really that good friend i guess so ... not that bad...
today saw her mother... asking about me.. how my life working? and stuff.. telling that i am going to ns .. her mother face turn diffeent again .say .. friend then free come down help her lah .bla bla ... her father even ask me what is my surname.. i also dont know what reason .. ..anyway ... i guess we cann't be together maybe another 3 year 4 years... when i start to have more things.. and if she still the same.. maybe i got the chance...
even i think of myself.. what can i provide her now? .. this world is so like that got money is everything... i am so angry that i feel i am so useless sometimes...
It's amazing how you can speak right to my heart
Without saying a word, you can light up the dark
Try as I may I could never explain
What I hear when you don't say a thing
The smile on your face let's me know that you need me
There's a truth in your eyes saying you'll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you'll catch me when ever I fall
You say it best when you say nothing at all
All alone I can hear people talking out loud
But when you hold me near, you drown out the crowd
trailer they make they can never define
What's being said between your heart and mine
but i am used to it liao ..
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14 days to ns... will i have a chance to tell her.. i love her...
Send someone to love me I need to rest in arms
Keep me safe from harm In pouring rain
Give me endless summer Lord I fear the cold Feel I'm getting old Before my time
As my soul heals the shame I will grow through this pain
Lord I'm doing all I can To be a better man
Go easy on my conscience 'Cause it's not my fault I know I've been taught
To take the blame
Rest assured my angels Will catch my tears
Walk me out of here I'm in pain
As my soul heals the shame
I will grow through this pain
Lord I'm doing all I can
To be a better man
Once you've found that lover You're homeward bound Love is all around
Love is all around
I know some have fallen
On stony ground
But Love is all around
Send someone to love me I need to rest in arms
Keep me safe from harm In pouring rain
Give me endless summer
Lord I fear the cold
Feel I'm getting old
Before my time
As my soul heals the shame
I will grow through this pain
Lord I'm doin' all I can
To be a better man -
i'd wld love to be loved in tt way but too bad....i was the one giving love this wayOriginally posted by Seventh_Signs:bigdeal .. same also lah ... sort of playing like 'hard to get ' like that..
actually i tried to play this game before.. .. tried to quarrel with her do foolish things infront of her... and well she give care more that time.. but until i guess i better not do this thing to her... and sort of try to let go... cause to make her unhappy make me super upset ...
dont ever play such foolish game.. it issit good.. lucky we are really that good friend i guess so ... not that bad...
today saw her mother... asking about me.. how my life working? and stuff.. telling that i am going to ns .. her mother face turn diffeent again .say .. friend then free come down help her lah .bla bla ... her father even ask me what is my surname.. i also dont know what reason .. ..anyway ... i guess we cann't be together maybe another 3 year 4 years... when i start to have more things.. and if she still the same.. maybe i got the chance...
even i think of myself.. what can i provide her now? .. this world is so like that got money is everything... i am so angry that i feel i am so useless sometimes...
It's amazing how you can speak right to my heart
Without saying a word, you can light up the dark
Try as I may I could never explain
What I hear when you don't say a thing
The smile on your face let's me know that you need me
There's a truth in your eyes saying you'll never leave me
The touch of your hand says you'll catch me when ever I fall
You say it best when you say nothing at all
All alone I can hear people talking out loud
But when you hold me near, you drown out the crowd
trailer they make they can never define
What's being said between your heart and mine
but i am used to it liao ..
dun worry.....i promise not another story fr me...
ur story reminded me of mine not long ago....reading up to here....noticed tt i've been using past tense?
Passion has gone...gone with the wind....
Many a times...i've wondered who in the world can be compared to u....No one.....that was the answer when i was head over heels...for no one but u
Now...backing back at the past....i was silly but the feelings were true....i've got no regrets...i've done my part...
In my struggles to forget u....i've left out TIME......
Time is the best remedy to heal wounds of the heart
i cldnt u/stand back then until i did it
Hurt will go away when u allow......
However, my advice 4 u.....girls r usually slow to catch ur hints
......slow to digest ur hints....slow to reciprocate our love...slow to express our love.....slow to determine u r the one not another....when u finally give up.....we r ready 
if u can accept this slowness in galz....give us some time....juz do ur part.....when u r not the one....u will know by then n u shld have tried ur best....no regrets remaining...Let time take over to heal this wound...it will take some time...definitely...coz the love has been true n deep
my guess...at the age of 21...she has her shop....she might be an ambitious type? show her some security by showing her wat u've planned for ur future...impress her...gd luck!!!!! -
i'm glad the game u "played" u have stop.. cuz gals dun like attitude guys and even though so, we would end up crawling back to them when they come probing what happen...
all guys die under the hands of gals izzit?
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If you would care to listen a bigger Brother a.k.a me.
Take it one step at a time. The pain will come and it will go.
I'm not saying throw the relationship away but keep her somewhere in your mind and heart.
Dont push things. You can express your feelings but then the ball is in her court. You will face a new stage of your life in NS.
That I guarantee you.
