Am i very hum ji?

• Ichiban`

  13 Apr 07, 20:19

  Haiz,i got to know a girl during poly orientation camp and i got her number and msn because our whole group wrote their msn and number on a book.But i dun dare talk to her...
  i lack self confidence since secondary school days ever since pimples grow on my face.But now ok abit liao,pimple not so many already but i still lack the self confidence and courage to talk to other girls.Whenever they ask me something i juz say yes,no and dunno.haiz
  I feel i very hum ji,other people once get another gal msn and phone number start action liao but me still scared this scared that.Haiz...i scared talk to her den she dun want reply or suddenly tell me she got bf den next time inside poly meet each other both also pai seh.
  How?I really need serious help lor.Somemore i am a shy guy.Help please...
• jay_rocks

  13 Apr 07, 20:22

  u int in her not?
• ifish

  13 Apr 07, 20:24

  relax la.. still got 3 more years.. alot of time to know each other.
  
  but let me warn u.
  
  Dont shit where u eat
• Ichiban`

  13 Apr 07, 20:26

  i interested in her.haiz another 3 years and i think she will have bf already
• ifish

  13 Apr 07, 20:29

  Originally posted by Ichiban`:

  i interested in her.haiz another 3 years and i think she will have bf already

  then do it now.. both of u frm same sch?
  
  
• Y_Shun

  13 Apr 07, 20:30

  sometimes must be a little more 'thick-skinned'...
• Ichiban`

  13 Apr 07, 20:35

  ya same school
• nyox

  13 Apr 07, 20:40

  you want her, u must be hiong abit! learn to open up i guess.
• Ichiban`

  13 Apr 07, 20:44

  Maybe u all can teach me wat i should do first like how to start a conversation with her on msn or ways to talk to her all this....
• nOrmalbOi

  13 Apr 07, 20:49

  maybe u should ask someone to go xian this girl then u stand one side watch and learn?
• Eternal-fire

  13 Apr 07, 21:12

  Aiyo, dun hum lar. I last year also like you hum. Then hum for 1 year now still hum. Yeah now year 2 diff class liao, cannot get to see her liao. So this is what happen when you hum.
  
• Agenda

  13 Apr 07, 21:12

  give me her msn and number
• smudgey

  13 Apr 07, 21:14

  Originally posted by Ichiban`:

  Haiz,i got to know a girl during poly orientation camp and i got her number and msn because our whole group wrote their msn and number on a book.But i dun dare talk to her...
  i lack self confidence since secondary school days ever since pimples grow on my face.But now ok abit liao,pimple not so many already but i still lack the self confidence and courage to talk to other girls.Whenever they ask me something i juz say yes,no and dunno.haiz
  I feel i very hum ji,other people once get another gal msn and phone number start action liao but me still scared this scared that.Haiz...i scared talk to her den she dun want reply or suddenly tell me she got bf den next time inside poly meet each other both also pai seh.
  How?I really need serious help lor.Somemore i am a shy guy.Help please...

  TS, just TRY....
  
  
• ifish

  13 Apr 07, 21:49

  Just say hi on msn..
  
  then when she say yea or hi, just reply im bored..
  
  then let ur conversation flow normally..
  
  
• Quinsy

  13 Apr 07, 21:52

  Originally posted by Eternal-fire:

  Aiyo, dun hum lar. I last year also like you hum. Then hum for 1 year now still hum. Yeah now year 2 diff class liao, cannot get to see her liao. So this is what happen when you hum.
  

  ROFL.
  
  Mai hum, mai hum, mai hum, mai hum...
• gigabyte14

  13 Apr 07, 21:53

  wat poly?
  
  wat course?
  
  wat class?
• yihao93

  13 Apr 07, 21:55

  Originally posted by Quinsy:

  ROFL.
  
  Mai hum, mai hum, mai hum, mai hum...

  OH YEA
  my humps, my humps, my humps, my humps , my humps
  
• gigabyte14

  13 Apr 07, 21:58

  Originally posted by ifish:

  Just say hi on msn..
  
  then when she say yea or hi, just reply im bored..
  
  then let ur conversation flow normally..
  
  

  ya, something like that.
  
  den even if both of u were seperated, still can sms each other
• Ichiban`

  13 Apr 07, 22:09

  Later i say i bored,she say she busy den ask me dun disturb her how?
• Quinsy

  13 Apr 07, 22:12

  Originally posted by Ichiban`:

  Later i say i bored,she say she busy den ask me dun disturb her how?

  Don't say you're bored, get ready some questions to ask her instead. Like, do you have any nice music to share? My com crashed, now no music... can send some? And then from there you could start to ask like, what kind music you like? Or, I see you like hip hop, I like it too... etc etc.
• Eternal-fire

  13 Apr 07, 23:06

  Originally posted by Ichiban`:

  Later i say i bored,she say she busy den ask me dun disturb her how?

  Aiyo, why you think so much. The more you think the more you hum. Unless you like to get the emo feeling I am getting now.
• carlsonxjd

  14 Apr 07, 00:38

  ya. dun think so much. lol
  walk 1 step see 1 step.
  
• CannyOng

  14 Apr 07, 01:09

  Motivate yrself. Tell yrself what is so frightening of gal? She can't eat up ,right?
• ChingAlvin

  14 Apr 07, 01:27

  This type is confirm see pretty want to touch touch only.
• Herroin

  14 Apr 07, 01:28

  Your best chance would be now man. When everything just started, no one really know each other so it would be your best time to be friends with her currently. Everyone needs a buddy in poly. Most likely u will talk more often than others, hence knowing her better than others. Time to act man or lose it.
  
  Just add her on msn and msg her, chat with her 24/7. Got bf got 3 yrs to wait for opening right? lol if no then hit jackpot lo. No harm being friends while scouting for chances. Msn cant be that difficult right? then slowly hp then slowly go out etc etc.
  
  If you dont act now, and so happen she did not have a bf, then if later u come to know of that a poly fellow mate manage to woo her in such time. You sure to regret your behaviour now.
  
  Exta note: If you cant do it, PSYCHO YOURSELF TO DO IT
  
  Advice based on poly experience