quality of mods III
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Dear Chin Eng,
No wonder you post the way you do. Because you have 2 sons.
I'm pretty sure you would react very differently if you have a daughter.
My cousin used to talk like you, untill he becomes a father to a pretty little girl.
I used to teased him about many men will be lusting over his precious.
His reply is " I'll chop off their dick if they dare lay a dirty hands on her!!" -
Why dont someone consider that the victim have not opened her mouth.Originally posted by SumOne:Seriously, there were times VK had to be prompted to spare a thought for the victim. Go figure.
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I think you might not get what I was trying to say, and you may have missed certain posts and maybe some topics. In any case, my issue isn't exactly on how the case is fought. But it became a point where the fight was something else.Originally posted by jojobeach:Dear Sumone,
Everyone has their own way of fighting for what they believe in. Just because VK didn't carrying out her fight the way you want it, doesn't mean she is wrong.
So what is yours?I also see many response which are personally offensive to her which I feel is also uncalled for, and yet no one defends her. If it is purely personal and you are judging her based on her personality. Then unfortunately I cannot condone it.[/quote]
Well those kind of silly replies I choose to ignore and disregard them. Focus on the more relevant posts instead then.Everyone in this forums has their own agenda, if not this forum will not have existed and flourished till today.
VK has always had personal issues with Devil, even before the rumours/incidents/allegations/accusations happened. Since then she has looked for every oppurtunity to comment on Devil. She has even admitted to openly flaming Devil.Please, I cannot read your mind. So, if you so believe that VK has a hidden agenda. Be our guest, do let tell.
You may feel VK is standing up for the victim but as I said in earlier posts, if VK truly had the victim in mind, there were something things she wouldn't have done and certain things she wouldn't have needed prompting to do.
Sometimes, VK's posts against Devil compromise the good that is supposed to be done. For eg, her opening numerous threads only caused other threads of people genuinely seeking advice to be pused down. And as for VK's threads getting closed, it has been explained before.Sometimes the rest is rubbish, hence not worthy of mention. In your case, I see you strongly want to stand up for something, but the thing is what exactly are you standing up for? As mentioned before, I see a distinction between standing up for the victim and supporting VK.Indiscriminate postings is already rampant in this particular threads. So why do you chose to single me out ? Is it because I did not support your stand ?
You should tell VK that as well, she goes on an offensive mode sometimes when somebody else is just trying to inform her differently.Just because I do not agree with you does not make me your enemy.I kind of don't see the relation here now..... are you referring to the victim or VK?Everyone is entitled to defend oneself.
The funny part is, you seem to repeatedly judge others based on your own narrow opinion. Questionable or not is merely what it is.. questionable. Have you found the answer to it yet ?
Do not believe this world will conform to your beliefs because you say so. Conformity is detrimental to our safety and freedom. I hope you can understand that as well.
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errr.....how come I dont see you typing out against devil's unrelentless comments that it was a political ploy to down him and me being despicable blah blah blah (regards to advising the gal to step up and put up the police report?)Originally posted by SumOne:The warning was already given, VK went beyond that. Spare a thought also for the victim. Also, you must consider if VK's numerous threads and posting caused more harm than good. Blowing something big doesn't always mean it's good.
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And you know what is the personal issues involved? What pray tell, did I ever commn with you about?Originally posted by SumOne:VK has always had personal issues with Devil, even before the rumours/incidents/allegations/accusations happened. Since then she has looked for every oppurtunity to comment on Devil. She has even admitted to openly flaming Devil.
You may feel VK is standing up for the victim but as I said in earlier posts, if VK truly had the victim in mind, there were something things she wouldn't have done and certain things she wouldn't have needed prompting to do.
Sometimes, VK's posts against Devil compromise the good that is supposed to be done. For eg, her opening numerous threads only caused other threads of people genuinely seeking advice to be pused down. And as for VK's threads getting closed, it has been explained before. -
As mentioned already, you have made a wrong assumption where Chin Eng's stand on the victim is concerned. Also, this post of yours displays a lack of maturity or rather, it displays the same impulsiveness that VK has displayed at times.Originally posted by jojobeach:Dear Chin Eng,
No wonder you post the way you do. Because you have 2 sons.