Stay focus on what is truly necessary and things will fall in place.
OF course it will hurt and it's easy for me to sit here and tell you this. But the plain truth is that people move on and you have to move on as well.
you are young Buddy, lotsa chance . -
Funny the 2 songs you've posted here are also the 2 songs which I find particularly 'meaningful' in my Life...?Originally posted by Seventh_Signs:14 days to ns... will i have a chance to tell her.. i love her...
Send someone to love me I need to rest in arms
Keep me safe from harm In pouring rain
Give me endless summer Lord I fear the cold Feel I'm getting old Before my time
As my soul heals the shame I will grow through this pain
Lord I'm doing all I can To be a better man
Go easy on my conscience 'Cause it's not my fault I know I've been taught
To take the blame
Rest assured my angels Will catch my tears
Walk me out of here I'm in pain
As my soul heals the shame
I will grow through this pain
Lord I'm doing all I can
To be a better man
Once you've found that lover You're homeward bound Love is all around
Love is all around
I know some have fallen
On stony ground
But Love is all around
Send someone to love me I need to rest in arms
Keep me safe from harm In pouring rain
Give me endless summer
Lord I fear the cold
Feel I'm getting old
Before my time
As my soul heals the shame
I will grow through this pain
Lord I'm doin' all I can
To be a better man
To add, I suggest you should concentrate on your NS 1st and take things easy between you and her... Ever heard of how people are always having problems with their relationship when the guy is going NS...? Talk about a YOUNG and WEAK relationship....? And what's more yours...? I guess you can say that it's a blissing in disguise that your relationship with her is not starting now... What a torment and a CHALLENGE that would be...? A young plant which just meet the storm and hardly make it to the next summer...?
Why don't you.... Take this opportunity to nurture and STRENGTHEN your relationship with her instead...? Though there're no 'official certificates' to announce you bf and gf, but that doesn't make love any less of a significance anyway? (If it exist...) Think of it this way... If you're meant to be together, this 3 years or so would be a great time of bringing you CLOSER to each other... (with all the difficulties piled up between you and her & more time to miss each other?) If you're not meant to be and 'force starting' this relationship would only mean that this 3 years' gonna tear your relationship apart and DESTROY EVERYTHING(?) between you and her.... LOST, PAIN for you, HURTING your LOVE one.... Worth it? Think about it....
Somehow I've got a 'hinch' that she might wanna concentrate on her business for now....? (Just a 'hinch', not on any logical basis..) Is she the ONLY child? Is her family experiencing much financial problem..? Is she quite close to her parents or at least love them alot...?
Additionally move (take it slow and easy ok...?) you can make within this 3 years... If her parents are comfortable with you, perhaps you can talk to them more often and learn more about the 'situation' for this girl of yours...?
3 years... I bet you're one of the closer person with her now..? Being unattached might signifies that she would like to concentrate on something else (her business, her career?) or perhaps have no interest in you.... Take the '3 years' plan' and see how things go? If she falls for another within this 3 years it just mean that she feel nothing more than the obvious for you... Don't be discouraged? This is just the way Life goes, moreover LOVE...? If she remains UNATTACHED, HIGH CHANCE is her mind is PRE-OCCUPIED with something...
CONCLUSION: Take things easy but don't let go (unless you want to?). The fact that you're helping her out in her business is a PLUS. Her parents might have shown concern for her future (relationship), but she's more concerned with something else. 3 years after NS should make you a more mature guy. Take this chance to strengthen the 'TIES' between you and her (and her parents too? ) Hopefully when stars shift for her, it'll be more obvious for you? Have an OPEN HEART about it? -
she has alot of problems in her mind one... but sort of i am able to guess out ..what she is up to and help her... maybe that why we are beter of good friend.. i help her with my limit....
her family... erm .. well she is an adopted child. eldest...quite a complicated family she have i wish not to tell out.but consider her mum still concern of her... she is very independent of course... she start everything by herself....
i have the feeling i am always too small to exist in her life.... guess i am not important until she needs me feeling.... but well ...
i dont want to say liao.... going to her shop now... -
Well...love makes a person stronger n allows one to see beyond present...
if u love someone....show it with COURAGE...
tt's wat she needs now....n even more 4 her...
the complicating background muz have built up the person she is 2dae...
Independent...fear of losing wat she has now n opting 4 not having to depend too much on another.....
U have to be really Braver than she is now.....to give the love she deserves....who else besides u?....u r her courage
REMEMBER: LOVE IS THE POWER -
wow counting down to ns?
after yr first week u might be too tired to remember her name man.
=)
time to grow into a man dude. show yrself some respect. better yrself and up yr self esteem. -
i am growing up ... i am ... but it takes time .. everything take times
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Originally posted by Seventh_Signs:i am growing up ... i am ... but it takes time .. everything take times
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hmmm devil funny meh with this line? ...
I read a note my grandma wrote back in nineteen twenty-three.
Grandpa kept it in his coat, and he showed it once to me. He said,
"Boy, you might not understand, but a long, long time ago,
Grandma's daddy didn't like me none, but I loved your Grandma so."
