relationship problem... =(

• hisoka

  2 Apr 07, 19:52

  Originally posted by papercut87:

  thank you mystee for the wake up call...
  
  and the rest for their kinky suggestions
  
  im an innocent young girl..
  
  pls dun pollute.
  
  

  i never give kinky suggestion or pollute
• Gackt247

  2 Apr 07, 19:53

  Originally posted by papercut87:

  wtf?

  U dont know abt the family tree ah?
• Gackt247

  2 Apr 07, 19:53

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  i never give kinky suggestion or pollute

  Ok.. i agree tt u r not kinky.. n will nv be..
  
  But u r a pollutant.
• papercut87

  2 Apr 07, 19:54

  dunno leh.... not involved... hahaha
• Pitot

  2 Apr 07, 19:55

  Originally posted by papercut87:

  dunno leh.... not involved... hahaha

  can haha tat means not so sad already la.
  
  cheat my feelings.
• hisoka

  2 Apr 07, 19:56

  Originally posted by Gackt247:

  Ok.. i agree tt u r not kinky.. n will nv be..
  
  But u r a pollutant.

  so are all of us unfortunately. humans pollute as a way of life.
  
  and yes i also confused and dunno about the family tree thingy
• Gackt247

  2 Apr 07, 19:57

  laugh laugh is good.. laugh at hisoka and peetoot is better. laugh at ah lua is the best.
• papercut87

  2 Apr 07, 19:58

  i still wan to castrate him!
• hisoka

  2 Apr 07, 19:59

  Originally posted by Gackt247:

  laugh laugh is good.. laugh at hisoka and peetoot is better. laugh at ah lua is the best.

  
  i heard about some buayaing here and dragging pple in to the water too wor.
  
  anyway yeah go ahead and laugh
• Pitot

  2 Apr 07, 20:00

  aiya, sometimes there is 2 sides to the story..
  
  lazy to explain n speculate. but this kind of stuff not worth ur time la.
  
  learning on how to foccus n STOP making SILLY mistakes in ur papers are more impt.
• hisoka

  2 Apr 07, 20:01

  Originally posted by papercut87:

  i still wan to castrate him!

  
  
  gogogo!!
  
  ut do note that if you regret then it will be too late
• Gackt247

  2 Apr 07, 20:15

  Originally posted by hisoka:

  
  
  gogogo!!
  
  ut do note that if you regret then it will be too late

  wei.. looks who's talking here.. juz a while back u wanted to castrate ah lau..
• bladez87

  2 Apr 07, 21:06

  Originally posted by papercut87:

  finished crying. seems like he told his friends another story, that i need alot of showering and all that. in the first place i din even ask much.. i dont even talk to him or the phone (cuz he doesnt like), in the day at most exchange 5 smses, at night jus talk on msn. weekends dont go out cos he gives tuition, weekdays just meet once or twice a week. i let him have his own social circle and i dont ask questions abt who he is gng out with and etc. if he calls that attention seeking den f**k it, cos i tried to be an understanding gf in the past and now, i got NTH TO SAY.

  would ruhua help?
  
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bozyGvL7CWc
  
  just to get you started
  
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BLlIDUFmTJo&NR=1
  
  well. start afresh ba.
  2 sides to a coin...rmb that
• Saint Valentinian

  2 Apr 07, 21:48

  Heyz..im sorry to hear about your relationship..somehow..reading it
  reminds me a lot of my own past..don`t be discouraged or sad gal..
• papercut87

  2 Apr 07, 22:57

  Originally posted by Saint Valentinian:

  Heyz..im sorry to hear about your relationship..somehow..reading it
  reminds me a lot of my own past..don`t be discouraged or sad gal..

  care to share?
• bladez87

  2 Apr 07, 23:19

  Originally posted by Saint Valentinian:

  Heyz..im sorry to hear about your relationship..somehow..reading it
  reminds me a lot of my own past..don`t be discouraged or sad gal..

