Declared war. nO MORE tolerance
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tell ur boss. ask her n her bf to pack up n leave
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aiyah quarrel and fight la..
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Since you know that she dun like you, you can either
1) Talk to her nicely to see why she dun like you and if it's your fault try to change it
2) Ignore her and just like her be
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Originally posted by ilovethesun:
Buy your own microwave. That way no need to fight over a single microvwave oven. Go out to work seperately, take different buses, no need to wait for each other. I dun see the logic nor the need to wait up for each other.
OK i think u gave me a pretty gd perspective.
but .. i seldom use the [b]microwave. jus that day only.. coz my chicken is FROZEN like mad.. and i need to prepare my dinner ma.. .[/b]
In any case, two different sets of ppl will always have problems to live under the same roof, including own families. Even if you decide to have another room mate, this kinda problems will still exist. Worse still, if the new room mate has a history of being violent, just to get his/her way, i am pretty sure it's gonna be very hard and messy for both of you.
To live under the same roof, one has no choice but to give way to the other. If she dun wanna give an inch to you, sad to say, you'll have to give way. This is the Yin/Yang way. You might say, "why should I give way to this woman? who the heck does she thinks she is anyway?" Then too bad, there won't be any peace in this godforsaken union. You then have a choice, go live with someone else, and cross your fingers and do hope that the next person is kinder, gentler towards your needs. Not the kind that will raise hell for you, much, much worse than this current woman you're sharing the place with.
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Ya lor....make a pro-active decision then your problem will be no more lor.Originally posted by FireAndHell:Buy your own microwave. That way no need to fight over a single microvwave oven. Go out to work seperately, take different buses, no need to wait for each other. I dun see the logic nor the need to wait up for each other.
In any case, two different sets of ppl will always have problems to live under the same roof, including own families. Even if you decide to have another room mate, this kinda problems will still exist. Worse still, if the new room mate has a history of being violent, just to get his/her way, i am pretty sure it's gonna be very hard and messy for both of you.
To live under the same roof, one has no choice but to give way to the other. If she dun wanna give an inch to you, sad to say, you'll have to give way. This is the Yin/Yang way. You might say, "why should I give way to this woman? who the heck does she thinks she is anyway?" Then too bad, there won't be any peace in this godforsaken union. You then have a choice, go live with someone else, and cross your fingers and do hope that the next person is kinder, gentler towards your needs. Not the kind that will raise hell for you, much, much worse than this current woman you're sharing the place with. 
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Part and puzzle of life. Just take it easy. If you don't like to give and take then you shouldn't have share a flat with someone. The best is you share with someone you know who is not working with you. The lesser both party meets, the lesser sparks it would produce.
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TS, sorry to be crude, but i think her pu$$y is itchy...
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just stay away from her la...she shower, u watch tv..she cook, u shower...so easy...she got east, u go west...dun need to take bus wif her la..dun even need to wait for her. just go on ur own.
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just stay away from her la...she shower, u watch tv..she cook, u shower...so easy...she go east, u go west...dun need to take bus wif her la..dun even need to wait for her. just go on ur own.
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TS i think yours is a case of "familarity breeds contempt" becus when you live tog with another person for some time people tend to start cutting ends on courtesy and tolerance i know cus i live with a roommate in a hostel as well. But basic rules try to talk things over, secondly always remember basic courtesy on your part and if the person you are living with as too many differences that irreconcilable with you then it may be time you find a new roommate. Anyways good luck and try to resolve and talk things out
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Aiyo, see prove my point. Girls girls girls... Before you two can stay together, meaning you guys must had got along well. esp since sec sch, then work together, then stayed together... I guess you are more of a jealous of him taking her most of time time leaving u without company...Originally posted by ilovethesun:For those who have read about my prob with my *&^$* roommate
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We were on our way to work this morning. My watch shows 7.45am..
There she is.. " we're late already.. we missed bus b"
* bus stop A has the expensive bus fare and bus stop B has the cheaper bus fare* these 2 bus stops are about 20m apart.
" its 7.50 already and the bus B leaves at 7.43!" she told me
and i heard her say 7.53 instead of 7.43am. so i tot stil early ma. den she complain say my watch slow. okie fine lor. so we gotta take the more expensive bus fare at bus stop A.
Then she scolded me " I've been putting up with u and try to treat you as a friend. but (i duno wad she say. but implied that im a bitch)"
she blurted out 2 instances :
1) Microwave
" you're so selfish.. that day i wanted to contd coz my microwave stew not ready then you jus put in your chicken. CAnt you wait for awhile longer?
okie. this is a logical statement if we were realli late but wad dun seem nice is her attitude that once she is ready, we have to go! there are also times when i waited for her to go work wad.. big deal??
but i din refute her point. i jus say nothing coz the bus A here liaoz.
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at that point, bus B also here ( but the stop is 20m away) den i jus refute her " no.. we' din miss B wad. it's here! "
den she say " okie. den u go take that bus LA.. " and boarded bus A. (LOOK AT HER TONE MAN>> BLURDY IDIOT)
HUR. how ? i run there like a dog ar?? by the time i run there the bus also leave alreadi lor.
How come got such human ard? She dun see the parts where she inconvenienced me and gt mad over trival issues?
Okie if thats the way she judge pple but im just in shock that she can say such things and everything is like my fault. And to shout at me is totally beyond unstanding and i have been shouted at tis way since secondary sch triffle!
im damn damn pissed okie.. !!!
Ha cant believe i actually reply this msg. keke cheers