I'm pretty sure you would react very differently if you have a daughter.
My cousin used to talk like you, untill he becomes a father to a pretty little girl.
I used to teased him about many men will be lusting over his precious.
His reply is " I'll chop off their dick if they dare lay a dirty hands on her!!"
In any case, this example is truly unnecessary and irrelevant to what Chin Eng and I are trying to tell you. -
did she ask you to start so many threads? esp one about date rape? Besides, we are not saying standing up for the victim is wrong. It's something else.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Why dont someone consider that the victim have not opened her mouth.
Did the victim request you or anyone to intervene on her behalf to spare her a thought? -
Why am I typing this again?
THREADS WONT BE OPENED IF ITS ISNT CLOSED PREMATURELY BY THE ATTACKED PERSON Who incidently, used the power of a mod to do so. -
If I have a daughter , I will teach her to do this if any chee kor pek dares take advantage of her.
1. SHOUT at him.
2. SLAP at him with whatever is on hand.
3. SCRATCH his face so the police can identify him later.
I personally will .
1. Find out where he lives so I can tell his whole family what he did.
2. Paste posters around his neighbourhood to embarrass him.
3. Go to his work place and tell his employer about his filthy ways.
4. RUIN his LIFE.
Don't mess around unless you can afford the punishments. Simple as that. -
That was my own thread, Whats that got to do with her?Originally posted by SumOne:did she ask you to start so many threads? esp one about date rape?
It portrays the same scenerio where sexual predators might operate.
Just because its was opened the same time, it becomes what you think was a biased comment that devil did the act?
And thus it was a flame?
Ask yourself, are you not being baised thus?
And it been fake? You really think the world only revolves with what you have seen only thus so far? -
I'll be leaving shortly, and I also don't intend to come back to sgforums anytime soon. But just gonna conclude certain things.
Enough has been said about VK, so I shan't add on.... VK will continue to show us what person she is and what she really stands for as she continues to post.
To jojo, you seem bent on taking the discussion elsewhere when Chin Eng and I are trying to tell you something else. And are making the same wrong rash assumptions that someone else previously was. From my point of view, I've said my piece already. If you wish to take the discussion in a different direction it's not my concern. In any case, I don't see a need to add anything or to clarify anything.
OVerall, I'm glad all this is contained to one thread now, so that the rest of AA can function properly. -
Was AA functioning well in the first place except to make friends and talk craps among a group of youths to spend their time?Originally posted by SumOne:I'll be leaving shortly, and I also don't intend to come back to sgforums anytime soon. But just gonna conclude certain things.
Enough has been said about VK, so I shan't add on.... VK will continue to show us what person she is and what she really stands for as she continues to post.
To jojo, you seem bent on taking the discussion elsewhere when Chin Eng and I are trying to tell you something else. And are making the same wrong rash assumptions that someone else previously was. From my point of view, I've said my piece already. If you wish to take the discussion in a different direction it's not my concern. In any case, I don't see a need to add anything or to clarify anything.
OVerall, I'm glad all this is contained to one thread now, so that the rest of AA can function properly.
Can we have the stats or have the AA posters advise the success rates of their receiving the advise here? -
Spare a thought for other people that you would be inconveniencing as well. If you end up doing more harm than good then what's the point? Spare a thought for others, not just your own personal vendetta.Originally posted by jojobeach:If I have a daughter , I will teach her to do this if any chee kor pek dares take advantage of her.
1. SHOUT at him.
2. SLAP at him with whatever is on hand.
3. SCRATCH his face so the police can identify him later.
I personally will .
1. Find out where he lives so I can tell his whole family what he did.
2. Paste posters around his neighbourhood to embarrass him.
3. Go to his work place and tell his employer about his filthy ways.
4. RUIN his LIFE.
Don't mess around unless you can afford the punishments. Simple as that. -
Bye all, I got to see a doctor. Clnic gonna close soon....
