Betrayed by my best friend.
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1. Be Strong
2. Control your anger
3. Think clearly before action
4. Think of the bright sides... better now then later
5. Let go of the negative emotions you feeling now..cos they are destructive
6. Cheer up -
Hi Libbytan,
How are you feeling now? What is the situation? -
This problem. I don't know. How to handle.
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If you can handle these problems.Originally posted by hudax1:This problem. I don't know. How to handle.
You won't be sitting behind the screen already.
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some of the worst situation anyone could get himself/herself into.. hope you get over it. you do what is right but dun do anything that would break the law please.
btw, your 'best friend' is nothing but a shallow hearted b.itch..please try to refrain from calling her a 'best friend' anymore, my normal friends are probably much better than her in terms of morality.. -
How did you manage to get access to his email?
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keylogger?Originally posted by strado:How did you manage to get access to his email?
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i feel so sad for u....
but why is your subject "betrayed by best friend"?
it seems to suggest to me that u feel more hurt that it's her who betrayed u...
but if its true, then dump your bf straightaway. i seriously doubt this is the first time he cheated on u, since he even dared to cheat on u together with YOUR best fren, with jus one week of knowing her, with u around somemore.
Dun bother to do anything to him. Jus take it that u provided the chance for him to find someone as cheap as him in your so called best fren. -
hmm no point dragging on..
Just break and delete all traces of him and yr best friend in your life...
this kinda people dont deserved to be forgiven.. -
try having fun wif another guy in the car loh....
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i am going to break off with him. No point to carry on when I have lost faith in him. will pour sugar in his car the day I told him the news. My friend taught me to buy one pack of sugar to pour into the engine oil cap. I want him to feel the pain of feeling betrayed by someone close.
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make sure the car engine is cool down first !!!!!Originally posted by libbytan:i am going to break off with him. No point to carry on when I have lost faith in him. will pour sugar in his car the day I told him the news. My friend taught me to buy one pack of sugar to pour into the engine oil cap. I want him to feel the pain of feeling betrayed by someone close. -
i got a great idea.
get his photo.
screenshot the email.
make a clone a/c in sgforums, hardwarezone any other local forum.
post it. den while chatting on msn. u show him the link.
let every1 noe is such a guy. -
hm .. shouldn't the title be
"Betrayed by my bf"? -
wow looks like someones car is gonna get caramelized..Originally posted by libbytan:i am going to break off with him. No point to carry on when I have lost faith in him. will pour sugar in his car the day I told him the news. My friend taught me to buy one pack of sugar to pour into the engine oil cap. I want him to feel the pain of feeling betrayed by someone close.
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Look at this in a Bigger ways, everyday, somebody in the world get betrayed and sometime by a close one. It is actually normal but be glad now u know ur bf's true colour.
Burning ur bf's car cannot erase the facts away. Aso not worth eating jail rice.U think carefully. New car can still be bought but ur time/life cannot be replaced neh.
Calm urself down and think carefully what to do next. Sometime, people tend to do stupid things that they regret, esp in their moment of anger.
i know u r probably sore, disappointed, pissed off but what to do~.. life goes on..
Time will heal ur wounds and u actually have better and more worthwhile things waiting for u. -
well, one tree down, time to look for another tree
the forest out there is full of much greener trees 
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chey it just a game. y take it seriously u him her is just a game
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got so many better choices..
take things in stride and get over with it..
find other better guys lor.. -
1.) Break up with him.
2.) Do not contact with your friend anymore.
3.) Post his pics around to warn others about him. -
Good.Originally posted by libbytan:i am going to break off with him. No point to carry on when I have lost faith in him. will pour sugar in his car the day I told him the news. My friend taught me to buy one pack of sugar to pour into the engine oil cap. I want him to feel the pain of feeling betrayed by someone close.
Decisions are either this or that.
You have to make them.
Thoughts of revenge should be just that. Thoughts.
They reveal how you feel. Let it be at that.
But do not carry them out.
When you said you feel like burning the car, I know how you feel.
I don't think you intend to actually do it.
Feeling angry is ok. Express your anger verbally and let it dissapate.
AFTER you dump him, forgive him, and forget him.
And get on with your life. Think forward, not backwards.
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Obviously... ok maybe... your BF has different values from you ...Originally posted by libbytan:I have this best friend from australia who visited Singapore one week ago and left yeaterday.
So we meet up a few times and went out shopping and movies and eating together.
My boyfriend was with me and her the whole of last week visiting Singapore tourist attractions and shopping centers.
My boyfriend drives a suzuki swift and a few times he went to pick my friend up or sent her home after our shoppings.
While checking my BF's e-mail today, I discovered that he and my best friends are e-mailing each other.
The shocking part is that in one of their e-mails....she discribed the night she spent in the rear seat of the car making love to my BF and she said that she really like my BF. My BF also replied that she is the one woman who can make him feel like a real man and like a pampered king.
WTF man....I am so pissed now....I want to burn my BG car to take revenge.
Any better suggestions?
If he is like that and does not intend to remain faithful to you... that gives you the freedom to date other men... then the two of you can have that kind of relationship where you two are free to sleep with each other's best friend. -
It's good to know that you have decided to let go of the relationship.Originally posted by libbytan:i am going to break off with him. No point to carry on when I have lost faith in him. will pour sugar in his car the day I told him the news. My friend taught me to buy one pack of sugar to pour into the engine oil cap. I want him to feel the pain of feeling betrayed by someone close.
Please, I really don't think it's worth doing what you are planning to do to his car. He has done the wrong thing by seeing another woman behind your back but it doesn't make it right for you to do nasty thing back to him (his car whatever).
I am not sure what kind of person he is, you might make him angry enough (for damaging his car) to hurt you physically.
Think about the consequences first. I know you're angry with him but do not let your anger lead you into doing the wrong things. Try to move on with your own life.
I am sure you'll find someone better somewhere down the track soon. -
u do that liao den move on hor.Originally posted by libbytan:i am going to break off with him. No point to carry on when I have lost faith in him. will pour sugar in his car the day I told him the news. My friend taught me to buy one pack of sugar to pour into the engine oil cap. I want him to feel the pain of feeling betrayed by someone close.
dun think abt it anymore and dun be said liao.
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hey that's my job!Originally posted by carlsonxjd:i got a great idea.
get his photo.
screenshot the email.
make a clone a/c in sgforums, hardwarezone any other local forum.
post it. den while chatting on msn. u show him the link.
let every1 noe is such a guy.