When Guys Cry

• Darkness_hacker99

  17 Apr 07, 01:30

  Originally posted by R3SsH|n:

  nope, when a guy cries, he is giving himself up to the situation. instead of crying and whining, he should pick himself up and deal with the situation.
  in fact, when you "appear" strong, you tend to get a morale boost and become stronger to a certain extent due to the image you are potraying.
  
  restraining emotions allows u to priorities and judge which part of the situation needs dealing with.
  the moment you cry, your mind starts to think that things are going downhill and all hopes will be lost.
  
  i agreed that crying is a way of releasing stress, but it should be done in private like "killing kittens"

  agree x2
• jondizzle foshizzle

  17 Apr 07, 01:35

  Originally posted by BadzMaro:

  are u guys for real ?
  
  real men dont cry.
  
  only little boys who want to win back the girl they cheated or just about to get @ss dumped cries like a baby n gets taken back. yup.. you al know what i say is true.
  
  While real men cry when thier momma or best friend croaks it.. or thier brother in arms gets his brains exploded right beside u in the battlefield . Or a pike sticking out from ur chest , n the excrutiating pain is just too much to even hold it in .. while ur drenched in hot oil and ur arms squashed under a 10 ton rock.. it hurts till tears start rolling out of your eyes.. its o.k.. to cry.. in pain>~

  Real men don't cry? I think you mean emotionally insecure and mentally unstable men don't cry.
• nyox

  17 Apr 07, 01:36

  the last time i cried was about 1 year ++ ago. when my father tio stroke and i couldn't bear to see him such a pitiful state. thankfully he's back to normal now.
• BadzMaro

  17 Apr 07, 01:38

  Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:

  Real men don't cry? I think you mean emotionally insecure and mentally unstable men don't cry.

  are u trying to say i am emotionally insecure and mentally unstable ?
• jondizzle foshizzle

  17 Apr 07, 01:47

  Originally posted by BadzMaro:

  are u trying to say i am emotionally insecure and mentally unstable ?

  If you don't cry then yes
• BadzMaro

  17 Apr 07, 01:50

  Originally posted by jondizzle foshizzle:

  If you don't cry then yes

  Read threads pls.
• allentyb

  17 Apr 07, 01:51

  
• shinta

  17 Apr 07, 07:48

  my take:
  
  guys are not supposed to cry in front of females who are already crying cos of some bla bla bla issues.
  
  quote from GTO dunno which book
  
  If i break down and cry also, won't it be very bad for u? if i fight back my tears, at least the situation dun look that bad
  
  
  
  wan cry also wait till the girl settle liao den cry
  
  
  
  its ok for guys to cry.... like when someone close or what pass away. but not when they have a paper cut
  
  
• alexkusu

  17 Apr 07, 07:51

  real men not afraid to cry
• Bontakun

  17 Apr 07, 07:53

  How about this:
  
  'Real' men don't always cry, but they are not afraid to cry.
• <Precious>

  17 Apr 07, 08:14

  A great way to comfort a guy shedding tears is simply to lay your hand on his chest or shoulder. It's very re-assuring................
• SGpork

  17 Apr 07, 08:36

  ill just ask him what happen..then either leave him alone or wait until hes ok
  
  but my guy frens dont cry lei usually..only the last time i saw that was like 4 years ago
  
  
• Mospeada

  17 Apr 07, 08:37

  Originally posted by alexkusu:

  real men not afraid to cry

  psssttt
  
  i heard alex cries very often