Made used by girls
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strongly agreed. despise guys that are just SO gentlemen only when there r girls around.Originally posted by dokono:I know I've said I will never post here again but Im still reading threads here and I still see guys having problems with women, hence my posting. It's very disappointing to see why our Singapore women posters have a certain mindset about guys like being "gentlemen, privilege to be used by the girl you like etc.. " No offence to you BBB.
Look guys, if you want to be a gentleman it has to be from your own character/personality, don't fake it just to win someone's heart, especially from a love interest. There's a limit to being a gentleman. When the situation calls for it, help. On the other hand, what about when the guy needs help, will the girl help huh? (talk about sexual equality!)
For eg. you know after helping her or being made use of, when you are of no more use, she starts being less friendly, then you know what kind of person you are dealing with. For me personally, I won't help her anymore. There's a saying "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me." I've got better girls to take care of.
Guys, it's ok to feel upset but don't take women personally. Some are nice and some are not so nice. But they operate similarly. When they dislike you, they will give all sorts of reasons not to be with you. Just bow out gracefully and continue on your next girl. There's absolutely no reason for you to keep harping on the fact she disappointed you. So what? It's done. You can't reverse time. Just be careful when you are dealing with the opposite sex. You never know why they treat you so nice. Don't get so excited when suddenly she calls you. Always be cautious and rational when it comes to relationships.
cheers.
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Just be yourself and treat the girl equally. A girl does not want her man to be a sissy and a pushover, she looks for someone who is stronger than her and can protect her if the need arises. To put it bluntly if a guy everytime bends over for her to use, what guarantee does she have that the same guy will not bend over when a stronger man comes along?
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If this happen to me I will make the gal return 100 times...
When I say it, I mean it...
Don't fool with me gal or you soul will be taken form you...
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Originally posted by Ah Cek:oh? u kena the rests except this one? very lugi worz...
aiya neber mind la. i ish helpful to eberyone one, to wad my limits permit. -
yalor, we cheapen ourselves to that state to being reduced to pathetic thingsOriginally posted by jojobeach:Guys, guys...
If you get "used" by a girl you like. It's a priviledge......yah.
So quit complainin, we didn't put a knife to your throat, did we? -
Lets take a vote shall we.Originally posted by browniebaobao:oh well, a true gentleman do it out of his will, and he's happy to do that.
a true gentleman wun think he is being made use of for doing all those things. get it? if u are not happy or not willing to do it, dun do lor. No one said u must do mah.
girls dun like hypocrites also. Some guys juz be a gentleman to impress, but in fact, they are just desperados.
A gentleman shall always do it out of his will rite?
who agrees with the sentence above?
I have been hearing this so often when girls want the to "used " guys.
So who have heard of this many times? -
hmmm..it appears that sometimes they like to use the word "gentleman" to suit their own agenda..for example asking the guy to drive her around.Originally posted by zeny:Lets take a vote shall we.
A gentleman shall always do it out of his will rite?
who agrees with the sentence above?
I have been hearing this so often when girls want the to "used " guys.
So who have heard of this many times?
Don't get me wrong la..if the guy feels that fetching her home is justified especially late at night, it's ok.
doko -
it must be tough on you bro...Originally posted by lonerjays:2) Sex -
maybe you are lucky few that were not cheated by girls?Originally posted by Ito_^:how come neber happen to me one? -
dont do it if u dont want to do it...
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may god have mercy on you
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please misuse me for sex
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Originally posted by yellowtofuwarrior:please misuse me for sex
u wont want that to happen to u if that person was a ugly one