We had this crazy plan to meet and run away together.
Get married in the first town we came to, and live forever.
But nailed to the tree where we were supposed to meet, instead
Of her, I found this letter, and this is what it said:
If you get there before I do, don't give up on me.
I'll meet you when my chores are through;
I don't know how long I'll be.
But I'm not gonna let you down, darling wait and see.
And between now and then, till I see you again,
I'll be loving you. Love, me.
I read those words just hours before my Grandma passed away,
In the doorway of a church where me and Grandpa stopped to pray.
I know I'd never seen him cry in all my fifteen years;
But as he said these words to her, his eyes filled up with tears.
If you get there before I do, don't give up on me.
I'll meet you when my chores are through;
I don't know how long I'll be.
But I'm not gonna let you down, darling wait and see.
And between now and then, till I see you again,
I'll be loving you. Love, me.
Between now and then, till I see you again,
I'll be loving you. Love, me. -
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wow.....thks huh!!!!
lyrics de lai quan bu fei gong fu
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no thanks wes brown..
hmmmm i guess people looking for this song lyrics.. -
I noticed something..............................
U have done lots of things for her but...........she didnt do much for u ? -
it is always 1 sided love right... of course i am the one doing things.. if she do alot of things for me.. the title will be 'addicted to me '
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Do u believe tt love is blind?
i dun mean here tt u r blinded by her love but love blinds u fr other things besides love.....
Wat is love anyway?......loving her with all ur heart?
Wat can u do for ur love?....be by her side everyday?
Wat kind of love she wants fr u?......ur presence or ......????
How can love lasts?......ohhh...i juz live for the moment....???
In my opinion, love allows a person to grow n learn fr his/her life.
I expect the ONE to help me see beyond the present....
let's say the future....his ambitions....etc...
U'll be saying tt these r wat i want n not her, rite?
coz Everyone has a different set of definition for love.
do u know hers? how abt urs?
in battles, guyz know practically everything abt their enemies so as to win the battle n stay alive....
in love, it's like a battle as well.....how can u win when u hardly know ath abt her likes or dislikes? wat she sees in her bf?
Heard this saying rite?
'When u r confident, u've won half the battle....
when u r not, u've lost half the battle'
Make a choice....be one to leave this to fate....OR
be the one to control ur fate....
*BE IN CONTROL AT ALL TIMES...BE FOCUSED AT UR TARGET -
Originally posted by Seventh_Signs:hmmm devil funny meh with this line? ... Just glad that you're learning from it... Take your time...?
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Originally posted by reallieRAW:
Hmm..... ~PonderZ...~
Do u believe tt love is blind?
i dun mean here tt u r blinded by her love but love blinds u fr other things besides love.....
Wat is love anyway?......loving her with all ur heart?
Wat can u do for ur love?....be by her side everyday?
Wat kind of love she wants fr u?......ur presence or ......????
How can love lasts?......ohhh...i juz live for the moment....???
In my opinion, love allows a person to grow n learn fr his/her life.
I expect the ONE to help me see beyond the present....
let's say the future....his ambitions....etc...
U'll be saying tt these r wat i want n not her, rite?
coz [b]Everyone has a different set of definition for love.
do u know hers? how abt urs?
in battles, guyz know practically everything abt their enemies so as to win the battle n stay alive....
in love, it's like a battle as well.....how can u win when u hardly know ath abt her likes or dislikes? wat she sees in her bf?
Heard this saying rite?
'When u r confident, u've won half the battle....
when u r not, u've lost half the battle'
Make a choice....be one to leave this to fate....OR
be the one to control ur fate....
*BE IN CONTROL AT ALL TIMES...BE FOCUSED AT UR TARGET
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all i know is. U need to make her make some scarifces for u .
Sorry for bad spelling
when she has done some major things for u then MAYBE u can mange to keep her -
Maybe...?Originally posted by john hunter:all i know is. U need to make her make some scarifces for u .
Sorry for bad spelling
when she has done some major things for u then MAYBE u can mange to keep her -
Lying beside you here in the dark
Feeling your heart beat with mine
Softly you whisper
You're so sincere
How could our love be so blind
We sailed on together
We drifted apart
And here you are by my side
So now I come to you with open arms
Nothing to hide
Believe what I say
So here I am with open arms
Hoping you'll see what your love means to me
Open arms
Living without you
Living alone
This empty house seems so cold
Wanting to hold you
Wanting you near
How much I wanted you home
But now that you've come back
Turned night into day
I need you to stay
So now I come to you with open arms
Nothing to hide
Believe what I say
So here I am with open arms
Hoping you'll see what your love means to me
Open arms -
Haiz,
what to do.
In the end , end up heartbroken.
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I been rejected again .. but with a more clear answer... she sms me...
'U STILL DOESN'T GET THE POINT. IT DOESN'T MAKE ANY DIFFERENCE WHETHER I'M WITH ANYONE OR NOT COST I DON'T FEEL ANYTHING FOR U MAH.'
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