Betrayed by my best friend.
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I have this best friend from australia who visited Singapore one week ago and left yeaterday.
So we meet up a few times and went out shopping and movies and eating together.
My boyfriend was with me and her the whole of last week visiting Singapore tourist attractions and shopping centers.
My boyfriend drives a suzuki swift and a few times he went to pick my friend up or sent her home after our shoppings.
While checking my BF's e-mail today, I discovered that he and my best friends are e-mailing each other.
The shocking part is that in one of their e-mails....she discribed the night she spent in the rear seat of the car making love to my BF and she said that she really like my BF. My BF also replied that she is the one woman who can make him feel like a real man and like a pampered king.
WTF man....I am so pissed now....I want to burn my BG car to take revenge.
Any better suggestions? -
bad situation.
you might want to take some time out to to think what you want out of your r/s and what you want to do.
I really feel for your betrayal. -
yes
a better suggestion would be give ur bf one tight slap and break off with him
burn his car for wad, u wan eat jail rice? -
4ward a copy of this email to ur email that your bf have NO access to. Make sure the forwarded copy is not saved in the "SENT" folder, leave no tracks.
Then pretend pretend, leave your diary lying around with stories of yourself doing it with your bf's best friend. "Accidentally" let your bf see it.
When he confront you, ask him whether had he been unfaithful. Depending on what he says, I'm sure you can feel whether he is sincere. You'll know what to do then. -
ok this is a stupid suggestionOriginally posted by sonic_16:4ward a copy of this email to ur email that your bf have NO access to. Make sure the forwarded copy is not saved in the "SENT" folder, leave no tracks.
Then pretend pretend, leave your diary lying around with stories of yourself doing it with your bf's best friend. "Accidentally" let your bf see it.
When he confront you, ask him whether had he been unfaithful. Depending on what he says, I'm sure you can feel whether he is sincere. You'll know what to do then.
why are u making the TS look cheap -
Why do u think so?Originally posted by pierre^^:ok this is a stupid suggestion
why are u making the TS look cheap
It's not as if TS wun show him the email after that and clarified this is all planned. Just wanna let guys have a taste of their own medicine.
What will giving the bf one tight slap accomplish? -
because u say
"leave your diary lying around with stories of yourself doing it with your bf's best friend'
to get back doesnt mean she has to degrade herself with stories lidat ma
well i would tink the oni three possible choice ah
1) forgive and forget
2) confront and forgive
3) Confront and break -
Things like that happen.
Put a boy and a girl together and wham!
But who did what, did your best friend entice your bf?
Did your bf initiate the tryst?
You can drop your best friend from your list. She's history.
But your bf, he's different.
Did he stray, did he sucumb?
You got to know if you can trust him again.
This, only you can feel.
If you can't trust him, dump him.
If you feel can trust him in future, then make him pay for his mistake. Make him suffer, box his ears, poke his eyes, make sure that he will remember not to do it again.
Burning his car should not be ruled out. -
I feel in order to forgive, the bf must be sincere. How how you know he is or is not? That's why use my method lor....Originally posted by pierre^^:...
well i would tink the oni three possible choice ah
1) forgive and forget
2) confront and forgive
3) Confront and break -
Originally posted by mancha:
u got see the channel 8 movie SHI SAN BIAN
Burning his car should not be ruled out.
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the 4 boys burn down a motobike
and each kana 4 strokes and 1 yr+ jail i tink
though girl dun have to suffer the cane
but 1 yr + jail lei
nt worth it
so dun make a rash decision -
this is hell manz... nitemare for everyone in the world.. dont burn his car lar..
if me, i will confront him with his email.. c wat he say.. but no matter wat he say, i will still stay firm to break up with him..
as for y confront him since i have aldy made up my mind.. is to stand up & say something.. & not stay behind the scene and be a tortoise.
as for the b1tch... let her noe that u have noe how slutty she is.. tell her she can go ahead & use ur old shoe.. -
but TS haven't used it yet right....so not old...heheOriginally posted by mystee:...............
as for the b1tch... let her noe that u have noe how slutty she is.. tell her she can go ahead & use ur old shoe.. -
as long as she dump him.. is considered old shoe.. be it.. ur type of "use" or not..Originally posted by sonic_16:but TS haven't used it yet right....so not old...hehe -
wat are u waiting for?
go bed ur bf! -
Of course lah,Originally posted by pierre^^:u got see the channel 8 movie SHI SAN BIAN
the 4 boys burn down a motobike
and each kana 4 strokes and 1 yr+ jail i tink
though girl dun have to suffer the cane
but 1 yr + jail lei
nt worth it
so dun make a rash decision
"burn the car" is to let her know that she is angry and has a right to show it.
