i dont see a future in us. but i know i love herOriginally posted by SumOne:Honestly, I can't say for sure. Because of the way she treated me isn't how any normal girl would treat a good friend. But I knew exactly how I saw her and where I where I was headed where she was concerned. Basically, I knew I wasn't going to be 'the one' with her.
My main question to TS is how does he view the lady in question and what kind of future does he expect or anticipate with her?
Then how long do you think you can love her like that? I think you have doubts as to whether you can tolerate this kind of love, otherwise you won't be starting this thread. If you think you are content with just this level of love and acceptance with her, then by all means make yourself happy. But if it is really causing you so much anguish, then better to let go now as ultimately it will drive you crazy. If you truly want her for yourself, no way will you be able to tolerate being her stand in only for her to leave the next available option comes along.Originally posted by givemeluck:i dont see a future in us. but i know i love her
DonÂ’t waste your time and effort on this so-called relationshipÂ… there will be no outcome oneÂ…Originally posted by givemeluck:how do u guys feel when u know u are juz a spare tyre to her ?(she's attached) , or hopelessly continue this short term relationship knowing that one day she will leave u ? i seriously don't know what to do , i cant give up on her at this moment. i tried once to take a step back , but i go back to her again within a few days.
short and sweet(give up) or long and bitter(stay on) ?
i think it's better for u to move on.. staying on for someone who don't love u is hard.. i know the feeling.. but if you really want to be with her, try doing things to touch her.. but if she really dun like u, dun keep pestering her..Originally posted by givemeluck:how do u guys feel when u know u are juz a spare tyre to her ?(she's attached) , or hopelessly continue this short term relationship knowing that one day she will leave u ? i seriously don't know what to do , i cant give up on her at this moment. i tried once to take a step back , but i go back to her again within a few days.
short and sweet(give up) or long and bitter(stay on) ?
so jus tell her stop treating you as a boyfriend if she already have one! tell her she's really making you feel miserable!Originally posted by givemeluck:the problem is the way she treat me....its like treating me as her bf.
Nice.Originally posted by mistyblue:your personal choice.
my policy:
Don't play with other people's heart.
Don't let other people play with yours.
From my own point of view I would say yes. But anything you do, let it be from the heart. It should be something you want to do and not something you should do. Because where relationships are concerned, it's better to be true to the heart. I'm not saying to be selfish, I'm just saying don't over-compromise yourself.Originally posted by givemeluck:may i ask... have u guys sacrifice a lot just for love before ? some might think its stupid....
i had kind of gone thru the same thing as you. Trust me she is just a flirt and attention seeking bitch that want the men in the whole world to like them.Originally posted by givemeluck:i feel d@mn terrible whenever she is with her bf , the jealousy is there.
and sorry for being so "bo bo ma ma" cos i really can't make a decision , because whatever decision i made , it will be d@mn hurting.
and again , thx a million to those who gave me advice after advice . thxs a lot.
If you can't take it that she will be with someone else, then the sooner you move on the better. You will still hurt but at least it is only for 'short-term' and not 'long-term'. You're right, either way will hurt, so it's a matter of hurting for just now or always having to feel hurt.Originally posted by givemeluck:i feel d@mn terrible whenever she is with her bf , the jealousy is there.
and sorry for being so "bo bo ma ma" cos i really can't make a decision , because whatever decision i made , it will be d@mn hurting.
and again , thx a million to those who gave me advice after advice . thxs a lot.
It is about a choice.Originally posted by givemeluck:how do u guys feel when u know u are juz a spare tyre to her ?(she's attached) , or hopelessly continue this short term relationship knowing that one day she will leave u ? i seriously don't know what to do , i cant give up on her at this moment. i tried once to take a step back , but i go back to her again within a few days.
short and sweet(give up) or long and bitter(stay on) ?
look at it this way.Originally posted by givemeluck:i feel d@mn terrible whenever she is with her bf , the jealousy is there.
and sorry for being so "bo bo ma ma" cos i really can't make a decision , because whatever decision i made , it will be d@mn hurting.
and again , thx a million to those who gave me advice after advice . thxs a lot.