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Tsk tsk...Originally posted by SumOne:As mentioned already, you have made a wrong assumption where Chin Eng's stand on the victim is concerned. Also, this post of yours displays a lack of maturity or rather, it displays the same impulsiveness that VK has displayed at times.
In any case, this example is truly unnecessary and irrelevant to what Chin Eng and I are trying to tell you.
SumOne, I think you have problems communicating what you want to say.....
You want me to agree with you and hail Vk as the bitch and whore issit ???
Yeah lah.. Vk is boh liao , VK is retarded.. VK is irresponsible.. etc etc. ... happy ???
Please lah..... what are you trying to do ? Force your believes down my throat ??
Save it.
Like I said, I support what VK is doing.
If there is no wind there is no wave. Wu fong bu qi lang.
To other perverts out there, be warned !!! -
here it goes again.... ditzy won't win 4D for 2 consecutive weekends liao
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And you are still trying to say, that you are w/o a personal vendetta to advise me?Originally posted by SumOne:Spare a thought for other people that you would be inconveniencing as well. If you end up doing more harm than good then what's the point? Spare a thought for others, not just your own personal vendetta.
I ask again. Who are you, did you introduce yourself to me as a friend ever? Did you introduce yourself as to who you really are and are prepared to stand up for what you are preaching?
My personal vendetta, to meet people I disagree with and know them in person.
Do I know you? are you prepared to be known? Or like all others, preach, nag and insist on pushing people who disagree with you by means of your constant nagging?
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Okay...
it still gives me the impression.
that 'Yah, there is dust bunnies....but lets spare a thought for all the other room users using this room who will be patting their dusts from their jackets, keep it quiet and sweep them under the carpet.' -
SumOne ,
You must be a chee kor pek yourself. That's why you are so afraid of others making a hoo haaa outa such outrage of modesty acts. -
i have no personal quarrel with devil but i came in because i saw what he did was wrong from beegal to quinsy, we are talking about common morality and not closing one eye so the forum can "function properly"Originally posted by SumOne:I'll be leaving shortly, and I also don't intend to come back to sgforums anytime soon. But just gonna conclude certain things.
Enough has been said about VK, so I shan't add on.... VK will continue to show us what person she is and what she really stands for as she continues to post.
To jojo, you seem bent on taking the discussion elsewhere when Chin Eng and I are trying to tell you something else. And are making the same wrong rash assumptions that someone else previously was. From my point of view, I've said my piece already. If you wish to take the discussion in a different direction it's not my concern. In any case, I don't see a need to add anything or to clarify anything.
OVerall, I'm glad all this is contained to one thread now, so that the rest of AA can function properly.
if forum is functioning properly with a sexual predator as a mod , and you can be happy about it, say so much about you ... -
Coz he's not spamming it the way you are?Originally posted by viciouskitty74:errr.....how come I dont see you typing out against devil's unrelentless comments that it was a political ploy to down him and me being despicable blah blah blah (regards to advising the gal to step up and put up the police report?)
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errr....Spamming is more like hijacking people's threads to post one issue.Originally posted by ditzy:Coz he's not spamming it the way you are?
Like, if i have a qurral with devil, i go to the multiple forum to insert same issue into everyone's threads.
i spam mostly in my own threads leh.
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this was what i considered spamming.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=241829&page=0
You can best descibe it as spamming and flamming.
But I think I am considered to be flamming devil in his own forums. -
Spamming to me is the same threadstarter starting multiple threads either in multiple forums or just one with the gist of threads being similar in its agenda.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:errr....Spamming is more like hijacking people's threads to post one issue.
Like, if i have a qurral with devil, i go to the multiple forum to insert same issue into everyone's threads.
i spam mostly in my own threads leh. -
AA forum belongs to jason, just that jason made devil the mod. So technically, its not devil's own forum. Devil just suay suay happens to be the mod there.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:this was what i considered spamming.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=241829&page=0
You can best descibe it as spamming and flamming.
But I think I am considered to be flamming devil in his own forums.