Is it ok for guys to touch gal's hair/head
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Are you over-demanding? You'll have the answer should you not be hitched by whatever age you think you should be. Failing which, you can give dating agencies a shot...Originally posted by farnee:I think everyone must be very puzzle why i reject all the advance ?
Well in my heart i thought it's abit not sincere to hook a gal who you know and some sort of buddy to you. I will prefer him to tell me he like me or etc.. first then such a advances on me.
Well some gals may feel its ok .. but definately not me, coz my pride told me he is not sincere.
Am i crazy or wat ? Or am i over-demanding for such treatment ?
You guys tell me ? Tks
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to TS..
in my culture or religion is rude to touch a person hair/ head..
so better becareful of who u touching. -
depend on the girl...
for guy it is okay... -
wad cultureOriginally posted by spycampers:to TS..
in my culture or religion is rude to touch a person hair/ head..
so better becareful of who u touching. -
Dear TS, the more I read abt what your colleague did to you, the more I have the impression that he's in LUST with you, not love.
I cant judge accurately though, coz I havent seen the way he reacts to you with my own eyes.
But really, the way he treated you at Zouk and asking you to rent a bedroom in his hse etc, sounds too...forward. What do you think?
Maybe one day, you can tell him your 'beliefs' that you believe in celibacy before marriage. See his reaction. (this is gonna be good..heh)
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Yes my dear..Originally posted by Jerina:Dear TS, the more I read abt what your colleague did to you, the more I have the impression that he's in LUST with you, not love.
I cant judge accurately though, coz I havent seen the way he reacts to you with my own eyes.
But really, the way he treated you at Zouk and asking you to rent a bedroom in his hse etc, sounds too...forward. What do you think?
Maybe one day, you can tell him your 'beliefs' that you believe in celibacy before marriage. See his reaction. (this is gonna be good..heh)
Continue updating your progress!
Thanks for everyone support in here. As i really need views from diff ppl before i do any judgement on him.
I will certainly update and i hope you guys will give your view in one or two.
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Last Friday he has officially left my company.
And after the office hours, he ask me out for dinner.
So we went for dinner, follow by playing pool. Which he teach me how to play.
Then after the evening, when i was in my train.
We were sms each other. And he told me,
" I will continue to contact you, and i am gonna miss you badly. I hope this will not be a good bye for us. Stay in contact ok ya ? "
My reply :
"Can i know wat the reason that you will gonna miss me ? "
I will miss your smile, clowning etc...
Oh as wat i guess, i dnt have the charisma to you. chey ! Deep in my heart, i though just give up on this guy.
He replied :
Please leh.. Though u r gd in 6 senses, how i felt for you. don't you know meh ? But it;s not the time yet lah...
I ask him what he mean by that but no reply.
I am kinda of lost as i don't know how i shld react.
Shall i made move to sms him, or wait for his act ? He is kinda of scare of relationship as what he told me. He is uncertain abt R/L.
Should i let this things just blow away ? Or made my first move ?
Or just play the waiting game for his respond ?
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Over demanding..Originally posted by walesa:Are you over-demanding? You'll have the answer should you not be hitched by whatever age you think you should be. Failing which, you can give dating agencies a shot...
I don't think so.. i am just being careful with my move.
At such place i am just afraid he might be havin a fling w me.. -
Originally posted by farnee:Over demanding..
I don't think so.. i am just being careful with my move.
At such place i am just afraid he might be havin a fling w me..
It's your life - so do whatever you think will leave you with no regrets. Afterall, there're no certainties in life, are there? You've got to take chances from time to time.Originally posted by farnee:I ask him what he mean by that but no reply.
I am kinda of lost as i don't know how i shld react.
Shall i made move to sms him, or wait for his act ? He is kinda of scare of relationship as what he told me. He is uncertain abt R/L.
Should i let this things just blow away ? Or made my first move ?
Or just play the waiting game for his respond ?
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Today he left for KL with his friends for short trip.
Likely to go for clubbing there, which of coz i know it's a good happening place for clubbing.
Before he left for KL, he reminded me to take my breakfast.
Sigh.. I kinda of miss his company for breakfast this morning, the feeling isn't very nice. I just feel that i kinda trap by his move of company, now he is gone i feel so sad
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Hehe . U super really like him huh?Originally posted by farnee:Today he left for KL with his friends for short trip.
Likely to go for clubbing there, which of coz i know it's a good happening place for clubbing.
Before he left for KL, he reminded me to take my breakfast.
Sigh.. I kinda of miss his company for breakfast this morning, the feeling isn't very nice. I just feel that i kinda trap by his move of company, now he is gone i feel so sad
Although we still contact thru sms but its diff.. sigh...
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huh.. really ah... you feel i really like him huh ?Originally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:Hehe . U super really like him huh?
Then i am in super deep shit.
Now he has a adviser friend who teach him how to hook me.
That day out of slip mouth, they told me about the guys "3 days rules"
Shit.. And i fallen for the trap. Humh...
3 days rules = Contact gal 1 day, and go missing 3 days.
sigh.. why is there such guys ??
I am very sad now don't know what to do
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been seeing your posting so far.
I think you are trap by urself. not him.
What you see and think are too small... only with him in picture.
tat y u get affected by him. Please have your own life and enjoy ur life. you will find world doesn't evolve with him only. And there are plenty of ppl that can suit you too.