  wow! u registered longer than me! and your posts! lol
  
  well people! learn from the past! welcome the future! no point dwelling over the past, and making your life miserable!
  
  let me quote from a famous man.
  
  you cant see whats infront of you when you are looking behind.
  and you cant move on, if you keep looking back...
  
  btw that famous man...is yours truly
• bladez87

  2 Apr 07, 23:20

  o ya. memories are supposed to be beautiful, not sad.
  learn the lessons, and forget the sadness.
• hisoka

  2 Apr 07, 23:23

  Originally posted by Gackt247:

  wei.. looks who's talking here.. juz a while back u wanted to castrate ah lau..

  hey scissors can be used for more than just cutting it has a flat side too
• ilovethesun

  3 Apr 07, 04:17

  Originally posted by viciouskitty74:

  Okay, here's what i just mentioned to some friends back in Singapore.
  
  it seems they are of the following disposition. And here's my observation.
  
  their boyfriends are lovey dovey with them long distance thru the phone and internet.
  
  And the ladies are kinda keep defending their boyfriends. They keep telling me, that their boyfriend is truthful with them, telling them things, and are lovey dovey with them.
  
  One even went to the extent to pretend to want to fly the girlfriend over to USA to live with him, but somehow, the airticket got cancelled by the airline. (I dont believe it for the moment cos I know how this e-ticket thing works.)
  
  Anyway, the ladies do suspect that their b/f are using them, but against my suspicion, they rather believe that their b/f is true.
  
  Here's how I lay down the facts.
  
  Females likes the idea of being in love. It gives us a high & females are more emotionally attached.
  
  Men likes the idea of females being in love with them, it gives them the high that they can string any females around until they find their one true love to which they will forsake everything, even family.
  
  (And yes....even if they are married, they will later 'realise' he was only making do until his ONE TRUE LOVE show up.)

  You cant be MORE RIGHT..
  
  PLus,
  dun even need to be his friend or be there for him as a FRIEND
  because you dun even see him as a friend.
  why hurt urself more?
  
  let time heal the wound, and be frienu oNLY after you are prepared to , and your hearts tells you there's nothing more you expect from him..
• Devil1976

  3 Apr 07, 11:41

  Originally posted by mir4cle:

  grr..thats why i say, guys suck

  
• Devil1976

  3 Apr 07, 11:45

  Originally posted by papercut87:

  for now, its wise not to be friends with him ba.. but i think it'll be a waste if we can't be friends in the future.. we can click very well.. wavelength very similar...

  Then I shall remind you that you'll probably be taking other risks as well... Could be quite a handful in fact...
  
  Anyway, it's your own life and I shall just leave the decision to you...
• Devil1976

  3 Apr 07, 11:55

  Originally posted by papercut87:

  im SUPER dulan!!!!
  
  

  Why even bother...
  
  

  Originally posted by papercut87:

  finished crying. seems like he told his friends another story, that i need alot of showering and all that. in the first place i din even ask much.. i dont even talk to him or the phone (cuz he doesnt like), in the day at most exchange 5 smses, at night jus talk on msn. weekends dont go out cos he gives tuition, weekdays just meet once or twice a week. i let him have his own social circle and i dont ask questions abt who he is gng out with and etc. if he calls that attention seeking den f**k it, cos i tried to be an understanding gf in the past and now, i got NTH TO SAY.

  I think it's good that he can make your heart die even easier...
• bladez87

  3 Apr 07, 12:09

  ah the devil has spoken...
• Devil1976

  3 Apr 07, 12:28

  Originally posted by papercut87:

  i still wan to castrate him!

  Is that really necessary..??
• rainee

  3 Apr 07, 12:37

  forget about this guy.
  
  he will look for you when he needs companionship, and when he doesn't you wun even hear from him. and when you want commitment, he refuses to agree to it.
  
  classic case. i have had an ex like this before as well and i dumped him as soon as he tells me that he wants companionship only, and not commitment. and i have not regretted my decision ever since
  
  you will meet a better guy in the future, just like me