Singapore Girls
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heard that there are alot more bad ones than good ones?Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:Well if you don't mess with people there you wouldn't have any problem with indecent people causing you any trouble. -
Actually I'd say there are a lot more good ones than bad from my experience. But the bad ones don't cause any trouble unless you're really asking for it.Originally posted by gigabyte14:heard that there are alot more bad ones than good ones? -
u dun haf to cause trouble...when others do n ur caught in the middle, thats bad enough...Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:Actually I'd say there are a lot more good ones than bad from my experience. But the bad ones don't cause any trouble unless you're really asking for it. -
That's why they have bouncers.Originally posted by darkhour:u dun haf to cause trouble...when others do n ur caught in the middle, thats bad enough... -
its not gona b of much help when they actuali start right in front of uOriginally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:That's why they have bouncers.
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let me bring u all through the clubbing guide. -
thats why its called.. Wrong place Wrong time.Originally posted by darkhour:its not gona b of much help when they actuali start right in front of u
U frequent anyplace that sells alchohol and loud music the chances are u may be caught in one.The more ppl , the higher chances. u want to be safe ? u stay at home. hang a disco ball in ur room n get a pair of headphones. -
"Why drink n drive , when u can smoke n fly ~!"
I totally agree with that statement. Cannabis is the plant of God
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U have just been enlightened... amen.Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:"Why drink n drive , when u can smoke n fly ~!"
I totally agree with that statement. Cannabis is the plant of God -
You could say the same about any activity then. Absolutely nothing is fun without an element of risk involved. And it's highly unlikely that you'd be caught in a barfight anyways and when u are u'll usually only end up with a bunch of bruises and maybe a bloody nose, nothing major.Originally posted by BadzMaro:thats why its called.. Wrong place Wrong time.
U frequent anyplace that sells alchohol and loud music the chances are u may be caught in one.The more ppl , the higher chances. u want to be safe ? u stay at home. hang a disco ball in ur room n get a pair of headphones. -
you're caught in a fight before?Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:You could say the same about any activity then. Absolutely nothing is fun without an element of risk involved. And it's highly unlikely that you'd be caught in a barfight anyways and when u are u'll usually only end up with a bunch of bruises and maybe a bloody nose, nothing major. -
thats where u are wrong. U stuff a room full of ppl with cards... they sit around n play cards. U stuf a room full of ppl with alchohol. I give it higher chances that something BAD is will happen.Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:You could say the same about any activity then. Absolutely nothing is fun without an element of risk involved. And it's highly unlikely that you'd be caught in a barfight anyways and when u are u'll usually only end up with a bunch of bruises and maybe a bloody nose, nothing major. -
Numerous times. And like I said, just some big bruises and a bloody nose. And those times were only because I was protecting my friend and he was the one who stirred things up.Originally posted by gigabyte14:you're caught in a fight before? -
Yes you're certainly right but everything involves risk. Alcohol may have a higher risk but hey, same with things like skydiving and bungee jumping and contact sports like rugby.Originally posted by BadzMaro:thats where u are wrong. U stuff a room full of ppl with cards... they sit around n play cards. U stuf a room full of ppl with alchohol. I give it higher chances that something BAD is will happen. -
ahhh... but there is no risk at the casino... you will lose to the casino in the end... for sure, no risks, it is a mathematical certainty...Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:Yes you're certainly right but everything involves risk. Alcohol may have a higher risk but hey, same with things like skydiving and bungee jumping and contact sports like rugby.
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Only idiots think they can truly win money at a casino. Most intelligent people who gamble realise that they will lose money, so therefore their mentality is that they pay that money in losses as part of the fun in gambling.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:ahhh... but there is no risk at the casino... you will lose to the casino in the end... for sure, no risks, it is a mathematical certainty...
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Originally posted by darkhour:actuali i mean the indecent people who go there...i dun mean all
if that's the case, u should not go into the army, that's where the prime evil is
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well i think you are right, i was really close with her in secondary school. but only kept casual contact after that, but i guess the change seemed drastic and sudden me because i only saw a few times after that. i still wonder what made her change.Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Beheld her as a woman embodied with angelic quality and perfection, but that's merely your perception. I am dead sure that your 'still-kept-in-contact' is but causal and superficial. Nothing too deep inside.
Chances are, you are not very close to her as well.
And that goes to show that you probably know next to nothing about her inner self, growth, experience and development of four years after graduation from secondary school.
Many things would have happen within this time frame and your perception of her is still the little girl at the age of sixteen. Of course there's much 'impression discrepancy' which you would need to update.
P.S: This has nothing to do with Singaporean Girls. Logically speaking, she cannot represent the entire woman folk as this is another isolated case. You may have a more prudent way of what woman should be and I am sure some woman wouldn't disagree with you, but that doesn't mean that your view is absolute to everyone.
Different people have different cosmic lesson in their life. That's how it always has been and will be.
