Should I apologize?
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think there is nothing to apologise abt.
stop being a floor mat.
u know ur own worth, if someone can't recognise it. then forget abt it.
go for others. there are always someone who knows ur worth.
it might hurt initially but time will tell.
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i think shes not suitable for u.
oh well. who am i to judge.
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well.. i stop replying to her sms immediately. if she call me, i dare to say im busy.
for morning call wise, i told her i wont be able to wake up on time. and ask her to set alarm on her phone.
she is currently very cold to me cause of her actions. its the holiday. how far can she run? we'll meet next week. yea.. i promise i be nice.
yea.. it sure sux letting go someone u love. but i guess i got to do it.. -
If you think is your fault then apologise...
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hmm yea.. i've already apologise for my rudenessOriginally posted by soulwinner:If you think is your fault then apologise... -
i have a feeling she loves u
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but wad can i do if she insist of saying no..Originally posted by ItchyArmpit:i have a feeling she loves u
i cant force rite.. -
she just want to be friend with u...
why u avoid her, u have not done anything wrong...
let nature take the course....
then if can , be friend ...
thinking too much would not help u.... think of other more interesting things.... like today , where to go??? study and other more important stuff.... -
yea.. whenever im wih her i cant resist not thinking that she likes me but she just dont want to admit it.. especially with those turns of events.Originally posted by Sakuraflower:she just want to be friend with u...
why u avoid her, u have not done anything wrong...
let nature take the course....
then if can , be friend ...
thinking too much would not help u.... think of other more interesting things.... like today , where to go??? study and other more important stuff....
now i want to avoid her cause I'm guilty of that feeling and want to get rid of it.
afterall we still goin to be classmates this coming sem..
This morning she sms me asking me to give her a break till sch reopen.. I'll shall respect that decision for I need that break myself -
not only u are giving her a break but urself too.
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Originally posted by strado:I encountered this before. What happened to me in the end was, I quarrelled with the girl. Ultimate one. And we stopped talking for one month.
Its the same as you describe, awhile she want to talk to me but I ignore her, while she do the same.
You are just starting to get angry. For me, it happened many times. Like today ok already, tomorrow quarrel again.
Until the ultimate one.
But after one month, we are just normal friends. Sometimes talk, but rarely and we dont hang out anymore.
I've a feeling we are reaching the ultimate one..
I think you can try to talk to her again. I don't really know how yours will be like. -
well.. sch reopen. I tried to avoid her for first 2 days..
wed or so, we started talking again.
She gave me my long belated birthday present..
dont know why I should be too happy for it. but today, I find out smth interesting about the gift..
dont know whether im thinking too much or wad -
or she can be super close with me alone but infront of friends, she would treat me like a complete stranger
she dont feel like chatting. making me guilty as if i have done smth wrong.
cause currently the way i treat her and the way i treat my friends are 2 world apart..
so... you know how she feel after you saw this 3 quote from yourself? -
err.. no.. can share wad u think she thinking?Originally posted by popikachu:so... you know how she feel after you saw this 3 quote from yourself? -
a good chat between you 2 at a right time when you both have already clam down will be good...
talk things about your love towards her, then how she make you feel she distance away form you and make you feel you did something wrong...
then, its good you are willing to say sorry... so, a word wont kill right? sorry is a powerful word... like how i please my customers when saying 'sorry' even if i am not wrong...
and you 'avoiding' on her may cause her get the same feeling as you did... she may feel she did 'something wrong'...
but, you both may or may not did something wrong... just that you dont know what happen between you both and you 2 imagination may run wild...
so, getting things clear may be a good solution... -
err.. no.. can share wad u think she thinking?
haiz, my com siao siao i cant see any quote button on my screen!!!
ma de...
then i used the quote myself lor...making me guilty as if i have done smth wrong.
you scard that you done somthing wrong so her keep her distance from you right?
and now you,cause currently the way i treat her and the way i treat my friends are 2 world apart.. [quote]
for the past 1 week, i've been keeping quite. keeping my distance from her.
so you are keeping your distance with her also right?
so you know the feeling of someone keeping a distance with you...
you still need more explanation?
what i think you have done wrong and she did not...She did ask me wad happen.
did you ask her what happen when you feeling things are not ok? -
You are a spare tire.
Frequently, girls keep this kind of spare tire.
I used to keep several like this.
But have no intention of falling in love with them.
Because they are convenient when we need them.
Because they are conveniently discarded when we don't need them.
Because no commitment involved on our part, because we didn't force them to be our spare tire, they did it willingly.
They are simply, just CONVENIENT.
They allow us to feel like a spoilt princess.
They give in to all our whims and fancy.
We love Spare tires !!!! -
apologise!!!!!
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pikachu.. this things happen like 1 week ago..Originally posted by popikachu:did you ask her what happen when you feeling things are not ok?
now, me and her began talking like normal.. smsin like we used to..
but the thing is, am i thinking too much..
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ermm.. but spare tires wont be concern if u appear stress, late for class, got problem, remember your birthday, and buy u gift for ur birthdays..Originally posted by jojobeach:You are a spare tire.
Frequently, girls keep this kind of spare tire.
I used to keep several like this.
But have no intention of falling in love with them.
Because they are convenient when we need them.
Because they are conveniently discarded when we don't need them.
Because no commitment involved on our part, because we didn't force them to be our spare tire, they did it willingly.
They are simply, just CONVENIENT.
They allow us to feel like a spoilt princess.
They give in to all our whims and fancy.
We love Spare tires !!!!
unless im wrong and this are called work benefits -
wtf...
i still cant used my quote button!!!
haiz...
i think what she mean by spare tire is that the guys is treated as only a subsitution... -
wats so interesting abt it?Originally posted by ifish:dont know why I should be too happy for it. but today, I find out smth interesting about the gift.. -
now can see profile and edit button liao...
but quote button still missing!!!
haiz... manual quote...
good that you people begin talking like normal...
pikachu.. this things happen like 1 week ago..
now, me and her began talking like normal.. smsing like we used to..
but the thing is, am i thinking too much..
her action dont really match her words.
but your thinking is still not normal...
you have doubt to clear and she has her's...
she may be trying to forget your aviods towards her,
but you still clinging to her avoid towards you...
cus she did ask you why you avoid her,
but you didnt...
so a best thing to clear all your guessing and make her know what you are thinking during you 'avioding time' to make things clear...
and this will clear her doubt during that time... its was her doubt that cause her angry...
now for your doubt... you need an answer right? only she has an answer... so ask her for the answer!
ask why she avoiding you...
i think this may clear that inccident that has happen...
but for future step, like getting her to be your gf, that would be another thing le...
if she really got feeling for you, and no other people(third party) is interfering, go slow and steady...
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AN IMPORTANT NOTE
she may also treats you like spare tire...
but she may change...
so dun give up hope
AND dun hope too much
only you yourself can decide what to do...
we cant...
its your feeling...
and your guessing...
thats bring you troble...
so stop guessing your feeling about whats she in thinking and make everything clear...
a good talk is always a god solution...
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this is farking awesome.Originally posted by jojobeach:You are a spare tire.
Frequently, girls keep this kind of spare tire.
I used to keep several like this.
But have no intention of falling in love with them.
Because they are convenient when we need them.
Because they are conveniently discarded when we don't need them.
Because no commitment involved on our part, because we didn't force them to be our spare tire, they did it willingly.
They are simply, just CONVENIENT.
They allow us to feel like a spoilt princess.
They give in to all our whims and fancy.
We love Spare tires !!!!
made me feel like a dog now haH