How do we know who is right for us as a partner?
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Was reading at this thread and I think it apply here too.
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When it come to finding a good partner, the Indian (Hindu) astrologist come out tops. There are the best bet in the restless world like this is, where love is ended before its begun, and too many moonlight kisses, cool in the warmth of the sun.Originally posted by machiko:I've been thinking a lot, and my friend advised me that
In choosing a bf/gf, it has to be on an intellectual basis before it is made on an emotional basis.
"The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?"
"The heart is willful and is driven by its own agenda. It does not consider things rationally and intelligently.. it just loves to love!"
"Therefore we have the responsibility to have to point in the right direction"
And so comes my question.
What if there aren't those "in love" type feelings, but that person is the ideal type that makes sense as the perfect partner..
Maybe now we don't feel that way but a few years down the road we might change how we think and what we want in life.
Along with that, opportunities only come in once in a lifetime. If the decision isn't made now, the chances are that this person will not be there in the future.
I am very much a romantic, and I do know that feelings are not the most reliable.. especially when the demands of reality set in.
Any words of advice?
What do you think is important in finding a good partner? For my case, a serious boyfriend..
What are realistic factors that I need to keep in mind?
They have eons of knowledge, and their success rate is high.
Sri Lankan astrologist are also experts in this field.
They can tell you what you should look out for. -
Usually getting a kind and well etiquette guy shouldn't go wrong.....
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yeah, when it comes to predicting the right partner, they're probably one of the best in the field, apart from a number of other methods like flipping a coin...Originally posted by mancha:When it come to finding a good partner, the Indian (Hindu) astrologist come out tops. There are the best bet in the restless world like this is, where love is ended before its begun, and too many moonlight kisses, cool in the warmth of the sun.
They have eons of knowledge, and their success rate is high.
Sri Lankan astrologist are also experts in this field.
They can tell you what you should look out for. -
i think u haf to balance both ur mind n heart in choosing a partner...esp a life partner...im not sayin to match status n all those stuff la...but sometimes its like u knw that person n u haf reali different life views, like on how u all wanna live ur lives...issue on children, way of living, way of spending, life habits n stuff...if there r reali alot of contrasting views on these, then it may cause alot of trouble in the future...esp if ur gona haf kids, its gonna haf very adverse effects on them if a couple keeps quarreling...thats the realistic part of choosing...as for the emotional part, i guess its all in us la...whether u feel that he or she reali 'clicks' with u, whether he or she reali cares n loves u...its not the actions that make u emotional, but the feeling that the person gives u...i think actions r more of proof to tell urself or others that the person reali loves u...but on the emotional part i believe its still how he or she makes u feel..
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seriously..i dun think anyone has the answer....
everyone is unique...therefore there are unique answers....dun apply blindly what others say in the forum although they can be good reference points. -
ya .. hmm i look on the inside but i wonder if the gal i like look on the outside or inside thats wads buggin me
