Date raped!
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i didnt mentioned any names did i?Originally posted by Quinsy:OI! I WAS NOT RAPED. MOLESTED. DON'T MAKE IT WORSE!
i was responding to the topic title.
If you were molested, i'm sorry to hear that, but please step up to report it to the police so that the molester is punished.
I suggest that all related topics to be closed. This is not an issue which the forum can do anything to help. -
PLEASE make the report, saying sorry afterr the deed is done doesnt excuse him , it just making excuses after the crime ...
he is still a criminal -
trying to get vital information on how to avoid getting parents involved.Originally posted by Space1999:PLEASE make the report, saying sorry afterr the deed is done doesnt excuse him , it just making excuses after the crime ...
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okOriginally posted by Quinsy:trying to get vital information on how to avoid getting parents involved.
anybody here can help her with retrieving the messages?please please help her. -
very hard and unlikely the police will not contact your parents, as you are still under 21 years oldOriginally posted by Quinsy:trying to get vital information on how to avoid getting parents involved. -
just make the police report, they can trace all message........Originally posted by Quinsy:trying to get vital information on how to avoid getting parents involved. -
Which is why I disagree with the manner in which some people are doing things even though their intentions might be good. Having said that, could I suggest that this thread be locked/closed?Originally posted by Quinsy:OI! I WAS NOT RAPED. MOLESTED. DON'T MAKE IT WORSE! -
well, first of all, you must realise that being raped or molested is NOT your fault.
if anybody's to feel embarrassed or guilty, it is the MOLESTER / RAPIST, not the victim!
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police will trace the message, i read a newspaper article before, that they can trace back the record........ and furthermore, you can even trace back the no. that you have dial before for the past 6 monthsOriginally posted by SumOne:Which is why I disagree with the manner in which some people are doing things even though their intentions might be good. Having said that, could I suggest that this thread be locked/closed?
Anyone with info about retrieval of messages please PM Quinsy directly or something.
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not too sure.. but she can try & call her mobile phone provider for more information if the sms is stored in SIM card.. if is stored in HP memory, then she has to call the mobile phone company, if is stored in external memory, likewise.. call the external memory company for help..Originally posted by Space1999:ok
anybody here can help her with retrieving the messages?please please help her.
but if she is gng to the police station, i tink the police has their way to retrieve the sms.. is shown on crime watch b4 that a person deleted all the picture in a memory card, but the expert in police force are still able to retrieve the picture.. -
You might realise by now that I'm not afraid of shaming. But I do want to avoid getting my parents involved.Originally posted by sgquitter:well, first of all, you must realise that being raped or molested is NOT your fault.
if anybody's to feel embarrassed or guilty, it is the MOLESTER / RAPIST, not the victim! -
very unlikely, they will not call up your parents, and the police will ask alot of question, so do be prepareOriginally posted by Quinsy:You might realise by now that I'm not afraid of shaming. But I do want to avoid my parents. -
hmm... is it better for her to go to a prof cousellor 1st? the cousellor will advise her abt it..Originally posted by allentyb:very unlikely, they will not call up your parents, and the police will ask alot of question, so do be prepare -
I don;t like the questions part. Cuz FYI, I've reported many cases before and it is getting sian. Which explains my reluctance to see my friendly policeman again. RAWR!Originally posted by allentyb:very unlikely, they will not call up your parents, and the police will ask alot of question, so do be prepare -
...........Originally posted by mystee:hmm... is it better for her to go to a prof cousellor 1st? the cousellor will advise her abt it..
go to nuh and they have professional cousellor over there, and i cannot comment too much, furthermore, if you want to make the police report, its better to make the police report, but she has to be mentally prepare that they will ask alot of question -
It's up to you. If you think it's really to the call for a police report, go ahead.Originally posted by Quinsy:You might realise by now that I'm not afraid of shaming. But I do want to avoid my parents.
If there is really a need for me to speak up, I shall account for the truth of what happened to defend myself. No, I'm not a saint. I don't see why I should sacrifice myself for others' account. -
don't have to go to the nearest police station, can choose different police station......................Originally posted by Quinsy:I don;t like the questions part. Cuz FYI, I've reported many cases before and it is getting sian. Which explains my reluctance to see my friendly policeman again. RAWR! -
......Originally posted by Quinsy:I don;t like the questions part. Cuz FYI, I've reported many cases before and it is getting sian. Which explains my reluctance to see my friendly policeman again. RAWR! -
are you suffering from trauma attack, and if you are, then proceed to the nearest A&E, and then they will assist you, and then it will be easier to make the police report........
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and you are still harrassing the victimOriginally posted by Devil1976:......
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Orh, go speak up lor. haiz.Originally posted by Devil1976:It's up to you. If you think it's really to the call for a police report, go ahead.
If there is really a need for me to speak up, I shall account for the truth of what happened to defend myself. No, I'm not a saint. I don't see why I should sacrifice myself for others' account. -
the verdict is out and its for people to decide for themselves and please proceed to the nearest A&E and tell them your problem, then they will assist you and you will have an easier time to make the police report, trust me, they are professional peopleOriginally posted by Quinsy:Orh, go speak up lor. haiz. -
he dont think you are going to make the report , in fact he is challenging you right now,Originally posted by Quinsy:Orh, go speak up lor. haiz.
please do make the report and see how he is going to explain this to his employers..
guess we will see him soon working at foodcourt, if they hire a sexual offender.. -
I very kan de kai de. I'm just scared of being stalked. Cuz someone said he's a stalker. Got me very scared.Originally posted by allentyb:are you suffering from trauma attack, and if you are, then proceed to the nearest A&E, and then they will assist you, and then it will be easier to make the police report........ -
But now is I'm afraid if I say wrong things how? Then later become I go jail!Originally posted by Space1999:he dont think you are going to make the report , in fact he is challenging you right now,
please do make the report and see how he is going to explain this to his employers..
guess we will see him soon working at foodcourt, if they hire a sexual offender..