The love which hurt me deeply...
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Good for you! Glad you got it all sorted. Anyway, take this as a learning experience for everything happens for a reasonOriginally posted by chardz:Okay, end of story. Today just told her to leave me alone. Dont bother calling me anymore cause i am going to change my handphone number. I told her not to call me anymore.. And hopefully she's happy with that guy, though i noe she will not from the story she said. But from today, my life is my life. I promise i am going to get a better girl than her. A girl who loves me truly from her heart, her whole heart not just part of it.
FROM NOW ON, I AM GOING TO BE HAPPY, GOING TO FORGET HER, GOING TO TRAIN MY BODY, GOING TO DO ANYTHING WHICH MAKES MYSELF HAPPY.. !!
Take care! -
stop being a wu$$ and waste your precious life ...
never relinquish the whole forest because of a tree ....
stay positive and may you be loved by someone better
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Trust can only be given to someone worth it and not abusing it. Just like a unrepentive thief who keep stealing,forgiving him is useless. Once bitten,twice shy.Originally posted by chardz:This is the story of my relationship with a girl.
I can't forget her. This girl made a deep cut in my heart.
A friend introduced me to her 2 years ago. We started by sms and telephone, and studying together at a cafe.
After 3 months, I fell in love with her. I never realised how deep my love for her was until we broke up.
Although we often quarreled and often uttered the words "break up" it was not serious. One time she insisted on breaking up but because of my patience, she decided to give it another try.
On hindsight, I should have just let go then. The sad story continues...
She had kissed another guy while we were clubbing. Since she admitted that it was her mistake, I forgave her.
She admitted falling in love with another guy and again I forgave her.
I never once was angry or thinking of taking revenge to her faults.
I never also once, brought up those instances to agitate her because I believe in second chances. I gave her the freedom. Most of you people here wouldn't, based on what I read at this forum.
I allowed her to go out with another man on a 1 on 1 date, even though I knew that the guy is interested in her.
I believed letting her date other people would help her to realise that the one who is beside her is the one who really treasures her.
Isn't it funny how you know you are taking a big risk and yet you risked it sometimes? Maybe I took the risk because I was hoping that we can have a more mature and deeper relationship.
Based on my relationship with her and what I know, I knew that she did not really love me. I am still unable to face the reality that she left me.
Leaving me alone to face the disappointment of trying to build up the trust for each other for so many years. When she said she wanted to leave me cause her feelings are not there anymore, I couldn't believe that it was that simple and decided to find out more details.
I found out that she liked another guy. She met and went out with him when I was away overseas. She told me before that she went out with this guy, but cause of my trust and what she said: " I wont like this guy one " I did not object.
Who knew she would leave me because of this guy?
I am the guy who will love her, sacrifice everything for her just to make her happy. A guy who had been with her for years. A guy who was there when she needed him. A guy who trusted her and even though she break his trust again and again, who is willing to forgive and forget just easily.
Yet she did this to me, for a guy who just appeared in front of her suddenly just like that. That is the reason I curse those people that spoils other people's relationship.
She is still with the same guy and maybe happily so or maybe not.
Me? I am running away everyday with sadness and sorrow.
She knew that she and the guy will likely not end up well, but still she wanted to give it a try. I find it really really stupid for doing that.
However, I also found myself so stupid as to protect her again and again but she ignored it and took my kindness for granted. I told myself to leave her a few times so that she might learn her lesson.
As time goes by, my love towards her is becoming less and less and soon it'll fade away. But for now, my heart is fully with her.
I began to reduce my sleeping hours. I hate to sleep for I get nightmares about her and the guy laughing at me. I am unable to concentrate on anything I do, because I keep thinking of her no matter what I am doing.
My friends asked me once if she decided to come back one day, whether or not I will accept her. I think I will. I will even love her more and more. I will do anything for her. I will forgive her and continue to love her.
People say that loving someone is stupid. Being loved by someone is better.
