i tink i like my brother
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i gona delete this post soon... so it wun get into the papers... haha
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Who wants joyanz to be your gf? Ask her to be your real sis and pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat her head till she love you
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Originally posted by Evanglion:Who wants joyanz to be your gf? Ask her to be your real sis and pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat her head till she love you
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i m nt a dog..................................Originally posted by Evanglion:Who wants joyanz to be your gf? Ask her to be your real sis and pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat her head till she love you 
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Originally posted by joyanz:i m nt a dog..................................
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bro laOriginally posted by joyanz:i m a gal... how can i bcome ur real bro? i can oni become ur real sis....
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i oso wan pat on my headOriginally posted by Evanglion:Who wants joyanz to be your gf? Ask her to be your real sis and pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat her head till she love you 
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giga..Originally posted by gigabyte14:i oso wan pat on my head 
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Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:giga..
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i wan joyanz to pat me
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i think someone gonna close this liao. quick. make your last +1Originally posted by gigabyte14:i wan joyanz to pat me
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LOL!Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:i think someone gonna close this liao. quick. make your last +1
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i love Ash cus he always pat my head...
then he used pokeball and say...
gotcha catch them all!
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ash got poke u or not? :-3Originally posted by popikachu:i love Ash cus he always pat my head...
then he used pokeball and say...
gotcha catch them all!
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Get yourself to the nearest psychologist and FAST!!! Before you 'zou huo ru mo'Originally posted by joyanz:i m 21.. he is 23... i hope is sibling feeling.... last time we get reali close i oso dun haf dis prob de... i forgot since when i got the heartbeats le... i tink got 3~4times le ba
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What you have is brotherly ADMIRATION.
It is a normal feeling and phase you go through in life.
Because you , yourself is growing up and getting more sensitive to your sensual needs.
I should say, you are going through a phase of "awakening".
And because you admire your brother and thus hope to see what you see as positive attributes in your brother to be present in your current boyfriend.
Good thing, this means you know what is good for you. -
I read all the posts here and I thought about it.. And I'm truly stumped.. My first question, what exactly is the difference between brotherly(family) love and normal bgr love? In the essence of it, I would think that it is actually quite similar. It's just that, the only difference I can think about is the sexual aspect of the matter. All of us have been brought up (culture and religion) to recognise absolute WRONG when mixing family relationships with sexuality. Incest is absolutely forbidden and morally wrong in our society.
Now back to the TS. There is not much difference in your "love" for your siblings and your bf/future husband. In fact I would think they are the same. You care for both your brother and bf. You want them to be safe. You want them to care for you. You want them to shower you with love. You want to be with them always and forever. But this next question to ask yourself would bring out the difference in the 2 "loves". With all due respect and not to humiliate or cause any embrassment to you, but do you feel sexually attracted to your brother? You don't have to answer. Just think about it yourself. You seem to like his touches. There is a difference in what you actually feel when you say you "like". If he touches you and you feel warm and fuzzy and comfort but not the extent of becoming sexually aroused, then I would think it is perfectly fine. But you have to be certain that deep inside your heart, you feel 100% sure that there is no way you want his touches to go further than just an inncoent non-sexual sibling contact. If there is a slightest bit of sexual attraction you felt from his touches, then you are looking at your brother in a different angle. You are not looking at him as a brother. You are looking at him as a man of your own. The man you want to love and at the same time desire to have a sexual relationship with, at which the thing that is stopping you from pursuing that desire is the very FORBIDDEN MENTALITY the society has embedded in all of us. I don't exactly know how you feel. Only you yourself know. But you mentioned something about your heart beating very fast. From my knowledge and understanding, these are signs of danger. You are probably doing the right thing to avoid him. It will take time for yourself to habitualise with the fact that your brother is after all your brother and he can go no further than that. You have to "scare" and remind yourself everytime your mind and thoughts wander off to that incestuous zone. Self-therapy you might call it but it might do you all right.
Disclaimer: No intention to cause any form of embarassment or disrespect to anyone. I'm open to views on my perception of brotherly love and bgr love. Please enlightened me where I possibly went wrong. Thanks!
TS: Gd luck! Be safe. -
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i agree that thre is no much diff btw the way i feel for my bro n bf... i wan them to shower me wif love.. i tink i m hafing a crash/admire my bro qualities. just like hafing a crash on a classmate or idol ba... coz i tink i m NOT sexually attracted to him at the moment.. maybe reali due to FORBIDDEN MENTALITY that is embedded in us since young, i feel abit er xin n funny tinking my bro in a sexual way... however this mentality does not stop me fr 'liking' my bro..Originally posted by dinky1409:I read all the posts here and I thought about it.. And I'm truly stumped.. My first question, what exactly is the difference between brotherly(family) love and normal bgr love? In the essence of it, I would think that it is actually quite similar. It's just that, the only difference I can think about is the sexual aspect of the matter. All of us have been brought up (culture and religion) to recognise absolute WRONG when mixing family relationships with sexuality. Incest is absolutely forbidden and morally wrong in our society.
Now back to the TS.There is not much difference in your "love" for your siblings and your bf/future husband. In fact I would think they are the same. You care for both your brother and bf. You want them to be safe. You want them to care for you. You want them to shower you with love. You want to be with them always and forever. But this next question to ask yourself would bring out the difference in the 2 "loves". With all due respect and not to humiliate or cause any embrassment to you, but do you feel sexually attracted to your brother? You don't have to answer. Just think about it yourself. You seem to like his touches. There is a difference in what you actually feel when you say you "like". If he touches you and you feel warm and fuzzy and comfort but not the extent of becoming sexually aroused, then I would think it is perfectly fine. But you have to be certain that deep inside your heart, you feel 100% sure that there is no way you want his touches to go further than just an inncoent non-sexual sibling contact. If there is a slightest bit of sexual attraction you felt from his touches, then you are looking at your brother in a different angle. You are not looking at him as a brother. You are looking at him as a man of your own. The man you want to love and at the same time desire to have a sexual relationship with, at which the thing that is stopping you from pursuing that desire is the very FORBIDDEN MENTALITY the society has embedded in all of us. I don't exactly know how you feel. Only you yourself know. But you mentioned something about your heart beating very fast. From my knowledge and understanding, these are signs of danger. You are probably doing the right thing to avoid him. It will take time for yourself to habitualise with the fact that your brother is after all your brother and he can go no further than that. You have to "scare" and remind yourself everytime your mind and thoughts wander off to that incestuous zone. Self-therapy you might call it but it might do you all right.
Disclaimer: No intention to cause any form of embarassment or disrespect to anyone. I'm open to views on my perception of brotherly love and bgr love. Please enlightened me where I possibly went wrong. Thanks!
TS: Gd luck! Be safe.
so nw i m constantly convincing/forcing myself to tink that i juz admire him as an idol or someting like dat n nothing more... in case these admiring turns into sexual thoughts.. that would spell disaster... i dun care whether is the past experiences of heartbeat gona relate wif the word 'love'... wad past is past... i m gona to stop all thes stupid thinking n wake up le... -
x2Originally posted by FocusPoint:Get yourself to the nearest psychologist and FAST!!! Before you 'zou huo ru mo' -
gigabyte14......Originally posted by gigabyte14:i wan joyanz to pat me
pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat
ENUFF??
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I also want
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Darkness_hacker99Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:I also want
pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat
ENUFF??
wah so many ppl like to be dogs huh? wan pat pat on the head... wahahha!!! -
Originally posted by joyanz:Darkness_hacker99
pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat pat
ENUFF??
wah so many ppl like to be my bro huh? wan pat pat on the head... wahahha!!!