I know she is sensible enough not to literary do it. -
Hi TS,
Even if you burn his car, he can always buy another one. But you have to eat black bean rice for doing that like some of advises earlier. It's not worthwhile.
I'd advise you to confront your bf and find out the truth. Trash things out. If you cannot stand the truth that your bf did such a thing, break off with him. I must remind you. That if he can do this once, are you sure he never did it before your Australia friend? And after your Australia friend will he do it with another person? If what you typed is exactly what happened. I don't think your bf is trustworthy. A very dangerous person to be with.
Many years ago, I've had such 'friend' before. We were motorbike rider friends and always like to roam around on our bikes in the night. One night he asked me to go out with him to settle somethings. He went to 3 different places and had to settle his problems with 3 different girls regarding their abortion. I was probably asked to go along in case he would be beaten up. And also none of those 3 were the gf he had that I knew. This same guy went to hospital to visit me one night and stole another patient's Nokia8210 (it was the latest phone at that time) and then he refused to admit. I suspected he was the one who did it when being confronted. The patient sleeping next to the victim pointed at me and said "That guy lah! his friend stole it!" Making me look like is accomplice. A lot of nonsense went on until this 'friend' ended up kneeling down in front of the victim to beg him not to call the police. Anyway I've broken off all contacts with this guy.
According to what you typed, your bf can easily fall into this category of people. Guys or girls will just want to stay out of reach from this person. Continue this relationship or not is your choice.
But I hope you will make the best decision for your future. Good luck! -
as u can see...most of us KNOW that burning the car isnt gonna help anything...u burn his car, he buy another car n another girl to do...i tink u shld ditch him...from what he sends the girl, he obviously didnt care much of how u wuld feel...get another boyfren, get another best fren....u deserve better...
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i agree you give him a tight slap and walk away. he does not deserve you shed a tear for him. you have to thank him that you saw his real character before you commit anything. you deserve a better person. what is your so call best friend? does your best friend regard you as one?
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I second that!!!Originally posted by pierre^^:yes
a better suggestion would be give ur bf one tight slap and break off with him
burn his car for wad, u wan eat jail rice?
the thing with your bf and ur 'friend' is like a 'forbidden love' thingy...
Break it off with BOTH of them!!! -
no everyone is ur fren... revenge? no need la... u can revenge by leaving him, getting a better bf then live happier life than him...Originally posted by libbytan:I have this best friend from australia who visited Singapore one week ago and left yeaterday.
So we meet up a few times and went out shopping and movies and eating together.
My boyfriend was with me and her the whole of last week visiting Singapore tourist attractions and shopping centers.
My boyfriend drives a suzuki swift and a few times he went to pick my friend up or sent her home after our shoppings.
While checking my BF's e-mail today, I discovered that he and my best friends are e-mailing each other.
The shocking part is that in one of their e-mails....she discribed the night she spent in the rear seat of the car making love to my BF and she said that she really like my BF. My BF also replied that she is the one woman who can make him feel like a real man and like a pampered king.
WTF man....I am so pissed now....I want to burn my BG car to take revenge.
Any better suggestions? -
hmmm....Originally posted by sonic_16:4ward a copy of this email to ur email that your bf have NO access to. Make sure the forwarded copy is not saved in the "SENT" folder, leave no tracks.
Then pretend pretend, leave your diary lying around with stories of yourself doing it with your bf's best friend. "Accidentally" let your bf see it.
When he confront you, ask him whether had he been unfaithful. Depending on what he says, I'm sure you can feel whether he is sincere. You'll know what to do then.
that will only make the TS look Spitefull....
I say retain your pride and dignity. Slap him, and leave him!
meanwhile, TS, take care... I know it hurts, I know it hurts BAD!!! but remember, you are stronger than that!!
you'll live, you'll move on, and you'll DO BETTER!!!
PM if u just wanna rant... -
slap them, leave them.
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Really sypmathise with you. Lose both your Best Friend and boyfriend at the same time.
Aiya, forget and and move on. At least now you know. Break up cleanly or such things will eat away at you. -
checking bf emails or sms is a big no no though, but im sure u do that because u are in secure?
where is the TS anyway -
sometimes i really wonder.. is it rite to check?Originally posted by tek_koh:checking bf emails or sms is a big no no though, but im sure u do that because u are in secure?
where is the TS anyway
if not, how would we know if we are betray? u think the guy will come & tell us he betray us?
r/s is abt trust.. tat y TS trust his bf to send her frnz back... but end up.. they cheat behind her back..
so to trust or not?