I prayed and asked asked God to send her back to me. I don't want anyone else even if she is better than my ex. I just want her back by my side. I just want to love her. Sad
I know u are a sentimental guy but she will never appreciate yr love only until the day. U stop loving her and the day she realise her mistake and know u are the one for her that she will turn back for u. Isn't it ironic?
Both of u are not fate together. Move on bro! -
clap clap for Yun*
Threadstarter, this girl is not worth it.
Even tho u love her, even if she comes back to u again.. she will eventually leave u again if she finds someone new.
Dun waste ur time, dun drown urself in sorrow.. bcos she wun care.
Dun wait.. bcos the longer u wait, the more devastated u will be. -
hmm l read ur story...
and how should l say ah...let me put it simply to u
dun ever go steady with clubbing gals..
they are complicated people...tat is my perspective view. -
everything to me still bearable, but in red........come on man, forgive is ok but u must forget.Originally posted by chardz:This is the story of my relationship with a girl.
I can't forget her. This girl made a deep cut in my heart.
A friend introduced me to her 2 years ago. We started by sms and telephone, and studying together at a cafe.
After 3 months, I fell in love with her. I never realised how deep my love for her was until we broke up.
Although we often quarreled and often uttered the words "break up" it was not serious. One time she insisted on breaking up but because of my patience, she decided to give it another try.
On hindsight, I should have just let go then. The sad story continues...
She had kissed another guy while we were clubbing. Since she admitted that it was her mistake, I forgave her.
She admitted falling in love with another guy and again I forgave her.
I never once was angry or thinking of taking revenge to her faults.
I never also once, brought up those instances to agitate her because I believe in second chances. I gave her the freedom. Most of you people here wouldn't, based on what I read at this forum.
I allowed her to go out with another man on a 1 on 1 date, even though I knew that the guy is interested in her.
I believed letting her date other people would help her to realise that the one who is beside her is the one who really treasures her.
Isn't it funny how you know you are taking a big risk and yet you risked it sometimes? Maybe I took the risk because I was hoping that we can have a more mature and deeper relationship.
Based on my relationship with her and what I know, I knew that she did not really love me. I am still unable to face the reality that she left me.
Leaving me alone to face the disappointment of trying to build up the trust for each other for so many years. When she said she wanted to leave me cause her feelings are not there anymore, I couldn't believe that it was that simple and decided to find out more details.
I found out that she liked another guy. She met and went out with him when I was away overseas. She told me before that she went out with this guy, but cause of my trust and what she said: " I wont like this guy one " I did not object.
Who knew she would leave me because of this guy?
I am the guy who will love her, sacrifice everything for her just to make her happy. A guy who had been with her for years. A guy who was there when she needed him. A guy who trusted her and even though she break his trust again and again, who is willing to forgive and forget just easily.
Yet she did this to me, for a guy who just appeared in front of her suddenly just like that. That is the reason I curse those people that spoils other people's relationship.
She is still with the same guy and maybe happily so or maybe not.
Me? I am running away everyday with sadness and sorrow.
She knew that she and the guy will likely not end up well, but still she wanted to give it a try. I find it really really stupid for doing that.
However, I also found myself so stupid as to protect her again and again but she ignored it and took my kindness for granted. I told myself to leave her a few times so that she might learn her lesson.
As time goes by, my love towards her is becoming less and less and soon it'll fade away. But for now, my heart is fully with her.
I began to reduce my sleeping hours. I hate to sleep for I get nightmares about her and the guy laughing at me. I am unable to concentrate on anything I do, because I keep thinking of her no matter what I am doing.
My friends asked me once if she decided to come back one day, whether or not I will accept her. I think I will. I will even love her more and more. I will do anything for her. I will forgive her and continue to love her.
People say that loving someone is stupid. Being loved by someone is better.
I prayed and asked asked God to send her back to me. I don't want anyone else even if she is better than my ex. I just want her back by my side. I just want to love her. Sad
u have not seen the rest so why are u so sure she's the one