Cheers
anyway no offense to singaporean (girls), i do understand that this cannot be a true representation of all girls. perhaps i am too disturbed by what has happened.
anyway i dont frown upon her clubbing, but her getting drunk and possibly getting into trouble was what worried me and my friends -
I would say there's no use getting worried for her, because it seems to me that she wishes to live her life like that. At risk, on the edge seems to be her motto when it comes to living her life. As friends, you can only advise her so much, but I doubt she will listen. If she had learned her lesson at all previously, then she wouldn't have get drunk, and get down and dirty with guys so much times.Originally posted by Nuad:well i think you are right, i was really close with her in secondary school. but only kept casual contact after that, but i guess the change seemed drastic and sudden me because i only saw a few times after that. i still wonder what made her change.
anyway no offense to singaporean (girls), i do understand that this cannot be a true representation of all girls. perhaps i am too disturbed by what has happened.
anyway i dont frown upon her clubbing, but her getting drunk and possibly getting into trouble was what worried me and my friends
I would say its not that spore girls are more open nowadays. Its just that we are the MTV generation, where we see on MTV, movies, tv shows etc that its ok to have flings, its ok to have sex with your gardener even if you are married, and that liking two persons at a time is ok, as long as you choose one in the end, and just say "Sorry" to the other person who wouldn't end up with you. Even our local TV stations are showing all these nowadays, so naturally people think its ok to do all these. In the end, there's no right or wrong, its what you believe in, and how firm ur beliefs are. -
I really feel her pain. All she wanted was a happy family and yet her parents could not give her that. It may be for the best but she had a hard time handling it. So sad...Originally posted by browniebaobao:i had a pri sch classmate also like that..
she used to be a v good girl fren of mine back then.
but, her parents' divorce really affected her drastically.
she went clubbing all the time, drink and sleep with guys..
juz to make herself numb.
but she's a good girl.. a kindergarten teacher.
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Everybody has a story you never noticed. She may have been influenced by peers. Or like what is illustrated in BBB's comments, she may have been affected by something drastic and it caused her to behave rather differently from how you portrayed her.Originally posted by Nuad:i have talked to many of my friends, alot of them seem to comment that singapore girls are now very wild, most of them complain that they (s'pore girls) are all now very materialistic, and um "open".
obviously this is generalizing, and i didnt really agree with them. until a few incidents concerning some female friends of mine.
well A , she was my good friend in secondary school, i actually liked A back then, its a ultra cliche liking-my-best-friend story (which was not successful). but i digress
i used to think she was angelic and the perfect girl next door.
its about 4 years later and we still are in contact, but some time last year when i was in camp(ns) for an open house, i was doing some duties when i recieved a call from a mutual friend of ours, he told me he needed to borrow some money, about $500, it was 530 in the morning, i was tired and pissed so i immediately refused. then i asked him why, he told me A was pregnant. his tone was serious, and i immediately squatted down on the ground and was thinking "WHAT!?" or "GAH!" i cant really remember.
well my mind linked it all up, to be pregnant , youd have to have had sex,
IMPOSSIBLE, i thought that was not possible with her, even worse i found out that she had gotten pregnant with an ex boyfriend, after they had broken up some months ago.
well its naive of me to think that she wouldnt have sex, but for me its shocking because i always picture her as the girl in secondary school.
but this may have happened because of lingering feelings with her ex, or so i thought, until oneday i went out with sec school pals for a gathering, i was walking with her in east coast, and she was telling me her escapades in clubs (i shall not elaborate), i was listening bewildered, what had possesed this once sweet girl?
then alchohol came, she started throwing herself at a guy. one of my good friends.
i took some of my friends who were more in contact with her aside, they said when they went clubbing with her once, she was dirty dancing with 2 guys at once, strangers.
and apparently she had went pretty far with that guy she was throwing herself at, at a chalet once held.
i slowly let it sink in, and the image of that girl i had once was destroyed no matter how i wanted to deny it.
so im wondering, are my friends right? are singapore girls like this? this is only one instance i admit, but she was the last i would expect that would be this way.and there i have other female friends like this too, perhaps i am too naive and this is the common thing?
or was i just holding some fantasy of her perfectness too much in my mind?
No matter how good or how bad the person becomes, we must NEVER be judgemental against that person. On the contrary, we must ask the person and seek to understand further given the appropriate timing and approach.
No one wants to give their body willingly or cheapens themselves unless in special circumstances.
Be patient. If you still regards her as a friend (be it she is angelic or not), you should treat her and respect her as one. Unbiased. -
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clubs are a breeding ground for vice, like smoking, drugs and what not. Most clubbers pick up smoking, girls notwithstanding. also clubs in singapore are like chimmneys, when will smoking ban be enforced?
now i go pubs only i think i too old or not suited for clubs anymore. i dont like inhaling tons of smoke, listening to pounding music, not really the dancing type and not being able to make conversation with friends.
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1) i always thought that the whole idea of clubbing is for those people who are in the vice trade, and those who want to be clients of vice. in western countries, clubbing is their folk culture, but in asia, especially singapore, clubbing is a subculture status kind of thing. i tell you, 100% decent girls and guys don't go to clubs or pubs or bars one.
dunno about you guys, but never in he|| would i go to bar/pub/clubs to look for girlfriends or whatever. if i want to visit bar/pub/clubs, i might as well visit Geylang.
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she muz b too stressed out or have a problem...
haiz... really pity her, my heart is crying out 4 her, if wad i
said above is true...