Since he cannot commit... y bother bout him. there nothing so special bout him... the only thing make him special because u make yourself felt tat way.
Believe me... you will live more happily.
If yours, will be yours.. otherwise no point digging yourself deeper right?
Let him come and chase you if he really wanted. no need wait for him.
This kind of guy i guarantee you no good... want to hook a gal but no commitment? means irresponsible.
FYI, this is a perspective from a guy view All the best. -
Sry for hijack . Im kinda confused . What's commitment ? Such as devoted to her and not thinking abt other girls ?Originally posted by vivasg:been seeing your posting so far.
I think you are trap by urself. not him.
What you see and think are too small... only with him in picture.
tat y u get affected by him. Please have your own life and enjoy ur life. you will find world doesn't evolve with him only. And there are plenty of ppl that can suit you too.
Since he cannot commit... y bother bout him. there nothing so special bout him... the only thing make him special because u make yourself felt tat way.
Believe me... you will live more happily.
If yours, will be yours.. otherwise no point digging yourself deeper right?
Let him come and chase you if he really wanted. no need wait for him.
This kind of guy i guarantee you no good... want to hook a gal but no commitment? means irresponsible.
FYI, this is a perspective from a guy view All the best.
I actually like a girl now . My god sis then wanted to introduce a girl to me but i told her that im not interested , i just want to be with her (the girl i like). Is that commitment -
Originally posted by vivasg:been seeing your posting so far.
I think you are trap by urself. not him.
True and i agree that i am trap by myself. And wanting to jump out from that.
What you see and think are too small... only with him in picture.
tat y u get affected by him. Please have your own life and enjoy ur life. you will find world doesn't evolve with him only. And there are plenty of ppl that can suit you too.
Prehaps he is the only one that touches my heart after few years of "dead soulz"
Since he cannot commit... y bother bout him. there nothing so special bout him... the only thing make him special because u make yourself felt tat way.
Believe me... you will live more happily.
If yours, will be yours.. otherwise no point digging yourself deeper right?
Yes, will take note of this statement.
Let him come and chase you if he really wanted. no need wait for him.
He has started to respond by asking me out a few times, but i wonder if it's consider as chasing me ?
This kind of guy i guarantee you no good... want to hook a gal but no commitment? means irresponsible.
I agree with this. Wanna hook but when come to decision making he freak out. Tks for all the views. cheers
FYI, this is a perspective from a guy view All the best. -
To me commitment means to be with that special someone whole hearted.Originally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:Sry for hijack . Im kinda confused . What's commitment ? Such as devoted to her and not thinking abt other girls ?
I actually like a girl now . My god sis then wanted to introduce a girl to me but i told her that im not interested , i just want to be with her (the girl i like). Is that commitment
No more flirting/fling.
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Today i am kinda stuck with sms given by him, i don't know how and what to reply. The sms goes like this :
" u shld know i dont feel good about leaving company. I have to leave for better prospect somedays. But i'll really miss everyone and i will really miss you a lot. Hopefully we will stay in contact ba.. "
Coz i told him in the daytime, i feel sad abt his leaving and i don't like the feeling. And nobody know the future what will happen.
Now i am stuck don't know what to reply.
He say he have feeling for me but not time yet few days ago.
So i don't understand if hav feeling not time yet, then still give me such sms.
Made me feel very disturb.
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He is leaving singapore and never come back? His msg sounds like that tho.Originally posted by farnee:Today i am kinda stuck with sms given by him, i don't know how and what to reply. The sms goes like this :
" u shld know i dont feel good about leaving company. I have to leave for better prospect somedays. But i'll really miss everyone and i will really miss you a lot. Hopefully we will stay in contact ba.. "
Coz i told him in the daytime, i feel sad abt his leaving and i don't like the feeling. And nobody know the future what will happen.
Now i am stuck don't know what to reply.
He say he have feeling for me but not time yet few days ago.
So i don't understand if hav feeling not time yet, then still give me such sms.
Made me feel very disturb.
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No lah.. He is leaving for another company of higher post.Originally posted by Scania N113CRB luver:He is leaving singapore and never come back? His msg sounds like that tho. 
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ok u sound like u like him lots, he noes he hass stolen ur heart and is probably very flattered. especially if hes single he dont see any problem stringing along a gal to soothe his ego. if he really feel the same for u he prolly will ask u to be his gf liao. if he doesnt, hes just doing the ego-soothing routine with u lor.
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ya i agree. I can tell u frankly, as a guy he know u like him.
So you know wat this mean?
This mean, to him, u are not the one he like the most.
he treating u as a spare tire, in case he cannot find a gal he like then he choose you.
Y so pathetic to be in this state. As I say, stand firm, since he not making move just keep trying to drag u into this kind of 'grey area' What for.
Even he 'touch' your heart, but if he not a good responsible guy, i don't really advice u keep waiting for him.
Believe me, any guy can 'touch' your heart if you OPEN your heart to them.
Is your choice. Not he touch u but u make yourself get touch by him. e.g. giving him the opportunity to get closer to u, spend more time together.
As a guy's view, this guy no good. all the reply was try to flirt and keep you by side in case he's lonely and don't get the gal he want.
I believe you have your own uniqueness and beauty, why bother bout him
All the best. as I say, try go have your own life then you will know what i mean